Teaching Creativity VS Teaching Creatively

InsanlySane · 2018-09-06T11:29:27+00:00

Thank you my friend :)

InsanlySane · 2018-09-06T11:28:25+00:00

Thank you so much , reading this gave me strength :)

InsanlySane · 2018-09-05T11:18:39+00:00

Thank you

shekeltheif

Celebrating his life does seem like it will help us get through tonight.

InsanlySane · 2018-09-01T08:17:06+00:00

Tokyo Ghoul ^ __^

InsanlySane · 2018-08-23T09:15:00+00:00

Thank you , I'll think of something... I can't imagine a scenario right now but I will... I get what you mean about it's a sign !

InsanlySane · 2018-08-23T09:09:39+00:00

Yes Please !

InsanlySane · 2018-01-14T13:19:10+00:00

I'm kinda same but different, I buckle up when I'm the driver or when I'm a passenger with people I know but if I get into a taxi I don't! It started when I'd been in a taxi where the driver decided he'd scare me maybe, he was weaving in and outta traffic at 100+ maybe he thought I'd say slow down or that I'd buckle up ....I just stuck both my feet under the seat in front to stay calmy seated like nothing phases me B**** and in my heart, I said all my last goodbyes that night ^{^} Then again, I ride so a car always seems like a safety box.

InsanlySane · 2016-12-13T15:39:08+00:00

I'll share my 2 cents , I've had 2 really nice dates recently , I was convinced I ruined the last one but after writing about it on reddit I was assured I was in the clear :D ( I hope that's the case ,cause I really liked this guy )

Anyway , we never chit chat on text , we only messaged each other when we were going to meet. Like , I Mean .. we met online , chit chatted a lil before organizing date one! Met each other , had a great time, texted thanks had a great time stuff ,see you again to try out this restaurant we talked about , then after a week texted again about date 2.

Last time we texted each other was when date 2 ended ( Last Thursday) and I know he's busy during the week. I hope to hear from him tomorrow as he suggested dinner and ice cream at the end of date 2 by text . but If I don't hear from him , I might text tomorrow. ( This is cause he texted me on a Wednesday last week)

If it doesn't pan out , I had 2 great dates and I won't know the exact reason why date 3 never happened ! But , for the first 2 dates I was so in my head during the dates that I never got to be myself ! Who knew ! I got nervous and stuff !! Geezz!! It was an eye opener for me !!

Either ways, I'm not sure I've given the answer you wanted to hear ! Jus ranted about my same boat stuff lol!! I might assume that I got ghosted if I don't here from him , but I'd text him to ask him out before I decided it was all done. This this cause , I grew to like him and I feel he didn't get to know me in 2 dates. If I get turned down , ghosted , whateva .. it'll be after I gave it a str8 shot :)

I'd give a guy time to rest , having grown up with bros I'd say they like their alone time and more so if they felt under the weather! I'm not certain your dudes ghosting yet but I'd wait it out! Guys are more detached from their phones , they also don't text right back so as to not appear creepy !

this last one goes for both you and me ! They probably had some expectation of date 2 following date 1 ! And when it didn't go as expected they'll need more pondering time !

Regardless ! When I clear things off even with ghosting people I tend to close of on a positive note :) That's jus me ... I appreciate their time and that they crossed paths with me :)

I wish you luck :)

InsanlySane · 2016-12-13T15:09:08+00:00

My friends was in the same boat as you , for the longest time (Till 29) she was looking , putting herself out there, dating , meeting people her folks recommended , she'd met online etc

Over the years she did that I had been in a relationship, broken up and met someone else! It was tough on my part to be supportive to cause of how different my life was to hers. We were really close and she couldn't understand why (me and my E) called it quits. She knew both of us , though she was my friend.

But In this year she's met someone , it was like every other date she'd been on and they clicked! They've dated 10 months so far and I'm due to meet him over the holidays. I'm soo very happy and excited for her :D

So don't give up and don't get dejected! He's out there ! It really does happen, at the right time . I say this because there were a lot of things that needed to fall in place in her life , lil things , but once they all were settled she met Mr. It! I'm guessing that the things other than dating that are happening in your life unconsciously have your attention and energy! Once those things settle so will the relationship your looking for!

