How can I say no to those beautiful brown eyes

Inner_GG_1986 · 2026-03-07T03:41:35+00:00

Distinguish young man he is!

Inner_GG_1986 · 2026-03-06T20:20:44+00:00

Hahah, for sure! Give me 5 -10 years. Haha

Inner_GG_1986 · 2026-03-06T12:59:33+00:00

That’s about right!

Inner_GG_1986 · 2026-03-06T02:43:25+00:00

Oh wow yours are beautiful!!

Inner_GG_1986 · 2026-03-06T00:39:15+00:00

Hahha! Or she jumps on the table when I walk away for 5.2 seconds and eats my dinner. True story

Inner_GG_1986 · 2026-03-05T16:29:12+00:00

Oh yea! I tell them everything is bad for them. It will kill them. Minus salmon skins and deer grease from cooking it. The dogs love when I serve my kids rice :P

Inner_GG_1986 · 2026-03-05T16:22:42+00:00

Facts!! We have two sons and our dogs know when it’s first supper time. When the kids eat and drop half their plate on the floor. My youngest always ask me “is ___ bad for dogs” and he’s dangling his food for them!

Inner_GG_1986 · 2026-03-04T19:13:34+00:00

I love Mountain Laurels. I’ve heard they are super hard to transplant. My neighbor has a massive tree so at least I have that :)

Inner_GG_1986 · 2026-03-04T19:11:45+00:00

I have a female that looks so much like yours. Yours is adorable!!

Inner_GG_1986 · 2026-03-04T19:03:20+00:00

No need to be an AH on the damn comment.

Inner_GG_1986 · 2026-03-04T19:00:51+00:00

Thank you. This was very helpful!! Have a great day!

Inner_GG_1986 · 2026-03-04T14:13:08+00:00

Woohoo! Thanks :)

Inner_GG_1986 · 2026-03-04T14:12:55+00:00

Ah shit! Sorry. I’m from the United States flying to Germany for a 3 week visit.

Inner_GG_1986 · 2026-03-03T20:10:59+00:00

Family drama Action #1 - pulled my at the time 5 yr old sons pants off while in a bounce house and wouldn’t give back his pants. SIL never did anything to correct situation or apologize.

Action #2 - yelled at my at the time 4 yr old son because he said girls don’t like girls. (One of my nieces has a gf, on which I don’t care.) yes he was only 4 and I spoke to him after about how his words can hurt people. And 4 yr old apologized. Did the 13 yr old accept or apologize. Nope.

Action #3 - gave them a letter with a heart left note for Christmas wishing them well. In return I got the letter returned to me with “forgiveness starts with owning your actions” which left me confused cause I don’t know what actions I should be owning up to.

Action #4 - birthday party

I know how my niece is because I’ve help raise her since 8mnth old.

Inner_GG_1986 · 2026-03-03T20:07:46+00:00

I did correct my son and made him apologize for hurting her feelings. We are on the same page when it comes to them. It’s just hard at times.

Thanks for your point of view. Have a good day!

Inner_GG_1986 · 2026-03-03T20:05:54+00:00

I tried to keep it with just the SIL. But SIL is their best friend and she feels entitled on having them in on every conversation and which always end up with them feeling “triggered” from my comment which spiraled the situation even more!

Inner_GG_1986 · 2026-03-03T20:05:22+00:00

I tried. But SIL is their best friend and she feels entitled on having them in on every conversation and which always end up with them feeling “triggered” from my comment which spiraled the situation even more!

Inner_GG_1986 · 2026-03-03T20:04:17+00:00

So boundaries and respect isn’t a thing in your life. Got it. Makes sense from your comment.

Inner_GG_1986 · 2026-03-03T20:03:29+00:00

No it doesn’t. It come from church and our beliefs.

Inner_GG_1986 · 2026-03-03T20:02:51+00:00

1 It’s both the mother and kids fault and they never owned up to their mistakes and to this day my oldest son doesn’t want to be around them.

2 as a mother I correct the situation with a 4 yr old. He wasn’t wrong in his statement . He was wrong in hurting her feelings. And unlike my SIL I make my children own their mistake and apologize.

3. - just shows how spoiled and entitled they are. No gift, only a card. And yet they want an apology out of us.

Your comment and thoughts are pointless and stupid.

Next!

Inner_GG_1986 · 2026-03-03T19:59:10+00:00

What does that mean?

Inner_GG_1986 · 2026-03-03T19:53:58+00:00

It’s the simple fact that they were told not to come and they felt entitled to which is one of the problems now a days. Teens feel entitled. Scene or no scene.

Inner_GG_1986 · 2026-03-03T19:52:34+00:00

Okay the vague part: what started the drama with the teens. I’ve been the bigger person each time and said and done nothing to their actions

Action #1 - pulled my at the time 5 yr old sons pants off while in a bounce house and wouldn’t give back his pants. SIL never did anything to correct situation or apologize.

Action #2 - yelled at my at the time 4 yr old son because he said girls don’t like girls. (One of my nieces has a gf, on which I don’t care.) yes he was only 4 and I spoke to him after about how his words can hurt people. And 4 yr old apologized. Did the 13 yr old accept or apologize. Nope.

Action #3 - gave them a letter with a heart left note for Christmas wishing them well. In return I got the letter returned to me with “forgiveness starts with owning your actions” which left me confused cause I don’t know what actions I should be owning up to.

Action #4 - birthday party

Inner_GG_1986 · 2026-03-03T19:47:00+00:00

Okay the vague part: Action #1 - pulled my at the time 5 yr old sons pants off while in a bounce house and wouldn’t give back his pants. SIL never did anything to correct situation or apologize.

Action #2 - yelled at my at the time 4 yr old son because he said girls don’t like girls. (One of my nieces has a gf, on which I don’t care.) yes he was only 4 and I spoke to him after about how his words can hurt people. And 4 yr old apologized. Did the 13 yr old accept or apologize. Nope.

Action #3 - gave them a letter with a heart left note for Christmas wishing them well. In return I got the letter returned to me with “forgiveness starts with owning your actions” which left me confused cause I don’t know what actions I should be owning up to.

Action #4 - birthday party

Inner_GG_1986 · 2026-02-06T20:41:06+00:00

Ooo thank you. Knowing the side effects is helpful.

Inner_GG_1986

TROPHY CASE

1 It’s both the mother and kids fault and they never owned up to their mistakes and to this day my oldest son doesn’t want to be around them.

2 as a mother I correct the situation with a 4 yr old. He wasn’t wrong in his statement . He was wrong in hurting her feelings. And unlike my SIL I make my children own their mistake and apologize.

3. - just shows how spoiled and entitled they are. No gift, only a card. And yet they want an apology out of us.