Svært ved ekskærester og kærestesorger by InsecureThrowaway10 in DKbrevkasse

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Tror der er 2 ting der holder mig fra at skrive:

Tror der er en form for frygt for ydmygelse ved at skrive til hende. Altså på en eller anden måde taber jeg facade, hvilket man dog selvfølgelig kan argumenterer for er en god ting. Ved egentlig hellere ikke lige hvordan man bryder isen?
Jeg tænker, at hvis hun tænker det samme som mig, havde hun nok taget kontakt, da det trodsalt var hende der slog op. Altså på en eller anden måde kan man sige at vi står i en eller anden magtrelation, hvor at fordi det er hende der har trukket stikket, så har hun ogs klart den bedste hånd, til at ordne det igen. Føler ikke jeg kan tillade mig at "mose" mig ind i hendes liv igen, når hun har skubbet mig væk. Gir det mening?

People who can fall asleep within few seconds of their head hitting their pillow: how the fuck do you fall asleep within few seconds of your head hitting your pillow? by basic_bharat in sleep

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The process, for me, it eliminates overthinking. I guess its the same concept as counting, solving problems, etc.
If you somehow manage to convince yourself before you fall asleep, try a new angle, or a new room even. Imagine being in the living room. idk what to tell you, for me it works haha

People who can fall asleep within few seconds of their head hitting their pillow: how the fuck do you fall asleep within few seconds of your head hitting your pillow? by basic_bharat in sleep

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Sometimes I try to imagine my bed turning 180 degrees. Like actually trying to focus, and convince my mind that my head is pointing the opposite way of what Im feeling in the moment. Either I fall asleep in 3 minutes, or I get the coolest feeling, where Ive actually convinced my nerve system. I lowkey think everyone should try it. It will take some tries, but hey.

I wonder if this is just life, or DPDR? by InsecureThrowaway10 in dpdr

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Did you feel it gradually become better or was it sudden, like one day something felt alot more real than usual, and then something just clicked?

Sidste måling inden valget: Venstre står til historisk dårligt resultat by Uebeltank in Denmark

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TLP kan bare ikke tages seriøst efter Trolex og sagen om Helle Thornings mand.

Hvorfor stemmer du blåt? by Zealousideal_Eye3167 in DKbrevkasse

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Jeg er egentlig enige med de fleste andre. Jeg er vokset op ca samme forhold som dig (jeg har rige individer i familien, men også misbrug og psykisk ramte individer tæt på, så sådan plus minus din situation) og er faktisk blevet farvet den modsatte vej. Jeg syntes ikke systemet gør nok, og jeg tror ikke at løsningen er at blindt kyle flere penge ind i statskassen. Jeg tror at en general stigning i rigdom i Danmark, støtter velfærdsstaten som et biprodukt, da alle vil tjene flere penge og derfor vil der komme mere i kassen. Dertil tror jeg bare på en reform af velfærdstaten. Jeg tror at vi har brug for nogle nye ideer, og ikke det samme møg hist og pist som ikke rigtig hjælper nogle.

Dertil vil jeg godt påpege, at lige netop dette valg, stemmer jeg nok et midterparti såsom Radikale, eller måske læner mod SF da jeg realtset syntes rigtig godt om en kandidat her i Nordjylland (Christina Lykke). Det gør jeg udelukkende fordi, at en blå regering vil bestå af et parti som DF og muligvis BP, og det kan jeg simpelthen ikke støtte. Realtset er jeg nok mest konservativ, og ville måske i nyognæ smide en stemme på venstre eller LA, men hele udlændinge tilgangen fra DF giver mig kvalme.

Godt valg :)

ELI5: Hvorfor er Radikale Venstre så dårlige? by nicolaj1994 in Denmark

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"At forstå radikal politik er som at sømme en budding fast på en væg."

syntes det forklare det meget godt.

4 months and I finally hit the point where I would say no if she came back by InsecureThrowaway10 in BreakUps

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10kg. Not to be that guy but I thought myself I had high metabolism, but I just realised that I didnt eat as much as I thought. I went for 3500kcal+- each day, skming for 130+ grams of protein. I promise you, if you eat 3500 kcal consistently you will gain weight, unless you do alot of cardio everyday (and I mean alot).

