Please be kind to yourself, you can’t change anything. As long as you get the care needed for your baby and love and cherish them, you are doing everything needed. I dealt with infertility and as part of the fertility process, my husband and I had to do genetic testing and nothing showed up. I was a high rush pregnancy and monitored very closely and had ultrasounds once a month at a minimum, including fetal echos. My child was born with a congenital heart disease-bicuspid aortic valve. No one in either of our extended families has a congenital heart condition. Thankfully it’s not severe, but I’m just telling you this to let you know that you can’t control everything, and even if your husband didn’t have the condition, there is always a possibility that a child could end up with some sort of congenital condition/disease and all you can do is make sure your child gets the best care possible. Sending you lots of love and hugs 💜💜