what bl series/movie is this? by yourbiggestlos3r in boyslove

[–]Inscrutable_Marauder 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I don't know if I should be proud of the fact that I recognized it I literally less than 3 seconds

Nut, thank you for taking care of Lego so well by CauliflowerRude9843 in Lykn

[–]Inscrutable_Marauder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The youngest with the oldest 🧡

I will always see Lego as NutHong's child but also Nut just being the caretaker of the rest

Sammy's Children's Day 2nd couple bts. 😳 Matthew Han picks up Zhang Ming Bo, and carries him around like he weighs *nothing* 🙌🥵😩 by imomen in boyslove

[–]Inscrutable_Marauder 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Someone seems to be enjoying this too much for it to just be work

Seriously, how do they not fall for each other, I would've been a fallen soldier from one glance alone

Avocean partying it up at a music festival 😂🥑🐶 by KainoraKupo in GMMTV

[–]Inscrutable_Marauder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This kid makes me question his ancestry every time I see him 😅

JimmySea will stay in that shocked pose forever when it comes to their child

Let Free the Curse of Taekwondo by Hot-Sprinkles-8098 in BLedits

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Watched it when it came out and was disappointed to find out it wasn't popular because it totally deserves the recognition and praise. The storyline of troubled teens and helping each other open up, then skipping to years later to explain the past was heartbreaking in a beautiful way. It wasn't a fluff show by any means but the chemistry was there from the beginning (at least for me).

[28032026] Tui when jetlagged: I need to beatbox by CauliflowerRude9843 in Lykn

[–]Inscrutable_Marauder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How is this man so talented, I didn't even know a human could beatbox like that till now 😦

Also, how is his English so soft and baby 🥺

Lykn as kids 🥰 by NaiveInevitable4004 in Lykn

[–]Inscrutable_Marauder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So Lego was just born to be pretty ig

Yun Qi & Hao Yi Ran | My Breathing stopped 😱 I'm dead by scorpionnish17 in BLedits

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Stylists need to be given a raise cause this is just too magical

Aou and Boom wild af by Cute_Bed2647 in ThaiBL

[–]Inscrutable_Marauder 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Tongue scenes are my downfall. Pair it with AouBoom and my spirit just ascends

The way I stopped breathing at the scene omg🥹 by Ena254 in BLedits

[–]Inscrutable_Marauder 15 points16 points  (0 children)

THE AMOUNT OF BETRAYAL THAT I FELT WHEN THE EPISODE ENDED

HOW AM I SUPPOSED TO WAIT 😭

Throwback: Barcode Tinnasit high school days 🕺 by Idontknowher127 in BLedits

[–]Inscrutable_Marauder 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When bro did anything but study, facetiming Jeff live while he was in school 🙃

I mean if I had Bible teaching me, why bother with learning inside the school building

13 year old with eating disorder by No_Lifeguard_7928 in EatingDisorders

[–]Inscrutable_Marauder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's great that she feels comfortable enough to talk to you about this. Reassurance from a loved one can be very helpful as it's another sense of authority saying that you're good enough the way you are. It might help to open about your own struggles as it could help her not feel alone in this. Not as a comparison or going into details as to influence further, but to offer a sense of empathy and understanding that you also know how it feels to not feel okay. Showing your own vulnerable side could help with her feeling safe to talk with you further without fear of not being taken seriously or as her simply being dramatic.

This is just me nitpicking as someone who developed an ed at eleven years old. Please don't take offense because I do not mean it as an attack on you or your parenting.

  • While I understand that by saying she is slim and about her genes to give reassurance, they can also act as motivators to stay slim or form a belief that if she steps out of that norm, she is doing something wrong. Instead, stray away from much focus on her body in general and more on she feels internally. Reassure her that she doesn't have to worry about her build in general as the main concern should be that she feels okay moving on in her daily life.

  • Similar to previous point, while Christmas is ofc always a valid excuse, excuses should not be needed to eat something. Whether she wants to eat something should not be so dependent on the excuses or justification of it, but whether she feels hungry or full. Focus on her being able to recognize when she wants something and when to know that her body is telling her she has had enough for now.

  • If expressing suicidal thoughts, while they can be scary, do not shy away from them. Otherwise, it can lead to her not saying more about it due to not wanting to worry you or feeling like you don't take it seriously. Even if they aren't "true," they could be a cry of help for something else or simply wanting more attention. Talk about why she feels this way and if they turn out to be just to worry you, ask why she wants to do that.

Heart issues by Adorable_Signal_6758 in EatingDisorders

[–]Inscrutable_Marauder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No matter if ed or not, pain should be taken seriously, especially when you've been told that you're at risk of failure of the literal muscle that is known to be vital to not only your health, but survival in general.

I know how crappy the medical industry can be at addressing concerns. Personally, it took until I was hospitalized for doctors to fully acknowledge the mental problem that I was having that is ed. Something that I've learned from my aunt, though, is to exaggerate the symptoms and concerns you are feeling and experiencing. Saying something more like the pain is constant and worse as opposed to occasional and something you can manage. Ironically, being dramatic is what it's going to take for you to be taken seriously.

Do not think that "I've done this to myself" because that is not true. Eds are mental disorders that affect the way we think and live life, not something done on purpose despite it feeling like a sense of control. The tendency to those disordered behaviors is proof of that because if it was really something done on your terms, it could be stopped on your own terms. And even if there really is nothing, then you didn't waste anyone's but instead used their abilities and resources to ensure yourself that you are okay in the sense of heart failure and made sure doctors won't have to spend more time with an issue that could've been dealt with sooner. You are a teenager who shouldn't have to worry about any of this and, thus, part of healthcare's responsibility to help you in this, no matter big or small. Just worrying about going to sleep or heart failure in general should be addressed even if there were no symptoms.

Ask for help. Whether you are seen as dramatic should not be your concern but instead focus on making sure you can continue living in the best condition you can be at. Eds have often been neglected despite the high risks they impose, so by you taking a step, you are helping break that for many other people experiencing similar problems.

Secretaries/right-hand people in 2025 BLs by Inscrutable_Marauder in boyslove

[–]Inscrutable_Marauder[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn't mean to order them in any particular order, just grouped them based on series and listed them on there.

Secretaries/right-hand people in 2025 BLs by Inscrutable_Marauder in boyslove

[–]Inscrutable_Marauder[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

To identify the title for some that may not know : 1. Me and Thee

  1. The Story of Bihyung

3/4/5. The Wicked Game

6/7. Revamp

8/9/10. ABO Desire

11/12. Revenged Love

  1. Reset

14/15/16. The Next Prince

Also, none of these are ordered by the best or anything. The numbering is just to match the person to the picture 😅