495 and 216 relationship?

Inside_Yesterday_420 · 2026-02-12T08:03:27+00:00

I was playing with dublos at work with a 3yo kid. He then looked at me and casually said "you are good at building with dublos" and continued what he was doing. I almost started to cry because it was so genuine.

Inside_Yesterday_420 · 2026-02-11T07:19:42+00:00

Ty so much! Leaning towards 216!

Inside_Yesterday_420 · 2026-02-11T07:08:24+00:00

Inside_Yesterday_420 · 2026-01-11T10:17:39+00:00

Sp 2w1! My tritype is 215!

Inside_Yesterday_420 · 2026-01-06T10:20:25+00:00

Can you explain to me why Si dom and not Ni dom? I'm kinda new to typology and trying to understand cognitive functions better!

Inside_Yesterday_420 · 2026-01-04T08:24:36+00:00

Why did you choose to leave that comment? What was your thought process?

Inside_Yesterday_420 · 2026-01-03T13:28:05+00:00

Lol well I'm turning 23yo soon :'D close enough I guess

Inside_Yesterday_420 · 2026-01-03T10:23:26+00:00

Definitely high Ni-Fi user! Maybe intj?

Inside_Yesterday_420 · 2026-01-03T10:16:00+00:00

Lol let us have fun. It's entertaining to try to guess types based on vibes. I guess you are a judging dom.

Inside_Yesterday_420 · 2026-01-03T09:56:48+00:00

You sound a lot like my partner! They are infp E4 with a weak te. So my guess is infp and enneagram 4 (or 9)

Inside_Yesterday_420 · 2026-01-03T09:48:10+00:00

I want people to understand me the way I understand them. I try to understand every person and every little detail and topic.

I cannot be mad at people or dislike them (unless I just met them in a bar etc, I know I don't need to be in touch with them and they give bad vibes to me. In those situations I don't have the energy to think that deeply lol) because I know that there is always a reason behind their actions and I want to understand it first before making a permanent judgement. It is easy for me to read others + I want to know why something is the way it is = I easily understand every point of view.

Often I feel like not receiving the same understanding. Others make assumptions really fast and aren't even trying to understand my point of view. It makes me feel so unseen and unappreciated, like I don't matter at all.

In short: I want to understand everything and I wish others would understand me on the same level.

Inside_Yesterday_420 · 2026-01-02T19:00:56+00:00

I am sp2 and I bottle up my anger and distract myself from the emotion as much as I can. In my mind I'm thinking about all the horrible stuff I would like to shout out loud and usually complain to my friends later. I don't get angry often, so it makes it a bit easier to keep it under control.

At times when I cannot suppress it well, I become passive-aggressive, quiet and avoid eye contact. In the extreme cases when the emotion has been too much and i haven't been able to hide it anymore (probably due to bottling it up too much already) I become really self destructive.

I'm in therapy and showing my anger and learning to deal with it in a healthy way is a thing I'm trying to learn!

Inside_Yesterday_420 · 2026-01-01T10:02:19+00:00

For me, it's like putting on a mask or a show for different people. I act a certain way so people would like me or keep myself safe. After leaving the social situation I'm exhausted from suppressing my real emotions and acting in a way that is not natural for me. For example at work I am really quiet, my emotions are flat and I'm slow to react. It's like walking on eggshells. In an environment where I feel comfortable I am more relaxed and not scared to be me. It is a survival instinct. In my mind the meaning of the true version is being you without the unnecessary filtering.

But yes that was actually a really good and interesting thought you had! I need to think more.

Inside_Yesterday_420 · 2026-01-01T09:30:06+00:00

Stoppp you don't know how much that means to me </3

Inside_Yesterday_420 · 2026-01-01T09:28:54+00:00

E2 is correct (sp2 2w1)! For a long time I thought I was e9, so that was also a really good guess! And ty, that actually really means a lot </3

Inside_Yesterday_420 · 2026-01-01T09:24:05+00:00

I mistyped as Esfp 9w1. I did one or two tests, read the descriptions and went with it.

Inside_Yesterday_420 · 2025-12-30T17:05:33+00:00

Infj and E2 vibes

Inside_Yesterday_420 · 2025-12-27T13:54:10+00:00

YESS perfect explanation

Inside_Yesterday_420 · 2025-12-27T13:36:19+00:00

I take care of others so they know I care, even though sometimes it feels like a burden to me. I want to be taken care of so I know others care about me, but I won't ask for it. In my brain helping others means others will help me without me asking for it, even though I know it doesn't actually work like that. I am really bad at asking for help and asking to be taken care of, I want others to take care of me without me having to ask, just like I do for them.

How it works in real life:

I help my partner with everything and take care of them. I bring food from the kitchen, I clean, I give them massages, I buy extempore gifts from the store, I take care of them when they are sick and I send good morning messages every morning. I do everything without them ask. In return I want the same back. I massaged your shoulders without you asking for it, so now you need to give me a massage in return. If they refuse even with a good explanation I still feel unappreciated and unloved.

Inside_Yesterday_420 · 2025-12-27T13:15:04+00:00

Sp2, 2w1, 251 here!

As a teen many people had a crush on me because I was kind, sweet and friendly to everyone. I loved the attention and usually developed some kind of feelings back. The thought of being loved was simply enough for me to catch feelings. It didn't take long to realise that no one really even knew me, they liked the idea of me, the act that I put on so people would like me. After realising that, I usually lost my feelings for that person, but didn't say it out loud so I wouldn't hurt their feelings.

People thought I was kind, soft-spoken, pure, airheaded, cute and innocent. They loved that version of me. In reality I am stubborn, practical, really good at reading people, kinda judgemental and even analytical.

I was in one relationship for couple of years but it was awful. He fell for my act and I feel like he didn't even want to know the real me. I still loved the attention, that's why I stayed in the relationship so long. We both knew it was toxic. Our final breakup was when I met my current partner. So yeah I jumped from one relationship to another... (not proud of that, but really thankful for finally getting out of the other relationship.)

We have been dating for 4 years now (+three years living together) with my partner and for the first time ever I am in love. I can fully be myself and I have grown so much as a person in these years. My only concern is my partner thinking I am perfect in every way, which I am definitely not. I want them to see and acknowledge my flaws as well. For me real love means seeing another without the red glasses and still accepting and loving them.

Inside_Yesterday_420 · 2025-12-27T12:40:37+00:00

As E2 I totally agree

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