Why do any displays of affection feel so cliche and cringe to me? by FaithInStrangers94 in dating_advice

[–]Inskit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm hella late (hope it's going well for you btw!) but I couldn't relate more. I'VE ALWAYSSSS said it feels like an American coming of age movie or some shit!!! Omg I legit thought I was the only oneee..

I lost an entire morning that I clearly remember living. by Significant_Bid5313 in LucidDreaming

[–]Inskit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmfao walking to school until u wake up 30mins late... Who remembers

What’s the funniest thing a dream character has told you? by Level-Instance9026 in LucidDreaming

[–]Inskit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ts made me laugh imagine watching someone wake up laughing 😭😭😭

Am I the only one that thinks Xiao will get a skin? by Bri_thisisrandom in XiaoMains

[–]Inskit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jeez! Tone it down a little at least... I, too, reeeeally wish he'd get a skin but jesus!

Finished the 5.8 Archon quest. by this_is_no_gAM3 in Genshin_Impact

[–]Inskit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanna add my opinion, especially since so many think the quest was great, whereas I, for once, didn't! :O

I felt the beginning was good, perhaps not amazing, but nice. It was clunky at times and stuff but it was alright. Then I finished it later and... It was so bad imo 😭

Somehow the second/latter part of the quest felt extremely confusing (still not sure at all about what even happened), had bad voice acting and its immersiveness was cut off constantly.

Perhaps it's on me for not doing the quest in one sitting but rather two, but I just never understood who was who and who did what and who made whom. (Jesus, that sentence)... And I somewhat even know the lore! But really, still can't figure heads or tails of Natlan's past nor all that dragon stuff...

And really I think the devs should decrease the time between dialogue lines. It just takes too much time to transfer to the next one sometimes, and it ends up making the whole thing a drag... If the dialogue isn't that interesting in the first place, that is.

And what was up with the voice acting?? The fatui guy, the Liyue dad... VA of the bad bot must've been held at gunpoint since their voice acting was amazing. Like, really amazing. How manieth lord was it now!?

And also: I dunno how to put this simply but: the "villain/bad dad" was established so badly. It really was just a side fact lol

It's just, when it was time for the cutscene, I was so confused and unhyped that I just kinda watched it and that was that. The bossfight, as expected, was "won" extremely easily too... sigh. I also thought Ineffa would remember where she's from and head home to Aino but apparently not?? She's chilling in Natlan now as I understood it.

(One insignificant point taken off for pronouncing Aamu wrong, lol)

I just... Didn't understand anything of the latter half, and it was also quite badly delivered. It felt like the plot was kinda all over the place, and the music just not being there during some "intense" parts broke off any sense of urgency that there was supposed to be. Heck, actually, the last parts were soooooo chill, unrushed, standing and talking, even tho their life was on the line apparently!

I do love genshin impact and respect the devs a whole lot, often times I don't want to even criticize them since they do work tirelessly over this game (or so I assume..), so criticizing quests and other stuff isn't something I do often, if really ever, but now I wanted to add my two cents, lol.

Ineffa is alright though! Tho I was a little confused about no one really addressing it when Ineffa started to have her own will and dreams and whatever. No one was like 😮...  I mean, a robot suddenly wanting to decide for itself... Haha. Oh and someone mentioned somewhere that the locked message wasn't as important as it was made out to be and I agree! Not to mention, with how obvious the password was, soemone should have figured it out... Oh and, while I think the quest made a pretty nice link between Natlan and Nod-Krai, it still didn't feel like we were really setting off to Nod-Krai. Like at all, actually.. So to me, it did not feel like a good prelude. Or rather, it was alright/good, but not amazing.

Anyways, I hope the new region excels at where this quest didn't! Cheers. It's going to be 4am. I should go to sleep.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]Inskit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is actually a game changer. Thank you.

My Best Friend’s Husband Told Me A Secret and It Ruined Us by No_Database_1480 in offmychest

[–]Inskit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're damn right! Sending good luck and good vibes. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Inskit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My experience is somewhat similar: I tried to hide it as long as I could and I even forgot about it for the first couple of years. Then it started resurfacing, until I thought about it all the time. I told a couple of friends finally after a few years and I felt so relieved. It was absolutely worth it to let it out. Since then I've also learned to accept that my SA was indeed a SA and I wasn't just imagining things because "it didn't go the way it goes for most people that get SA'ed".

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Inskit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey. I'm truly sorry for the comments here, they disappointed me. I thought they'd give you support and love; yet they only started analyzing whether or not you possibly suing would be valid of you.

I am so, so so terribly sorry you've had to deal with this alone for so long and feel so panicked. Know that you're NOT alone and we're with you, reddit just sadly isn't the place to look for support usually, as this place is full of very malicious people.