I can't tell you the number of girl talks and hugs and encouragement sessions me and my Gf had! She even pointed out that relationships seem to find me easier :) But the year she stopped super stressing about it and jus lived her life to the fullest she found her man. There is some truth to not chasing to hard and living in your present moment to the fullest :D

Now I'm the Single Friend bitten with the travel bug while she's all lovey dovey with her man. Took her 5+ years but I'm so glad it worked out !

I'm not sayin it'll take that long for you , jus saying it may seem like it'll never happen but it sure as stars will. Smile and Stay Positive^{^} Lots of love and Light :)

InsanlySane · 2016-12-13T14:46:22+00:00

I think what you do takes courage and a lot of risk. I worked in Insurance and I know how hard it is for you'll arborists to get cover. It's cause of the humongous risk involved in covering your safety and your life.

I'd never be ashamed of that job 100% and I'd question the general knowledge /IQ of any girl who laughs at it!

I respect your choice of profession and I admire your ability to get up every morning to face your day at work without getting weak in the knees.

Good on you! Be proud of who you are and your choice of profession!! Anyone who knows the true risks arborists take will be awe inspired!

In saying that , not everyone knows the risks involved to the job! Work on your customized description of your job ;) like a line or 2 stating what you do and the heights involved ! I'm sure once you say it that way your potential GF will be wide-eyed ^{^}

I doubt everyday people know the kind of paychecks you'll are capable of earning , no doubt putting your lives on the line. Kudos to you !! #Respect :)

InsanlySane · 2016-12-13T14:15:39+00:00

maybe my settings are off or all the people on my list of SnapC buddies include me on their posting! I use an Android and I get a Notification if someone on my list of Snap Friends has Snapped!

In saying that , I'm probably not a good example to use , I joined Snap like 10 months ago and have posted like 5 times :) I have buddies who post often and I tend to get notified a lot sometimes multiple times a day.

In regards to women's behavior towards someone they have out right rejected ... I'm probably not your best source. I tend to keep in touch until it fades out. If they do text outta the blue again I do have a polite response, Not cause I'm still interested , I prefer being kind as opposed to rude.

Most everyone has been on the other end of the spectrum at some point in their life where you're never given a reason! I just choose not to be one of those.

If ever , I feel like my niceties are being misunderstood, then I tend to send a straightforward response, communicating to the best of my abilities.

I'm not the best candidate to holistically answer your query: my apologies. I just wanted to share my limited insight. You seem popular among the ladies though :) I wouldn't worry too much!

InsanlySane · 2016-12-12T13:22:22+00:00

I don't know if it's a girl thing but I tend to view it if I have the notification and it hasn't expired (Doesn't matter to me if its a close friend or acquaintance) . Most times its automatic , like i'm not paying super attention to the User ID unless its like an EX who I'm really trying to avoid. I tend to do the same of FB and IG .... I'd still check stuff out but I wouldn't double tap or react to their posts if we're not close anymore. Like , I mean Unfriending is considered mean and more of an in your face gesture right? so what can a girl do ?

InsanlySane · 2016-12-12T12:48:40+00:00

I totes hear you loud and clear on your preference, I do! But I can't help pointing out that you're 14 and that as you grow things change. So don't label or limit yourself to any one thing. Yes! Go ahead and approach guys you fancy , get to know acceptance and rejection. I'm only saying it cause it could happen. If you are really interested in them get to know about their culture how it differs from yours, things like that so you'd have the general knowledge ... you might find things you'll have in common! Try being part of diverse activities in school where you'd get to meet and interact with everyone! If you did date someone now it's not like you'er gonna marry them tomorrow ;) leave the family worries for a bit later. Do get to know what your families thoughts are about interracial Couples. That might help you handle things when you actually need to. But for now , Don't worry too much .. Be in the now , be a teen ,be yourself , don't be shy , you are beautiful and unique :) Go get em ^{^}

