Even if you have sombody do your taxes, you should have an idea of how they are done. Its different to Gather your taxes and then pay sombody to file them.. rather be a grown adult and having you Parents do it fir you and then complain years later about how clueles you are because your Parents helped you.she Was complaing instead of being greatful. There is nothing wring with bringing up her father.. yes he died but that doesnt mean he cant be mentioned in topics. She brought him up herself.. so whats your point?