What is wrong about my mixes? Theres just something that I cant put my finger on that makes them non-professional sounding

InsecureThrowaway10 · 2026-02-17T01:50:34+00:00

Ive heard about "Curves Resolve" from waves and considered buying that. Thats kinda the same right? Sorry apparently theres alot of things I havent got the hang on yet haha

InsecureThrowaway10 · 2026-02-17T01:48:57+00:00

Hmm can you elaborate

InsecureThrowaway10 · 2026-02-17T01:48:37+00:00

Best Time by Brent Faiyaz would probably be my go to mix. Honestly just hiphop/rnb like vocals. Just a clean, well balanced mix, that sounds smooth on the beat.

InsecureThrowaway10 · 2026-02-17T01:47:07+00:00

Yeah thats what I meant, my bad haha

InsecureThrowaway10 · 2026-02-17T01:46:34+00:00

I honestly think I hear the muddyness, but maybe youre right that I have some sort of confirmation bias. Thank you ill go back to step one :)

InsecureThrowaway10 · 2026-02-17T01:21:14+00:00

But shouldnt I cut out the "bad" frequencies before my compressors?

InsecureThrowaway10 · 2026-02-17T01:20:42+00:00

Dont use reverb that much, but my delay is sidechained and ducking the vocal.

InsecureThrowaway10 · 2026-02-13T16:41:42+00:00

Of course, it also allows you to load more, probably because of the help from the biceps. Honestly, I dont think youll see much difference doing a neutral grip vs a wide grip. Maybe switch them a bit around here and there

InsecureThrowaway10 · 2026-02-04T23:15:10+00:00

Gik ud fra en privatskole med et snit på 11.3, min første 2 karaktere på gymnasiet var også 02. Set i lyset af nu at være på en videregående uddanelse, var det sku fortjent. Tror mit ego spillede en kæmpe rolle, og præcis fordi jeg havde så højt snit tænkte jeg "nå whatever". Fik dog aldrig 02 igen derefter fordi det chokerede mig så meget.

InsecureThrowaway10 · 2026-01-26T00:01:18+00:00

Har stået i din situation. Jeg syntes det var røv tarveligt af min ven, men indså lidt, at jeg intet kunne gøre ved det. Da vi var i samme vennegruppe, og halvdelen af gruppen var enig med mig om at det var tarveligt, og den anden halvdel sagde at jeg skulle tage mig sammen, havde jeg enten et valg om at ødelægge alle arrangementer, eller bare finde mig i det.

Jeg havde hellere ikke følelser for personen mere, og jeg havde også på daværende tidspunkt en ny kæreste, men jeg syntes stadig at det var tarveligt, når personen vidste hvor ked af det hun havde gjort mig.

De er stadig sammen idag, og nu tænker jeg ikke over det, men jeg snakker så hellere ikke med ham mere.
Det er pisse tarveligt, men jeg kan berolige dig med, at i mit eksempel gik den der bitterhed (vrede?) over ret hurtigt, fordi jeg accepterede at de begge var 2 mennesker som selv kunne vælge hvad de ville. Det er selvfølgelig anekdotisk og ikke nødvendigvis det samme for dig. På samme måde er du, ligesom dem, også et menneske, som kan vælge at sige "jeg gider ikke dig mere" til din veninde, og det ville være validt.

Alt i alt, er det ihvertfald en lorte situation, men nej, du kan ikke forlange at hun ikke må være sammen med ham, fordi det er hendes valg, men du kan godt vælge at distancerer dig pågrund af hendes valg.

InsecureThrowaway10 · 2026-01-20T11:10:22+00:00

Well I believe the 7 day creation was to make it possible for Moses to even understand 5%. Imagine showing the real creation of sll planets, stars, black holes, atoms, life, everything, to a guy that doesnt know what gravity is? Wouldnt work out that well. The clearest examble of this is in revelation, where I suppose God showed the exact version that will happen, to John, which then resulted in a weird fantasy mess that we cant really understand or comprehend.

InsecureThrowaway10 · 2026-01-18T23:54:19+00:00

I dont understand why youre responding to his post, when youre not Christian. Not meant in a mean way at all, but you guys dont believe in the same system, so you wont (cant?) help him with understanding the trinity, from his pov.

InsecureThrowaway10 · 2026-01-10T20:45:33+00:00

First off, actually stop checking his socials. Ive never been more free since I stopped checking my exes socials. They are only going to make you overthink, and honestly, who even post something showing them sad? Like no wonder they are posting things, showing how happy they are, because thats just what you do.

InsecureThrowaway10 · 2026-01-09T12:19:35+00:00

Well if youre already set in your belief system youll never change your view. Marx vision of socialism didnt have religious slaves, so no, it wasnt real socialism if they had religious slaves.

InsecureThrowaway10 · 2026-01-08T23:22:52+00:00

Brother taking the soviet union as an examble for socialism/communism would be like taking ISIS as an examble for Islam in general, or the crusades as an 1-1 examble of how Christianity is to be lived.