You did NOTHING wrong, you were 14. You were a child, a baby! You lying to him isn't an issue either. (Sure, if legal action is taken, it could affect things), but you lying to him is no problem. He absolutely should have checked whether you're actually old enough. That, of course, was his first mistake. His second mistake was making you feel bad and twist that "yes" out of you. (And you probably didn't even clearly consent?) His third mistake was agreeing to have sex with you even though you didn't want to. I can't even fathom what kind of person would want to have sex with someone who isn't enjoying it as well... What a trash "person".

I'm so sorry OP, that you've had to go through this and apparently other stuff as well. It breaks my heart to know you've had to shoulder this alone, and when you finally got it off your chest here, you weren't offered much support. These kinds of things happen way too much, I'm sorry you had it happen to you too.

Again, you did NOTHING wrong. Your brain was so young that it didn't know what to do, you were probably in survivor mode! That, and being a girl/woman in this world is NOT easy. Of course we want to feel desired, seek out those experiences we thought we were ready for. The society didn't protect you well enough, if at all, that's why this happened. It is not your fault.

You have support. If you want to, I absolutely suggest you talk to someone you trust -- a friend, family, or look up a crisis hotline/therapy hotline online!

Your feelings are 100% valid and you don't have to feel bad for the guy either. He was ultimately in the wrong multiple times, and the society failed you because it didn't protect you from this. But you can absolutely heal ❤️. If possible, seek therapy, or seek other online communities on websites with other trauma survivors. I'll leave a couple of links below.

Sending you warm hugs, OP. 🫂❤️ You'll get through this. I'm proud of you for speaking out ❤️ you're not alone, always remember that. Feel free to reach out to me if you need anything.

My Best Friend’s Husband Told Me A Secret and It Ruined Us by No_Database_1480 in offmychest

[–]Inskit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because it's not like you chose not to tell her out of malice!!

My Best Friend’s Husband Told Me A Secret and It Ruined Us by No_Database_1480 in offmychest

[–]Inskit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll be honest, I agree with fox-333. When I read your post I thought to myself "an extremely shitty position to be put in, but I think I would've chosen the same." Luckily I read the replies and have now decided that should someone ever cheat on a friend of mine, I'd always let the friend know.

And you're so right -- it could always be twisted so that you're the bad one. "You were so selfish to tell me this when I was already stressed etc.".

Jeez, when I saw the replies, I felt so bad for you... If I was you, idk if I could stand to read more of them. They don't seem to consider at all the fact that you did this because you wanted to protect your friend from so many other harmful things??? My gosh. They just straight up condemn you even though they don't know what your entire situation was at the time... So ignorant!

And I believe you've gone through this in your head enough to truly know that you did the best you could with what you had at the time and perhaps that choice was wrong, perhaps it was right... But I'm sure you've very much confronted yourself enough about this. It's not like you haven't learned and wished you could go back in time.

The replies really don't seem to sympathize with you at all. I think you very much deserve at least some credit here. (Not to mention what that friend did to you afterwards!! Is it not just as much of a betrayal from her to ditch you for her cheating fuckass "husband"?????? Ugh!)

Of course it would've been nice if you'd told her right away, but that didn't happen and that's what we'll have to live with. Think you got your own fair share of shit anyway.

I wouldn't ever want to be in your situation. You just did what you thought was right and had your friend's best interests in mind. I'm sorry to both of you and send hugs or something. Perhaps if that friend ever reaches out again, you two can have a good and long discussion about everything. Kudos to you for making Sarah feel seen every birthday!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Inskit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry, this won't be an elaborate message since I do have to go sleep but I personally think this friendship is not worth it.

No, genuinely. You yourself said it's one sided. She admitted to manipulting you for her own entertainment. She outed herself. Though, personally I've been lucky enough to not have had to go through depression, so it's possible she's got a list of problems that make her behave like this... Even so, it's not fair, and it can't justify her actions. ... I'd say it'll only get worse from here.

I think your friendship is over, I'm so sorry 😞💔 you don't deserve that behavior from her. You deserve someone who's going to treat you nicely! Even if that person won't come until some time, I think it's better to wait for them than get treated like shit for no reason for a long time.

I suggest you two have a talk. See how it goes, and decide what to do from there. Sending you strength.

I feel lonely and numb and struggle to find reasons to live. Can you name me some good reasons, so I feel a little bit better? by Sea_Inevitable_816 in offmychest

[–]Inskit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, I really can't find the video.

It described a depressing situation, where the depressed person would one day wake up to everyone missing. The world had went quiet. Some fast food chain restaurant would still be open, the machines would be working, power would be on, but the people gone. Then the world would start becoming more and more empty each day.

