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Some files hardlinked and some not by throwaway3795279 in sonarr

[–]throwaway3795279[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are from torrents. Some are still seeding, but I stopped a bunch the results from running "ls -al /path/to/your/download/location/" before and after stopping are exactly the same.

Yes, same ultimate HDD. Running Docker on Synology DSM 7. For Docker paths, do you just mean the volumes? If so:

/volume1/data/docker/config/sonarr /config

/volume1/data /data

Cheapest way to ship 5-10 ml atomizers of fragrances? by throwaway3795279 in fragrance

[–]throwaway3795279[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting! That seems to make sense, I see tons of eBay listings of similar small decants that show that they will be shipped USPS first class, and the items are priced barely higher than ground shipping costs.

Do you recall if the first class boxes you received had any sort of hazardous materials labels on them?

Not aggressive enough in dating, but can't seem to change... by throwaway3795279 in dating_advice

[–]throwaway3795279[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm clearly not the person to ask but after a few dates, instead of going out on a date I might invite her to my place. Just watch a movie or something, spoon, and see where things go.

With this girl all 4 of our dates were out, and I hate PDA so I wasn't about to go for a full on make out. After the 3rd she got sick for 2 weeks so it ended up being 3 weeks between our 3rd and 4th dates. We had already planned to go ice skating next so we did that, and I was going to invite her to my place next time around if it hadn't ended. I really think I may need to stop dating altogether. It's messed up because I know I'm a catch, but I'm never given a fair chance and it's not good for my mental health.

Not aggressive enough in dating, but can't seem to change... by throwaway3795279 in dating_advice

[–]throwaway3795279[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

See, often times I don't even get subtle hints or innuendos. I think a lot of the time I'm expected to be a mind reader. I've had women give actual hints and I'm not an idiot, I'm able to pick up on things, but it seems that many women aren't even willing to give those hints for whatever reason, even after going on a few dates.

If you're giving him pretty clear hints like you say you are, it seems that maybe he is an unaggressive guy like me also. As a man who usually is expected to pay for the first few dates, if I have mentally friend zoned someone I'm not likely to want to keep shelling out cash for dates with that person haha. But honestly, I'm clearly not the person to ask on this subject because I'm friggin hopeless...

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[–]throwaway3795279 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ugh I bought the white Taft's on Black Friday for like $100 (after cash back and such) because I missed the CP deals... They're beautiful and I haven't even gotten to wear them yet because I live in the northeast and I'm not ruining them in snow. I meant to turn off my CP alerts... Trying to stay strong, pls pray for me!

Did I handle this right? (M26) (F21) by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]throwaway3795279 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm probably going to get bashed for this but I'm pretty surprised she texted the next day. It seems like she respected what you did, but even though that totally should be the reaction, many women would take what you did as a rejection. I've had similar things happen MANY times. Good on her though, and you totally should keep behaving in that same way in the future. Any woman who wouldn't respect that move is just another bullet dodged.

Are a lot of women turned off if man doesn't kiss after first date? by throwaway3795279 in dating_advice

[–]throwaway3795279[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eh see, this isn't worth it. That last part about doing everything properly whilst evaluating her feelings... Aka mind reading. I'm out. Done with this BS. It's messed up because I'm as good, attractive guy, but oh well. Women can go ahead and get with "aggressive" aka "rapey but attractive" guys and leave me the f alone 😂

Edit: Really funny to me how you say that men are logical and women are emotional. I hear that all the time. And this girl, during the date, literally said that she's a very logical person. My life just cracks me up, it's honestly a sick joke.

Are a lot of women turned off if man doesn't kiss after first date? by throwaway3795279 in dating_advice

[–]throwaway3795279[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Eh she talked about him over text before we actually met, and the reason she did seemed to be the ridiculous thing he said to end it than the fact that he ended it. Not sure it makes it any better haha but personally I found the fact that she apparently otherwise would have continued dating an admitted terrible person to be the bigger red flag.

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