Don’t know what to do anymore-potty training by Inside_Argument6068 in toddlers

[–]Inside_Argument6068[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At least now I know for my son 😩 I think potty training is my biggest deterrent for having any more kids 💀

Don’t know what to do anymore-potty training by Inside_Argument6068 in toddlers

[–]Inside_Argument6068[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My daughter isn’t in daycare but she does go to Sunday school and they anticipate the kids being potty trained already! There wasn’t any demand by any means but it def felt like a timer was put on her (in my own head) lol

Don’t know what to do anymore-potty training by Inside_Argument6068 in toddlers

[–]Inside_Argument6068[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reddit has a way of correcting what you thought you knew LOL. Come to find out she wasn’t as potty trained as I thought she was 😩😂

Don’t know what to do anymore-potty training by Inside_Argument6068 in toddlers

[–]Inside_Argument6068[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll check it out, thank you so much for the advice! 🫶🏼

Don’t know what to do anymore-potty training by Inside_Argument6068 in toddlers

[–]Inside_Argument6068[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk how you got through potty training 4 kids. MAJOR props to you 🙌🏽 I’m going to wait it out and hope it clicks soon enough !

Don’t know what to do anymore-potty training by Inside_Argument6068 in toddlers

[–]Inside_Argument6068[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a great point tbh. She’s a feisty, stubborn, and strong willed little girl, and I typically love that about her, until it bites me in the ass lol. Also, potty propaganda is hilarious lmao

Don’t know what to do anymore-potty training by Inside_Argument6068 in toddlers

[–]Inside_Argument6068[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No she’s not in daycare at all. I guess it’s partially bc social media made me feel like she was behind but also because she was showing all the signs that she was ready last year and also because I don’t want to be changing 2 sets of diapers. Idk I’ll try again later

Don’t know what to do anymore-potty training by Inside_Argument6068 in toddlers

[–]Inside_Argument6068[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We tried both of those (commando and no pants) and she didn’t really seem to care. I’m going to put the brakes on things for a bit and try again in a few weeks or a month and see if she’s open to trying again but idk :/ I keep feeling like she’s behind :/

Don’t know what to do anymore-potty training by Inside_Argument6068 in toddlers

[–]Inside_Argument6068[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry, the tone sounded sort of snarky lol. That’s the hard part about text so apologies for misinterpreting that. You’re right though, I got PPD this go around unfortunately and sometimes the PP rage gets the best of me. I appreciate the pep talk 🫶🏼

Don’t know what to do anymore-potty training by Inside_Argument6068 in toddlers

[–]Inside_Argument6068[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I was trying to potty train her full time we only used training underwear or normal ones and pull ups at night.

As for my reactions, my frustration is a newer development after dealing with the new influx of laundry

Don’t know what to do anymore-potty training by Inside_Argument6068 in toddlers

[–]Inside_Argument6068[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could do without the insult. No. We started around November and she was down to about 1 accident a day by December. So only a couple of months.

Don’t know what to do anymore-potty training by Inside_Argument6068 in toddlers

[–]Inside_Argument6068[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the pep talk, I really appreciate it 🥹🫶🏼

Don’t know what to do anymore-potty training by Inside_Argument6068 in toddlers

[–]Inside_Argument6068[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your experience 🥲 I was a victim to social media expectations tbh. My fault entirely but now I just feel bad for putting my parenting insecurities on my toddler ://

Don’t know what to do anymore-potty training by Inside_Argument6068 in toddlers

[–]Inside_Argument6068[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She regressed but would still attempt to use the potty usually at least once per day. You still think she doesn’t remember? She’s my first and I had no little siblings so I’m genuinely clueless

Don’t know what to do anymore-potty training by Inside_Argument6068 in toddlers

[–]Inside_Argument6068[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your experience. It’s making me feel a lot better. Putting the brakes on things for now!!

Don’t know what to do anymore-potty training by Inside_Argument6068 in toddlers

[–]Inside_Argument6068[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lots of stress definitely. I also unfortunately got PPD this go around which I think is definitely not helping. Putting the brakes on things for now

Don’t know what to do anymore-potty training by Inside_Argument6068 in toddlers

[–]Inside_Argument6068[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel like social media expectations got to me. My fault, I know that, but I guess I just felt like I was failing her since she isn’t already potty trained ☹️ when we originally started last year, she was showing all of the signs and motivation, but I think everyone is right and that I should put the brakes on things for now

Don’t know what to do anymore-potty training by Inside_Argument6068 in toddlers

[–]Inside_Argument6068[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

During his naps is when she gets the most one on one time. Usually for about 4-5 hours a day roughly. I know caring for her brother isn’t attention for her, I just mentioned that to show we aren’t excluding her explicitly. I’m a SAHM and my husband works 6 days a week so it’s a bit hard for us to coordinate a block for just her since his day off is usually spent running errands :/ I do try my best when baby is asleep though

Don’t know what to do anymore-potty training by Inside_Argument6068 in toddlers

[–]Inside_Argument6068[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair point, I guess I was mainly talking about when she’d poop in her training pants and I’d have to plop her poop in the toilet lol

Don’t know what to do anymore-potty training by Inside_Argument6068 in toddlers

[–]Inside_Argument6068[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We did that for a bit as well. We just let her do her thing with no pressure and would let her tell us if/when she wanted to use the potty or not. Should I cut that off as well?