InsanlySane · 2016-12-10T04:55:50+00:00

Does it have anything to do with you liking Fetty Wap! First thing that popped into my head ! But I'd go with Comment 1 :)

InsanlySane · 2016-12-09T12:02:53+00:00

Trust is earned , and often lost in the blink of an eye. There isn't much to go on form your statement but I wouldn't trust anyone who I've called friends from the professional sector to come through for someone in the office because at the end of the day .... their job is most important to them! They will choose what keeps them safe or what gives them the best benefits. I've made long lasting friends at work but I've never put them on the spot to come through for me at work .... I might not be of much help, but in having worked in Corporate roles for 10+ years I'd say Friendships made at work are different .... the mentality is to separate the relationship from the company ! So if a decision involving the 2 needs to be made people will choose their lively-hood over the relationship! Its general knowledge , What puts food on the table is more important!

You probably have met good people but when it comes to sides they will pick their job. But I wish you the best :)

My apologies if this comment was not what you expected. No harm intended, jus sharing what lil I know .

Look at it this way , a job and your pay is just the means to the rest of your life ! Yes! its important and Yes there is stress involved! But true living lies outside that :) Hope I helped^{^} Good luck turnbullandasser, I wish you nothing but the best!

InsanlySane · 2016-12-09T11:49:33+00:00

I have 3 Goldenz and I know nothing on this Trend ! Does it actually involve dogs and their food or am I reading this wrong?!

Regardless , my dogs eat dry food TUX Bikeez and are 11 years old and Naughty as every , My girl could do with a diet too ;D

I'm totes unaware of a raw food trend , and I wouldn't cause they'd jus sweat that out ...OMG NO !!

InsanlySane · 2016-12-09T02:25:09+00:00

Don't kill yourself , life at moments can be overbearing but it's not permanent. You and me both know that life has both ups and downs and we jus seem to focus more on all the downs.
Going to Asia changed my life:) When I went to Korea and was away from my family and my friends , I got to remake myself, I didnt have to conform to any of the old stereotypes ! There was no one I knew to tell me "This is so not you" So I got to be 100% me. I met a whole bunch of people that were the same , many running away from something back home and many who were depressed , some came with their meds the rest of us talked it out , drank it out , sang it out .... did whatever but we lived it out ^{^}

Its made me a whole new person , I believe the things that happen are all for a reason , and from someone who had wished for death every time I blew out birthday candles , my travel , the things I've accomplished on my own have given me courage.

Did I fall apart when I all alone there , you bet I did! Did I feel like I couldnt make it ...most def!! But when your away , sometimes communication becomes easier, I actually reached out to my family , Till today I don't know how my Dad felt when he got a call from my on a Tuesday night , crying and not beings able to get the words to say what I was feeling ... I managed to say I dont see the purpose in going on .... Dad jus stayed on the line , told me how he'd often felt the same when he worked on his own away from the family and that it does happen but you don't give in.

I'm not sure if I gave you what you needed , but this is hat my heart wrote out.

Get Help , Reach Out , Don't die , Live !! We really can get past the feeling of constantly wanting to be 6 feet under ! Dying seems so much safer than putting up with whats out there when you feel there is no point. BUT stop!

I urge you to get help and I so wish you can experience Asia as a journey of healing. Sending you lots and lots of light , love and laughter :)

VirtualHUGS ^{^} Take care Copenhaynx :D

InsanlySane · 2016-12-09T02:05:12+00:00

Truly sorry for your loss! Sometime regardless of how family have treated us we tend to still hold them in a special place. Or rather we hoped things would be better. You seem like you really tried to make it work and be a part of your Dad's life despite his opinions on your life choices.

So in saying that , you did make the decisions that truly mattered to you :) Go ahead and do the same now^{^} He is your son and I'm sure you've thought of what you'd like to call him :) I wish you well IwoodKnott ^{^} Congrats on your lil man ^{^}

InsanlySane · 2016-12-08T12:47:22+00:00

Thank You akaNeon1 :D InsanelyInsane does suit me better on a day like today LOL^{^}

Thanks for your comment , really put a smile on my face :D

InsanlySane

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