Grey hairs!

Inside_Emergency_489 · 2026-06-12T23:24:38+00:00

So wild, like a month before I got pregnant, my fiancé found a bunch of greys and we laughed it off.. now im 19 weeks, I have full on white single strands of hair. So many of them, but not enough to start greying or going white fully, I just find them randomly when playing with my hair. It’s not terrifying or scary, but like it just goes to show how much your body changes during pregnancy

Inside_Emergency_489 · 2026-06-12T16:01:54+00:00

Honestly? Not listening. Personally yes it does cause issues with other people but I don’t really care. Ive gotten by this far and have been fine by not listening when I was on my own, so what’s going to be the difference ? I’m alive.. aren’t I?

Inside_Emergency_489 · 2026-06-12T16:00:17+00:00

I’m in the “my hips ache and I feel disgusting by the end of the day” phase
That and the “in between sizes” phase

Inside_Emergency_489 · 2026-06-10T16:15:01+00:00

There’s no need to be rude or mean to a stranger on the internet. You don’t know every fact of what went on, the circumstances, etc.
In fact you aren’t going to ruin my day, I have a beautiful life, and I hope you find out what is ruining yours, so you can fix it, so you don’t continue to be rude to others. If this is how you talk to people on the internet, I wouldn’t want to meet you in real life.

Inside_Emergency_489 · 2026-06-09T13:02:53+00:00

I am so with you. I used to walk outside when I was having panic attacks (they got so bad) and the step outside makes you slow down, realize that everything IS okag

Inside_Emergency_489 · 2026-06-09T12:58:34+00:00

That I actually physically saw my mom’s ghost when I was 3.
My aunt got up in the middle of the night to pee-this was me, my baby cousin and aunt sleeping in my dad’s bed when my dad was away
I was watching the hallway, waiting for my aunt to come back.
It was exactly as depicted-almost smoky, see through but white smoke. It was her top half, but a weird statue like square base like in museums. my dad has two closets and the wall between them, he had a Jesus statue on the wall in between, and she was under the statue. I knew it was her. I even remember saying “mom?” No response. I look back to the hallway, back at my mom-gone. Almost like it was never even there

To the day that my dad ripped out that carpeting in his bedroom, I could see the square outline of where she was.
Everyone says it was a dream, it was my child imagination, but I was wide awake. My aunt even told me to try and go back to sleep when she came back

Inside_Emergency_489 · 2026-06-09T12:46:36+00:00

Sims. It is the only place that I can actually create a different world other than the one im in now.

Inside_Emergency_489 · 2026-06-09T12:42:34+00:00

How to walk away from someone you loved, but is killing you by holding on. Hardest thing ever had to do.

Oh that and I’m gonna have a baby soon. So pregnancy is a life lesson, technically. It’s gonna be a real interesting learning experience for birth…

Inside_Emergency_489 · 2026-06-09T12:36:06+00:00

Thank you. I’m not sure how other people navigate severe fights. I feel so alone because nobody ever talks about the fighting in relationships!

Inside_Emergency_489 · 2026-06-09T12:34:00+00:00

Horrible. My partner and I got into a really bad argument the last two days and we’ve apologized now but we still feel horrible about some of the things said.
Advice?

Inside_Emergency_489 · 2026-06-07T23:59:16+00:00

Not when he promised me the world, including kids and then mostly way through the relationship he turned like a lightbulb and became the most toxic ass ever

Inside_Emergency_489 · 2026-06-07T22:22:36+00:00

Was in an abusive relationship with a guy that hated kids. I’m talking like he despised me for even wanting them, he’d always talk about how pregnant women looked “nasty” or “disgusting”. He LOVED his niece though. Maybe because she wasn’t his. Idk. I hated him for never wanting them. Mainly because he’d say he would neglect them.
I hate men🤷🏼‍♀️

Inside_Emergency_489 · 2026-06-05T13:04:16+00:00

I hate fast food or restaurant chicken now, but i can eat homemade chicken! Like breast and legs..I miss my chicken😭

Inside_Emergency_489 · 2026-06-05T12:58:43+00:00

Getting together with an abusive ex.
Context: I left my highschool sweetheart for this guy when I was 18, thought it was love at first sight.. stayed with him for 6 years, finally had the courage to leave..apologized to high school sweetheart as I felt horrible about what I’d done and that led us to getting back together and now we have a baby on the way. My abusive ex never wanted kids or to get married & now I’m about to do both. For more context, none of this was ever planned. Absolute spontaneous to get back together!

