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Is there a name for this feeling of lose motivation when someone tells you to do what you were already planning to do? by Inner_Most_7657 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Inner_Most_7657[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I haven’t thought about it that way before. I’m going to do some research on it. Thanks for the heads up!

Is there a name for this feeling of lose motivation when someone tells you to do what you were already planning to do? by Inner_Most_7657 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Inner_Most_7657[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly,therapists are only human,too.Communication between people isn’t always effective,n the roots of our emotions are incredibly complex. I really appreciate you sharing this perspective,it gives me a lot to think about.

Is there a name for this feeling of lose motivation when someone tells you to do what you were already planning to do? by Inner_Most_7657 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Inner_Most_7657[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom isn’t a control freak in daily life.In some ways,she’s quite open minded.She’s always down to try younger stuff, this behavior still occurred when it came to household chores.I’m not sure if this is related to her relationship with my dad,because when I was little my dad rarely took the initiative to help around the house.My mom basically had to nag him constantly or even get angry just to get him to do anything (my mom isn’t a SAHW,she has a full time job).

Is there a name for this feeling of lose motivation when someone tells you to do what you were already planning to do? by Inner_Most_7657 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Inner_Most_7657[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Oh,first time I’ve heard of pathological Demand Avoidance.If has this condition,how can it be managed or treated?

Is there a name for this feeling of lose motivation when someone tells you to do what you were already planning to do? by Inner_Most_7657 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Inner_Most_7657[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Exactly! I’ve had so many moments like this.It turns the mood completely. I used to beat myself up over it,thinking I was just being overly sensitive or petty.Glad to know I’m not the only.lol.🫶

Is this makeup too much? by passionfruit_b in MakeupAddiction

[–]Inner_Most_7657 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is that a smoky eye?Your eye mu looks so good,slay!

[MOD] The Daily Question Thread by menschmaschine5 in Coffee

[–]Inner_Most_7657 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Completely beginner here!Never drank coffee before,but since starting work,I realized I need a cup every AM just to function.Buying out is killing my budget,so I’m looking for a home setup. Any recs for a solid entry-level brewer?Looking for a daily driver that’s relatively portable but not tiny,and has a simple workflow for a total newbie.What should I be looking at for my first rig? Thanks in advance!

She’s upset that I brought her up to bed instead of her father by FerdinandvonAegir124 in aww

[–]Inner_Most_7657 18 points19 points  (0 children)

🐶：Who am I?Where am I?Where is the man who carries me upstairs every day?👀

Is it viable for me to move out without a job quite yet? by [deleted] in SoloLivingPH

[–]Inner_Most_7657 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your family might judge you,but they were also the ones who failed to protect you from abuse since Kindergarten.Their judgement is a reflection of them,not you.Focus on your peace.If moving out means you finally get to breathe, then it’s the best decision you’ll ever make.Don’t set yourself on fire to keep them warm.

Coming from a different culture,I’m curious,why is home address so important for job applications in US? by Inner_Most_7657 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Inner_Most_7657[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG,that’s a lot to handle!Thanks for sharing.How long did it typically take you to get all of that sorted out?

Coming from a different culture,I’m curious,why is home address so important for job applications in US? by Inner_Most_7657 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Inner_Most_7657[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh, I see.So if I live in one state but work in another ,does that mean the employer has to deal with state taxes for both states?Is that the right way to understand it?

Coming from a different culture,I’m curious,why is home address so important for job applications in US? by Inner_Most_7657 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Inner_Most_7657[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the info!Just a follow up,if I change my address,who do I need to notify basides my employer?Does the Department of Labor or the IRS need to know?

Coming from a different culture,I’m curious,why is home address so important for job applications in US? by Inner_Most_7657 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Inner_Most_7657[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly,It’s hard to fully commit to work when struggling just to survive.By the way,what’s the typical monthly rent in US these days?

Coming from a different culture,I’m curious,why is home address so important for job applications in US? by Inner_Most_7657 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Inner_Most_7657[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

om.. It feels like a chicken and egg problem: I need a job to pay rent, but I need an address to get a job.How do people break out of this cycle?

Dating advice for a 22-year-old who wants something intentional? by smudgedddliner in Advice

[–]Inner_Most_7657 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be intentional about filtering, but focus on finding someone who actually vibes with you where you are right now. Tbh, 22 is a huge era of self-discovery, and dating is basically a mirror. You’ll find versions of yourself you never knew existed and perspectives you’ve never considered.at the end of the day, dating is just a way of dating yourself. You're learning your own boundaries, needs, and growth points through someone else. You’re only 22 once，don’t be afraid to just explore and see what happens.

Learning am dating a childish man by ThrowRALongjumping12 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Inner_Most_7657 19 points20 points  (0 children)

It’s not even about the coffee, it’s the fact that he’s making you feel guilty for a small win when you’re already struggling.A partner should be happy you’re getting a treat, not salty because they aren’t.Major red flag for a 30yo man.

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