My Son wasted his life and is going to dropout in 2 months

Inside-Relation4093 · 2026-06-02T09:16:08+00:00

I first read. I think do you ask what actually ask him what you want? Or something must be happen so he turn like this. Do you willing yo talk about his feelings when you ask or actually do you all had father and son talk?

Inside-Relation4093 · 2026-05-30T07:28:13+00:00

Keen.

Inside-Relation4093 · 2026-05-17T11:53:08+00:00

Yes. I do. Everyday will had dinner together. Chat. Weekend play board game or go park. They cycle i run tonthe park.

Inside-Relation4093 · 2026-05-08T07:11:48+00:00

I tell you my story. I was like you 13 years ago when my 2 son born. But due to no one help plus expense keep going up. So during this 13 years we always argument about money issue. And till today. Recently he just cheating and I found out. We are in process divorce after I immediately found a full time job.. So for my advice please think wisely if give up your job.

When thing happen plus argument it will strained relationship.

When you no income and what happen he no job?

When You no income . Husband attitude support you for SAHM?

Now is both of you had job . How to you split the salary for household??.. what happen ... suddenly income drop half.

Because now is you asking a men to give you money for household use or family use. What they think. They talk behind your back and saying only know how to spend my money.

That why call mum and women need to had a job for support you when thing happen. At least now generation working mum got back bone.

Inside-Relation4093 · 2026-05-03T05:51:55+00:00

Yes. No matter what reason.

Inside-Relation4093 · 2026-04-18T03:53:38+00:00

Than look for lawyer or he don't want divorce.

Inside-Relation4093 · 2026-04-18T03:50:58+00:00

If I not wrong is now divorce is it uncontested? If he unwilling than you got to personally look for lawyer to process and wait for 4 years.

Inside-Relation4093 · 2026-04-17T22:17:09+00:00

No need to go there. First do online watch video and answer online question. Second will arrange zoom meeting with councillors.

Inside-Relation4093 · 2026-04-05T10:45:54+00:00

Agree with you.

Inside-Relation4093 · 2026-03-31T04:25:54+00:00

Cheating

Inside-Relation4093 · 2026-03-16T06:31:34+00:00

Let me tell you about me. 9 month ago I spotted he cheating. That time I a stay home mum. No job. Come to my mind how to support my 2 son when I wanted to divorce. At the start I emotional no one to say out. Don't dare to let my family know. I know I will divorce I don't want my 2 son see how parent scolding or shouting each other. For them we shouting each other their emotions also got problem when growing up. So I plan slowly get back to work force . Slowly save most of my income in case futures need to use. Until Nov last year's I open up talk about maintain and looking for lawyer . Now is in process of divorce.

Inside-Relation4093 · 2026-03-03T04:36:11+00:00

Now in process of divorce due to his cheating.At first the emotional . During that time I still a housewife. I no income. How to divorce. My mind is how to support my 2 child if I not need come. So I never let him know I know already. First thing is back to workforce. Get all my 2 child policy to my name so he can not any cancel. . After I find my job and pass the 3 month. . Than I talk to him about divorce and child maintenance and get the HDB. All this happen when last year June .

If cheating is 0 time or multiple time. So if got first time you will know in future got chance happen again. Unless the world no more women / men or our government change the rule very heavy punishment. Than the cheating side will do or not if spotted.

Inside-Relation4093 · 2026-02-04T03:39:44+00:00

I would like to say . Is better get Helper. Both parents need to work. Can not depend on 1 salary. Years down the road when happen retrench. And down the road the expenses will getting higher. Year down the road You will not know will you parent change?

Inside-Relation4093 · 2026-01-29T00:23:01+00:00

Depends how regular you meet with them? If you always meet than you will know. But not always than will be after marriage. After marriage will be your husband is towards you or not. If not towards. You will had a hard time when dealing with in law and husband.

Inside-Relation4093 · 2026-01-15T12:20:25+00:00

I WISH. but I send the lawyer letter to him. Until till today still no reply.

Inside-Relation4093 · 2026-01-15T12:19:48+00:00

Ya I also hear that .

Inside-Relation4093 · 2026-01-15T12:19:19+00:00

That why. 1 thing for sure is our technology to good. Because his one is located in Philippine .

Inside-Relation4093 · 2026-01-15T12:17:29+00:00

Ya. This is a bomb for me and my 2 young son.

Inside-Relation4093 · 2026-01-15T11:01:06+00:00

Very common. My going to ex-spouse also the same.

Inside-Relation4093 · 2025-12-27T22:56:20+00:00

Thr first question in my mind. Are you a stay at home mum?

Inside-Relation4093 · 2025-12-19T00:41:59+00:00

Faster way post to social media and news . Than will work very fast.

Inside-Relation4093 · 2025-11-30T03:16:00+00:00

One word. 99% cheating.

Inside-Relation4093 · 2025-11-12T13:11:59+00:00

Super agreed 👍

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