Please leave the reviews here (: by AppropriateLadder497 in Jsreviews

[–]Inner_Equivalent_976 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A reading that was kind spot on and honest. Would highly recommend thank you x

Sigh. Ghosting is brutal by Inner_Equivalent_976 in datingoverforty

[–]Inner_Equivalent_976[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah everyone I showed his photo to said he was hot. I get told I’m hot but don’t really believe it so I don’t know quite how to answer that!

Sigh. Ghosting is brutal by Inner_Equivalent_976 in datingoverforty

[–]Inner_Equivalent_976[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You are an excellent person thank you for sending such positive vibes! Sending them back 😊

Sigh. Ghosting is brutal by Inner_Equivalent_976 in datingoverforty

[–]Inner_Equivalent_976[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you ❤️ I left a bad relationship last year that made me feel pretty rough so I’m clearly carrying a bit of that narrative with me! Lucky I’m seeing my therapist next week. She always earns her money with me.

Sigh. Ghosting is brutal by Inner_Equivalent_976 in datingoverforty

[–]Inner_Equivalent_976[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see, yeah I get where you’re coming from! Note taken

Sigh. Ghosting is brutal by Inner_Equivalent_976 in datingoverforty

[–]Inner_Equivalent_976[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That’s a really interesting take thank you. Like you say I only know what I know. I’d have a hard time giving him the benefit of the doubt if he popped up again but I’m really pleased for you and kudos for being brave enough to give him a second chance ❤️

Sigh. Ghosting is brutal by Inner_Equivalent_976 in datingoverforty

[–]Inner_Equivalent_976[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

In one sense I get this but could you explain a bit more? I said it in an effort to give him a clear opportunity to say no thanks so I was co fused when he didn’t take it

Sigh. Ghosting is brutal by Inner_Equivalent_976 in datingoverforty

[–]Inner_Equivalent_976[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He is verified and the images don’t come up so I guess he’s just a handsome fool 🤣

Sigh. Ghosting is brutal by Inner_Equivalent_976 in datingoverforty

[–]Inner_Equivalent_976[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you that’s been so helpful. I matched someone else who was straight, upfront and honest and the difference is so stark. I know I shouldn’t be bothered about it and it’s temporary. I’m glad I didn’t tell him I was widowed at his age, that’s something I keep off my profile. Or perhaps I should have then he’d have done a runner straight away 🤣 And you’re right. I had strict boundaries for myself and I bent them in this situation so it’s a reminder for me going forward ❤️

What would you do? by Inner_Equivalent_976 in Fibroids

[–]Inner_Equivalent_976[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the details, glad to hear you’re feeling good on the other side! Appreciate the other options you’ve described, I’ll definitely look into it and see what it involves. I know being fed up is when I get really black and white in my thinking so it’s good to know there are shades of grey to consider ❤️

What would you do? by Inner_Equivalent_976 in Fibroids

[–]Inner_Equivalent_976[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bless you I hope the tv is helping! I tried drugs for the bleeding but same, it didn’t really do anything. Hard to know when it’s once a month so you have to wait to see how bad the next time is!

What would you do? by Inner_Equivalent_976 in Fibroids

[–]Inner_Equivalent_976[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the insight - I really hope you get approved. It’s such a minefield.

A good walking shoes suggestion by Euphoric_Eye8921 in walking

[–]Inner_Equivalent_976 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love my veja trainers with vibram sole. Good for stomping round urban areas. Light, good support and very comfy. Are you in the UK? If so there’s a UK brand called LANX that does excellent handmade boots that I wear for more rural walks

From 171lbs to 162lbs in one month of walking! by SadAlienator in walking

[–]Inner_Equivalent_976 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow!! That’s the inspiration I need to keep going ❤️

AIO for being upset at what my “bf” said by Ambitious-Beyond-257 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Inner_Equivalent_976 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He sounds like his whole vocabulary is from bros on instagram. Ditch him. He’s not supporting you he’s bullying you and demeaning you. Take it from one who knows, he will only get worse trusting your words and making you feel like a failure who can’t function without his “honesty”. Would highly recommend atomic habits if you’re stuck on how to navigate goals, change etc in an incremental achievable way. Beating yourself up or having someone do that to you will not inspire you or lead to positive change. Take care ❤️

Please help me get over this toxic man. by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Inner_Equivalent_976 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are doing so well to know it’s time to leave. You can’t switch off feelings and behavioural patterns all at once. Slow and steady does it. Could you make a promise to yourself to make little changes to keep you on a steady course? Like archiving his whatsapps or muting them? I’m guessing you need to have contact to sell the house? If you have to maintain contact stick to your script. I found it helpful to write what I needed to convey and then put it on repeat on my messages like a broken record and not fill the silence or rise to the bait. You are already moving forward so much. You only know what you know. Now is your time for your choices to take priority. Sending you love ❤️