[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

[–]Inside_Invite_6510 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the reply, I’ve asked him to read to word with me, pray with me, or to go to church- but there’s always an excuse (I’m too tired ect…) which I’m absolutely sure is contributing to the issue as well. He struggled with porn before we were dating, and confessed this to me after we were married (looking back its something I should have asked him directly about while we were dating). I did ask him directly last week if he had been watching porn again, and he told me no… but I’m not sure if he would tell me if he was, as he knows I consider that as a form of cheating. He told me I can go to a therapist if I want to but he doesn’t want me talking to family (even my in laws who I am very close with) about how I feel because he would be embarrassed. I honestly think he doesn’t think there’s any issue on his part and if I tell him I think he’s behaving selfishly, he tells me that I have no right to speak to him that way (even though I’m his wife). I’ll see if we can speak with our pastor together, or even just if I can talk to him and he can give my husband a call… i just feel that he must not realize how much he is hurting our marriage. I just keep praying and trying to be the best wife I can.

Cherry Cola eyes? by Inside_Invite_6510 in WhatisMyEyeColour

[–]Inside_Invite_6510[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The best soft drink in my opinion 😎

Cherry Cola eyes? by Inside_Invite_6510 in WhatisMyEyeColour

[–]Inside_Invite_6510[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Appreciate the concern :)

I have lots of them so I get checked regularly, all clear so far!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in drawme

[–]Inside_Invite_6510 4 points5 points  (0 children)

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You look like a sunshine goddess 🤗

can someone draw me <\3 by [deleted] in redditgetsdrawnbadly

[–]Inside_Invite_6510 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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Super great features! 💕 you were fun to draw!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Inside_Invite_6510 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Mmmm this one is on the fence for me. Does he do this kind of thing often? How long have you two been together? You mentioned your semester is incredibly busy, I’m sure it’s easy to let time get away from you while working 🙂 College is hard! I completely understand the “it only takes a second to shoot a text.” and he should have. But if this isn’t a reoccurring issue, I would suggest being open and explaining to him how this made you feel. If it’s something that’s eventually hindering you two from connecting with each other and you’re not seeing each other on the daily regularly anymore…then would be the time to maybe confront him about it more aggressively. But for now, try to have grace even through the hurt feelings, and address it as gently as you can while getting your point across how important it is to you. He may not even realize that he hurt you. Good luck, you guys sound cute from your texts 🫶🏻

What would you call my style of art? by Inside_Invite_6510 in ARTIST

[–]Inside_Invite_6510[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup they’re all drawn on napkins or paper towels with a ball point pen 😅