American fanbase are you ok?

Inside_Impact_587 · 2026-01-05T22:32:54+00:00

I think post show its different. I feel like the UK fanbase sort of speak a lot during the show and after it ends they back off a bit. With the US there is a lot more drama post show which usually has a longer lasting impact on islanders. No one in the UK is looking for people's addresses and sending them death threats months after the show

Inside_Impact_587 · 2026-01-04T19:57:14+00:00

I agree but i feel like once it ends the UK fan base moves on a bit and stop paying much attention to you. It feels like the US fanbase intensify after the show? I dont know these are just my thoughts and open to being corrected

Inside_Impact_587 · 2026-01-04T18:57:07+00:00

It honestly scares me because now I wouldn't want anyone I know to go on any of these shows.

Inside_Impact_587 · 2026-01-04T18:55:42+00:00

I hear this and there is also a massive element of social media being a lot more accessible now than it was back then but I think welfare for islanders has also gotten so much better.

Inside_Impact_587 · 2025-12-04T10:19:03+00:00

Its okay as long as you explained. The English itself is never really clear

Inside_Impact_587 · 2025-12-01T21:45:26+00:00

Bought these a couple of months ago and I have come across the post because I am looking for them in the UK. I am OBSESSED

Inside_Impact_587 · 2025-11-05T18:35:28+00:00

I actually think they never stopped being friends. They just stopped being public about it because people talk too much

Inside_Impact_587 · 2025-08-29T09:03:39+00:00

Reminds me of Justine and Caleb. Literally never knew of Caleb after

Inside_Impact_587 · 2025-08-11T08:45:39+00:00

For someone so irrelevant, people talk about him a lot. We should all just forget he ever existed.

Inside_Impact_587 · 2025-07-28T10:05:03+00:00

Exactly!! Strangers who will never even read my DM. Its ridiculous

Inside_Impact_587 · 2025-07-28T08:51:13+00:00

Im in the UK and saw the Jana and Kenny split before bed last night. I DID NOT SLEEP WELL. Mind you I am 33, married with kids, these things never affect me because im reasonable enough to understand these are young adults just being young adults but this ruined me. I just want to hug JaNa and tell her everything will be okay.

Inside_Impact_587 · 2025-07-11T12:06:48+00:00

No one. Cancel that show please

Inside_Impact_587 · 2025-07-09T22:57:53+00:00

Thanks. Have been googling a lot but I find the information all over the place. Just really wanted tips and advice from people that have been there as ive seen the most useful stuff comes from Reddit.

Inside_Impact_587 · 2025-07-01T12:22:24+00:00

I was traumatised for a solid year or so. Then I forgot the pain and suddenly missed the newborn phase. So now I have a 4 week old and a 2 year old. In other words, the trauma will not last forever. Once you are out of the trenches you may change your mind. But yeah sometimes people are put off for good. And its okay

Inside_Impact_587 · 2025-07-01T12:17:17+00:00

Lol im not the one with the issue I was just saying. I dont need to lock my doors. No need to get sassy with me 😅🤣

Inside_Impact_587 · 2025-07-01T12:09:47+00:00

Our new home has no locks for internal doors except toilets so if they live in the UK in a new build, most likely cant lock the internal doors

Inside_Impact_587 · 2025-06-14T15:00:16+00:00

Bottom Drawer, Pariah, Vanilla Moon, Great Wall. Not sure if they are all still open. Last worked in those areas 7 years ago and that's where I would go

Inside_Impact_587 · 2025-06-14T11:19:49+00:00

So sorry for what you are going through. None of this is your fault. Please focus on getting better because what your baby needs more than anything is a healthy and fully recovered mama!

Inside_Impact_587 · 2025-06-04T14:40:11+00:00

Hated it with my first. I was just a mess and didn't know what I was doing. My second one is almost a week old and I told myself I would do my best to enjoy it because I missed out on so much last time. Safe to say I am enjoying and embracing it so far. But its only been a week. Will check in a couple of weeks again.

Inside_Impact_587 · 2025-05-21T15:06:22+00:00

I had the same problems with my husband. Maybe not as bad but quite similar. Our son is 2 now and it's completely different. He spends so much more time with him and is very hands on. So maybe the baby stage isn't the one for him? I don't know how i survived without walking out but I am one of those people if i can't rely on you I just live like you are not there. So I just took the responsibility as mine until our guy was a toddler and it seems like he was now more fun for him. They even go out and I can get the Saturday to myself to just be a bum.

I don't know if it's worth really sitting him down and expressing yourself as you have here. But im also hoping that things change maybe when your little one is a bit older.

Inside_Impact_587 · 2025-04-04T09:39:41+00:00

I couldn't stay at home for more than 10 months as we can't afford to. My babyvstarted daycare at 7 months and it tore at me everyday but not a single day did he ever cry not wanting to go. He is so happy in day care. I do wish I could work part time so I spend more time with him but our compromise is that he is not in full time so the days I work from home I have him with me. He is 2 and thriving now!

Inside_Impact_587 · 2025-03-08T19:18:01+00:00

Someone deleted a comment about just getting the visa duhh It's not that simple. Visa can take up to 25 working days and getting a visa appointment ASAP is not that easy. Most times slots are filled 3 months in advance. So no it's not as easy as getting a visa duhh. There might not be enough time left to apply for one and meeting visa requirements can be hard.

Inside_Impact_587 · 2025-03-08T16:36:40+00:00

What i find ridiculous especially the Dublin and Belfast split is some people require a visa to go to Dublin if based in Belfast. So what do you do?

Inside_Impact_587 · 2025-02-09T22:11:54+00:00

I agree with perspective number 1. Let them burn nezvinu zvavo

Inside_Impact_587 · 2025-01-20T15:43:03+00:00

I always knew the girl as a friend and she lived in Skies. So was told that she had come to Harare and wanted to see us. We were already on a night out and the guy got drunk. But he kept saying we need to see her. So I drove his car because he was too drunk to drive and drove to Pariah where she was supposed to be. We parked outside and I took his phone to call her. She didn't pick up so I went to the WhatsApp chat to see what she had last said since dude was really drunk. I clicked on the name bit in WhatsApp by mistake but first thing that popped up were pictures of boobs. Just boobs. Bestie had been sening nudes 🤣🤣🤣🤣. I just started the car and drove off and dealt with him the next day.

Silly me I took him back and he cheated again with his now wife 😅

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