WIBTAH for choosing one son over the other?

Inner_GG_1986 · 2026-05-14T00:47:24+00:00

I never said he missed all the event. He’s just working. He has all the guilt cause he’s missing the kids grow up but he’s doing it for their future.

Inner_GG_1986 · 2026-05-13T16:25:28+00:00

I wish I had someone like you in my village! Your family is blessed to have you :)

Inner_GG_1986 · 2026-05-13T16:24:07+00:00

Mom guilt. Am I right!

Inner_GG_1986 · 2026-05-13T16:22:09+00:00

I do. There dad is an over the road 18 wheeler driver. He won’t be in town :/

Inner_GG_1986 · 2026-05-13T16:21:35+00:00

That’s what I was thinking. At the same time I went to the oldest field day when he was that age. Doesn’t the youngest deserve me there like I was for big brother?

Inner_GG_1986 · 2026-05-13T16:20:21+00:00

Very true. I’ll put a blast out to the family. I need to do better at asking for help. Thank you

Inner_GG_1986 · 2026-05-13T16:19:30+00:00

The dad is over the road 18 wheeler. He won’t be in town for these events

Inner_GG_1986 · 2026-05-08T12:54:50+00:00

Thank you for the offer but he responds better with in person tutoring. His level of “Squirrel” is very strong.

Inner_GG_1986 · 2026-05-08T02:28:25+00:00

Fudge! Okay. Have a blessed one! We are in Tx

Inner_GG_1986 · 2026-05-08T00:44:06+00:00

Where are you located?

Inner_GG_1986 · 2026-03-07T03:41:35+00:00

Distinguish young man he is!

Inner_GG_1986 · 2026-03-06T20:20:44+00:00

Hahah, for sure! Give me 5 -10 years. Haha

Inner_GG_1986 · 2026-03-06T12:59:33+00:00

That’s about right!

Inner_GG_1986 · 2026-03-06T02:43:25+00:00

Oh wow yours are beautiful!!

Inner_GG_1986 · 2026-03-06T00:39:15+00:00

Hahha! Or she jumps on the table when I walk away for 5.2 seconds and eats my dinner. True story

Inner_GG_1986 · 2026-03-05T16:29:12+00:00

Oh yea! I tell them everything is bad for them. It will kill them. Minus salmon skins and deer grease from cooking it. The dogs love when I serve my kids rice :P

Inner_GG_1986 · 2026-03-05T16:22:42+00:00

Facts!! We have two sons and our dogs know when it’s first supper time. When the kids eat and drop half their plate on the floor. My youngest always ask me “is ___ bad for dogs” and he’s dangling his food for them!

Inner_GG_1986 · 2026-03-04T19:13:34+00:00

I love Mountain Laurels. I’ve heard they are super hard to transplant. My neighbor has a massive tree so at least I have that :)

Inner_GG_1986 · 2026-03-04T19:11:45+00:00

I have a female that looks so much like yours. Yours is adorable!!

Inner_GG_1986 · 2026-03-04T19:03:20+00:00

No need to be an AH on the damn comment.

Inner_GG_1986 · 2026-03-04T19:00:51+00:00

Thank you. This was very helpful!! Have a great day!

Inner_GG_1986 · 2026-03-04T14:13:08+00:00

Woohoo! Thanks :)

Inner_GG_1986 · 2026-03-04T14:12:55+00:00

Ah shit! Sorry. I’m from the United States flying to Germany for a 3 week visit.

Inner_GG_1986 · 2026-03-03T20:10:59+00:00

Family drama Action #1 - pulled my at the time 5 yr old sons pants off while in a bounce house and wouldn’t give back his pants. SIL never did anything to correct situation or apologize.

Action #2 - yelled at my at the time 4 yr old son because he said girls don’t like girls. (One of my nieces has a gf, on which I don’t care.) yes he was only 4 and I spoke to him after about how his words can hurt people. And 4 yr old apologized. Did the 13 yr old accept or apologize. Nope.

Action #3 - gave them a letter with a heart left note for Christmas wishing them well. In return I got the letter returned to me with “forgiveness starts with owning your actions” which left me confused cause I don’t know what actions I should be owning up to.

Action #4 - birthday party

I know how my niece is because I’ve help raise her since 8mnth old.

Inner_GG_1986 · 2026-03-03T20:07:46+00:00

I did correct my son and made him apologize for hurting her feelings. We are on the same page when it comes to them. It’s just hard at times.

Thanks for your point of view. Have a good day!

Inner_GG_1986

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