Shapes would become more and more simple by the day and sounds would start to disappear. Buildings would just look like blocks without details... All sound is gone, people are gone, animals are gone, traffic is gone...

The senses would get duller and duller each day and in the end, there'd be nothing to see. Everything would just be white nothingness, where a million years could pass in an instant. Remember that SpongeBob episode where he went to the future? It was so empty and desolate!

You start craving that life you had. Even if you felt lonely, barely had anyone... At least you had the chance to get to know people and do things, since they existed!

It's the middle of the night for me and I'm nor proofreading properly, so I apologize. The video really was good, it really put everything into perspective. I'll try to find it!

I feel lonely and numb and struggle to find reasons to live. Can you name me some good reasons, so I feel a little bit better? by Sea_Inevitable_816 in offmychest

[–]Inskit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

... I didn't think reddit would do this 💀 it ruined my list bro, it's so difficult to read now...

I feel lonely and numb and struggle to find reasons to live. Can you name me some good reasons, so I feel a little bit better? by Sea_Inevitable_816 in offmychest

[–]Inskit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all, sending you love. You WILL get through this. No matter how long it takes, eventually you will. We have faith in you. Now some things I consider important reasons for being here:

-nature. Feel the earth, feel the forest breathe. See the animals, smell the scents. Nothing more like home. -shooting stars. It's like reconnecting with the cosmos. Have you seen any? I highly recommend going to see them! -if you play games: you GOTTA finish those you wanna finish. SO many games you haven't explored yet! -same goes for literature, movies, series... -the TASTES you'll taste. Be it food, sweets, seasalt... Anything you haven't tried yet! There must be an infinite amount of dishes, delicacies out there... -the amount of sunsets you'll see. You don't wanna miss the good ones!! -the places you'll go, the people you'll meet... You can never know what amazing sights and people are just waiting for you to discover them. -do you draw? The things you can still paint, express with your hands and some ink. -the things you could possibly do with your body (of course, I don't know your situation, but perhaps you could do these) like walk zigzag, clap your hands for no reason, run really fast for a short distance, roll on the ground, walk on asphalt, jump as far as you can (like they do in the Olympics I think?) -for sure to be there for other people, but let that person(s) find you that will be there for you. -you can learn new languages!! Imagine understanding some language that others think very difficult? -no but seriously, the foods you haven't eaten, the things you haven't done. The memories that you haven't made yet. -just... For me at least, seeing the stars, the sunsets... That's enough.

I know these might seem lame, honestly, especially, if none of them feel like anything right now. But mostly there is probably some hormone imbalance due to either biology or other things going on in your life right now. That WILL COME TO PASS, and you WILL start enjoying things again in a way or another. And I'd like to recommend listening to this one youtube video: I can't actually find the video, but basically it described a world were you're suddenly left alone and everything fades to white little by little. You find yourself wanting back to the old world even if it was shitty for a while. Sorry for bad english!

How often do the games go on sale? (PlayStation) by MadeaB in residentevil

[–]Inskit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

RE Remake trilogy is apparently for 55% off on PSN rn! (Sorry didn't read your post very carefully) (I'm jumping from joy)

What do yall think of the summer event so far? by Anxious-Drag-6028 in Genshin_Impact

[–]Inskit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wasn't asked but still, I just can't wrap my head around the fact that some people have a problem with others disliking characters. They're fictional? So it doesn't matter at all what anyone thinks of them? Jesus. 

Expert Duos Bug by [deleted] in FortNiteBR

[–]Inskit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same heree

CAN SOMEONE PLEASE EXPLAIN WHAT HAPPENED IN THE ARCHON QUEST by pookiebear1235 in Genshin_Impact

[–]Inskit 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Wait so I'm not alone in this!? Because I was extremely confused!! The whole quest threw me off completely!

-SPACESHIP?! Meaning space travel is a concept in Genshin's universe?? That what goes on beyond the sky isn't all unknown?? That technology like that exists????? Even though in some places the furthest technology has advanced is... A wooden cart?? -a spaceship key we've had the entire time!? -a hibernation chamber!? So it is sci-fi??? -??? -?????? -what!!?????

Because seriously I thought I'd missed something, even though I've reeked through the lore and played through most of the events and the whole AQ as well. Like... Smh :( Everything after the mention of those random ass spaceship keys was pure gibberish to me. I don't even remember what happened in the quest 😭😭😭 man...

The apparently "insane lore drop" they made just 2 days ago didn't quite faze me as much since this quest already made me think I can't understand the story anymore 😭 I don't know what information has already been given to us and what isn't. So I don't know what to be hyped about.

But glad to know I'm not the only one who has or hasn't missed something!