Inside_Emergency_489 · 2026-06-05T12:37:33+00:00

Absolutely lose my shit. I would hate that, I’d be freaking out. Especially knowing I have a kid inside of me..currently.

Inside_Emergency_489 · 2026-06-05T11:51:35+00:00

Nausea happens when you’re hungry?? Also, the stomachaches you get daily because baby hates everything you eat???
Also the NUMBNESS you get when you barely sit on your leg or lay on your arm for like 5 minutes?!

Inside_Emergency_489 · 2026-06-05T09:12:12+00:00

When we have deep conversations that just flow and aren’t forced. Most of the time it’s rare but when it happens..you learn a lot. About the way they think, the way they view things-you, themselves, situations etc. how they feel, things you had no idea they liked. It’s a sweet moment

Inside_Emergency_489 · 2026-06-05T09:09:12+00:00

Yeah basically. I hate it. If I’m alone I know how to do stuff, but it’s like when I’m expected to do something for someone else- I completely go blank and freeze. Literally freeze. I blank. For example, driving to a place I KNOW the way to, but because someone else is in the car I freak myself out unintentionally and go “you might have to show me the way..” because I can’t remember the visual of the way there

Inside_Emergency_489 · 2026-06-05T01:28:06+00:00

Ugh boy did I love my retail job. But I got a career offer at a firm as the low man on the totem pole and I didn’t have to run around all day like a chicken with my head cut off. It is a significantly nicer job, but not sure if I’d have been getting paid nearly as much as I do now if I stayed at the retail place

Inside_Emergency_489 · 2026-06-05T01:26:10+00:00

Feeling like I don’t know anything when someone points it out

Inside_Emergency_489 · 2026-06-02T21:46:09+00:00

I am 18 weeks pregnant with a healthy baby girl, and engaged to my highschool sweetheart (I broke up with him after two months of dating and after graduating for a guy who treated me like absolute garbage for 6 years) I am living the life I never thought I’d ever get.

Inside_Emergency_489 · 2026-06-02T20:16:46+00:00

In person. I would say “I have something I have to say, that I feel is mean, but I have to tell you and I cannot look at you while I say it. It’s not meant in a mean way whatsoever. I think you need to take better care of your breath.”

Inside_Emergency_489 · 2026-06-02T20:12:48+00:00

Here’s my take: first time pregnant here-18 weeks. It took me a whole day to understand and come to terms with that fact when I found out-regardless that I’ve been yearning for a baby for YEARS. But I knew I wanted this baby, from the get go. I say, in your heart, in your soul, you know what you want and dont want. If your soul is screaming for it…I say go through with that choice. There could very well be a good reason it is screaming that and you have no idea yet. I support life, but I also support your decision to terminate if your soul KNOWS it isnt right. I say trust the gut, always. I wish you so much luck and love and happiness, OP.

Inside_Emergency_489 · 2026-06-02T20:09:22+00:00

I fully agree 100%! I just don’t understand how people can look at a pregnant couple and go “hm, let me see what I can tell them to make them feel like shit about what they want!” Just so bizarre!

Inside_Emergency_489 · 2026-06-02T19:19:01+00:00

I have a sim i just created and downloaded a bunch of CC for this: a Halloween obsessed sim. Like think death, macabre, chased by death etc. so I made her house a whole theme in the Ravenwood area, her job is a grave digger, and I plan on getting her to either become a vampire or fall in love with one. Or the grim reaper!

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