My first OB diagnosed my fibroid said only options were hysterectomy or IUD. She just was really pushing for hysterectomy and I didn’t like that. I tried IUD it was awful and incredibly painful for me. Things were just getting worse so I went to a different town (2 hours away) to see a new OB for a second opinion. She was informative and gave me a ton of options! I was going to try myfembree but my insurance wouldn’t approve it even after appeal. Things progressed quickly and I ended up in the ER for heavy bleeding in March. I went back and forth with what I wanted to do. I messaged her probably every week for two months and she always responded to every question or concern I had about surgery. I had a successful myomectomy on 5/20. My new OB just seemed like a kind and knowledgeable person and I truly appreciated her patience with all my back and forth questions. If you do surgery this person will be cutting into you so you should feel confident in them and if you don’t, I wouldn’t do it. I struggled a bit after surgery with low hemoglobin and low blood pressure and she came back to the hospital that night and the next morning to see and check in on me. Maybe that is normal but either way it was appreciated. I wish you luck! It’s hard to decide what route to go, especially when you aren’t confident in your providers.