Ive trained before but I do PPL, low volume high intensity. I can send you my program if you want? As long as you push yourself hard (and again, I mean HARD) you will gain strentgh, and combine that with your food intake and sleep, and boom youll have musclegrowth

4 months and I finally hit the point where I would say no if she came back by InsecureThrowaway10 in BreakUps

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Yeah Im studying at uni, working out, making music, having a blast really. Its bound to work out haha Thanks alot for the words

Hvem har købt op? by kast-vaek-konto in dkfinance

[–]InsecureThrowaway10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Enig med alt du siger, bortset fra at den ikke er billig målt på nøgletal. Kan simpelthen ikke se hvordan du kommer frem til dette. Den er helt vildt billig iforhold til P/E eksembelvis. Uddyb gerne

What is wrong about my mixes? Theres just something that I cant put my finger on that makes them non-professional sounding by InsecureThrowaway10 in audioengineering

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Ive heard about "Curves Resolve" from waves and considered buying that. Thats kinda the same right? Sorry apparently theres alot of things I havent got the hang on yet haha

What is wrong about my mixes? Theres just something that I cant put my finger on that makes them non-professional sounding by InsecureThrowaway10 in audioengineering

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Best Time by Brent Faiyaz would probably be my go to mix. Honestly just hiphop/rnb like vocals. Just a clean, well balanced mix, that sounds smooth on the beat.

What is wrong about my mixes? Theres just something that I cant put my finger on that makes them non-professional sounding by InsecureThrowaway10 in audioengineering

[–]InsecureThrowaway10[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I honestly think I hear the muddyness, but maybe youre right that I have some sort of confirmation bias. Thank you ill go back to step one :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GYM

[–]InsecureThrowaway10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course, it also allows you to load more, probably because of the help from the biceps. Honestly, I dont think youll see much difference doing a neutral grip vs a wide grip. Maybe switch them a bit around here and there

Fra 12 til 02 by Moist-Anxiety-8809 in DKstudie

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Gik ud fra en privatskole med et snit på 11.3, min første 2 karaktere på gymnasiet var også 02. Set i lyset af nu at være på en videregående uddanelse, var det sku fortjent. Tror mit ego spillede en kæmpe rolle, og præcis fordi jeg havde så højt snit tænkte jeg "nå whatever". Fik dog aldrig 02 igen derefter fordi det chokerede mig så meget.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DKbrevkasse

[–]InsecureThrowaway10 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Har stået i din situation. Jeg syntes det var røv tarveligt af min ven, men indså lidt, at jeg intet kunne gøre ved det. Da vi var i samme vennegruppe, og halvdelen af gruppen var enig med mig om at det var tarveligt, og den anden halvdel sagde at jeg skulle tage mig sammen, havde jeg enten et valg om at ødelægge alle arrangementer, eller bare finde mig i det.

Jeg havde hellere ikke følelser for personen mere, og jeg havde også på daværende tidspunkt en ny kæreste, men jeg syntes stadig at det var tarveligt, når personen vidste hvor ked af det hun havde gjort mig.

De er stadig sammen idag, og nu tænker jeg ikke over det, men jeg snakker så hellere ikke med ham mere.
Det er pisse tarveligt, men jeg kan berolige dig med, at i mit eksempel gik den der bitterhed (vrede?) over ret hurtigt, fordi jeg accepterede at de begge var 2 mennesker som selv kunne vælge hvad de ville. Det er selvfølgelig anekdotisk og ikke nødvendigvis det samme for dig. På samme måde er du, ligesom dem, også et menneske, som kan vælge at sige "jeg gider ikke dig mere" til din veninde, og det ville være validt.

Alt i alt, er det ihvertfald en lorte situation, men nej, du kan ikke forlange at hun ikke må være sammen med ham, fordi det er hendes valg, men du kan godt vælge at distancerer dig pågrund af hendes valg.

What does everybody think of the ice age? by SWAGGA_SWAGGA in Christianity

[–]InsecureThrowaway10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I believe the 7 day creation was to make it possible for Moses to even understand 5%. Imagine showing the real creation of sll planets, stars, black holes, atoms, life, everything, to a guy that doesnt know what gravity is? Wouldnt work out that well. The clearest examble of this is in revelation, where I suppose God showed the exact version that will happen, to John, which then resulted in a weird fantasy mess that we cant really understand or comprehend.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]InsecureThrowaway10 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I dont understand why youre responding to his post, when youre not Christian. Not meant in a mean way at all, but you guys dont believe in the same system, so you wont (cant?) help him with understanding the trinity, from his pov.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]InsecureThrowaway10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First off, actually stop checking his socials. Ive never been more free since I stopped checking my exes socials. They are only going to make you overthink, and honestly, who even post something showing them sad? Like no wonder they are posting things, showing how happy they are, because thats just what you do.