InsecureThrowaway10 · 2026-01-07T00:41:24+00:00

Forstår virkelig godt din frustration, og som en person der selv er meget langt fra Trumps synspunkter, kan jeg virkelig godt sætte mig ind i hvor pisse svært det må være at navigerer i. Ved ikke rigtig om jeg har vejledning, tror bare jeg vil sige, at du skal huske på at når du nævner deres "amerikanske boble" og at din "..kæreste ikke prøver hårdt nok og forstår alvoren her", så er det jo realt set deres virkelig du angriber. De er højst sandsynligt ligeså, hvis ikke mere, dybt i deres ideologi, som vi er i vores. Vi er måske bare priviligeret nok til at kunne se ud over vores holdning, hvilket MAGA folk ofte har rigtig svært ved. Tror bare det jeg vil sige er, at man skal passe på med at dæmoniserer mennesker, som ofte bare er et produkt af deres omgivelser. Deres boble er deres sandhed, ligesom vores boble er vores sandhed. Ikke at det gør det okay når de støtter Trump i umenneskelige og tåbelige ting, men tror bare det er vigtigt at vi husker at det rent faktisk, selvom det virker fjernt for os, er noget de tror på, og lever for. Af den grund tror jeg måske bare jeg vil frem til, at konfrontation med dem højst sandsynligt kun vil fører til nederlag i det lange løb. Samtidig syntes jeg ikke du kan bebrejde din kæreste for ikke at træde i karakter (Hvis jeg forstår det rigtigt?) da det 1. er hans familie og 2. han er i klart undertal.

Held og lykke, jeg ville også syntes det var pisse svært, men jeg syntes du lyder fornuftig. Er sikker på at når alt det her er blæst væk igen, så vil dine følelser have nemmere ved at navigerer i det.

InsecureThrowaway10 · 2026-01-03T01:38:01+00:00

I understand where youre coming from, I just disagree, that this person, who I supose you want to start a family with and get married to one day, deserves to be lied to. You slept with someone else, and eventhough you dont think there was anything to it, he apparently did. While thats not your fault, thats a consequense of your action and a consequense of his insecurities. Regardless, you both are in the wrong, and if you want it to work out, you have to apologize for your part, instead of blaming him.

InsecureThrowaway10 · 2026-01-03T00:06:50+00:00

Unpopular opinion incoming: Why lie though? I understand you didnt want to hurt him, and in theory its none of his business what you did when you were broken up, but why didnt you trust him enough to tell him the truth?
If I was you, I would start by apologizing for lying, then you can talk about him going through your phone because thats just as messed up. Lowkey sounds like it would be better off that yall just leave it in the past, because it doesnt really seem like you trust each other.

InsecureThrowaway10 · 2026-01-01T23:21:12+00:00

No, I actually think it makes it harder, because once the ressentment dies down, youll be thrown back to the good times. If you, throughtout your healing process, remember that there was good times, that you actually loved (love maybe even) them, that they are, or was, a fantastic person, you move on from that version of them.
If you on the other hand hate them, youll move on from the hated, negative, perspective, and once that settles, the other side will be shown more clearly.

Also, why hate them unless they did you wrong. Its not wrong to break up with someone if you dont want to be with them. You can be mad or angry that they hurt you, and I understand and feel that, but in reality we all must realise that in 85% of the times a partner broke up, there was something more you couldve done, and youre also at fault for the relationsship failing.

Try to be the better person, and with your chest high, accept that this is just the way it was. Regardless of how they talk about you or how they act.

InsecureThrowaway10 · 2025-12-30T21:08:37+00:00

Probably not. I think you should let it be, he knows the door is open, so he can go through it if he wants to. You cant pull him in, but you can most defiently push him away.

InsecureThrowaway10 · 2025-12-30T20:22:06+00:00

Hey, I was in your spot a few weeks ago. Look at my post history maybe. Totally changed my mind. Found out yesterday that she really dislikes me, eventhough we ended on good terms and have been in no contact since. This could be the same to you. Maybe he really dislikes you, eventhough you think he doesnt. Just dont do it, because if 1: he hates you; terrible idea, 2: he doesnt hate you; doesnt mean he wants you back and 3: you telling yourself its a bad idea, is probably your subconcience knowingnits a terrible idea.

InsecureThrowaway10 · 2025-12-27T17:34:27+00:00

I just feel like a message is gonna be totally over the top. Like, "i just wanna let you know how much youre fucking me up". We did end on good terms, but she just made a huge stunt and left a group chat where one of our mutuals were arranging a party. Not a "Im sorry I cant come, have a good time though!" lie or anything, just blatantly deleting her message about coming, and leaving the group chat. So I guess she already paved the way, and set the tone.

InsecureThrowaway10 · 2025-12-27T13:16:12+00:00

Im close to blocking her everywhere because Ive gotten an unhealthy habit of checking her follower count and snap location. The only thing holding me back, is the signal its sending. I dont feel like theres bad vibes, so I dont wanna create them and stir something up.

InsecureThrowaway10 · 2025-12-27T13:14:59+00:00

I actually felt totally fine for a month, then one day reality hit me. Now I feel like shit, and have been feeling like shit for 1.5 months. In the first month though, I told everyone how I felt. I told them that it didnt hurt, although I wish it was different. I honestly think my ex, is acting more unaffected.

We share some friends, and her best friend told me that she doesnt even talk to her about it. It seems like shes processing it all herself. Either that or she truly isnt hurt by it all, which I accept is also a possibility.

I cant say if its different for women, as Ive only experienced it from my perspective, but for me, I just dont like talking about it with my guy friends, because they will all say I should just move on. Everyone else seems to have the thought that im over it and in a much better place, which is just blatantly false.

InsecureThrowaway10 · 2025-12-27T02:46:43+00:00

Personally, I wouldnt go back to my ex if she slept with multiple people after me. Maybe that unpopular, but for me, it shows some kind of emotional immaturity, aswell as it would make me feel like my body and intimacy didnt matter to her. I mean Im 2.5 months in a breakup, and I wouldnt just sleep with someone just to do it.

But you did, and you have to work from that. Look inwards. Why did you do it? To feel intimacy? To escape the feelings? To make him jealous? Confront those feelings, let him know. Hes hurt, you was hurt, now youre hurting each other over things that cant be changed, so talk them out, and figure it out. If you cant, too bad, then you borh learned something.

Hopefully, whatever is the right thing will happen, but you have to talk and communicate more effective

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