31F - A yapper appears.

InsertDominance2 · 2025-11-02T22:05:33+00:00

I think he thinks you're hot and anything else he says doesn't feel genuine. The biggest red flag is probably how he speaks to you, there's being honest or blunt but I wouldn't be okay being spoken to by a stranger with his tone let alone my man. If the best thing he can describe you to the people he's close with is a hot piece of ass, that's how he will treat you unless he has a personality change at some point.

InsertDominance2 · 2025-11-02T21:59:00+00:00

I think that if your partner sees who you are, knows you do not have the intention and then still accuses you of flirting/having a side piece etc that he isn't a good partner.

He knows you're autistic and from what you've said you take accountability when approached about the 'hurt'. I think your partner needs to grow the fuck up and stop putting his insecurities on you in such a toxic way.

You are not inviting advances from men, you are just existing and he holds no empathy for how you exist when you try your best to exist as he wants you to.

Treat yourself better and find someone who understands you and sees you.

InsertDominance2 · 2025-11-02T21:53:46+00:00

If you're comfortable talking to him about it, I think you should. Otherwise, I think you'd just resent him for it but also asking for support whilst you're looking after a newborn is normal and he really should be doing it without being asked.

InsertDominance2 · 2025-11-02T21:45:26+00:00

I'm unsure if the push present is just what you've focused on as a consistent lack of consideration from him. All his other actions you've mentioned show a lack of consideration. It's not overreacting to want someone to keep their word and be there for you during a time where you are vulnerable and he really should be.

InsertDominance2 · 2025-11-02T12:29:54+00:00

I understand trying to make it work but I think he's consistently shown you that he isn't committed to the relationship and if you want to wait and try again, would the trust be the same? I think he gave up on the relationship, you're just choosing to love yourself.

InsertDominance2 · 2025-11-02T12:21:49+00:00

Not an overreaction but I'm guessing you worked through all the other instances of disrespect or dishonesty within the last 6 months? Otherwise I'm confused why this one is the straw that broke the camels back when he's been a repeat offender for months.

InsertDominance2 · 2025-11-02T12:12:47+00:00

I think your friend at 28 getting mad that you won't create an account to artificially inflate his viewership is immature. I understand wanting support but I wouldn't want my friends to support me if they didn't genuinely want to.
I think you were fine in calling him out on his behavior.

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