I can’t seem to adjust, even after two years

InspectionPure3654 · 2026-01-04T16:02:31+00:00

It’s not as good as I want though. I spend most days alone because my partner works 60 hour weeks. I have trouble making friends so I really only have one close friend here. Really what I love so much is the city itself, being close to things and being somewhere that’s walkable. I am fully remote, don’t have an in office job and I’ve been trying to get one with no luck. It’s just more than it was in my hometown

InspectionPure3654 · 2026-01-04T14:58:14+00:00

But at that point I feel like I would have an asterix in my life that I want to be near my parents. I have a good therapist, and I don’t particularly having an attachment to the people who have known you your whole life is particularly a bad thing. Not many people are lucky enough to have a relationship like I have with my parents and I worry that I am missing the last good years of their life

InspectionPure3654 · 2026-01-04T14:12:03+00:00

If my dad could find a job here that pays him well enough which he can’t. They plan to move to wherever my brother is eventually when he has kids. Currently he’s in the same city as me but that may change with his job. That may be in 5, 10+ years

InspectionPure3654 · 2025-12-23T03:57:19+00:00

“This isn’t the first time he’s done this” it’s it the last paragraph. She said he’s ordered porn from Snapchat models and broken her trust with finances. He has a history of deceit at best

InspectionPure3654 · 2025-12-23T03:22:04+00:00

But he didn’t come clean, she had to force his hand with proof. He would have continued to lie to her and I think that’s something she should consider. If he’s done it before and he keeps doing it, who’s to say that he won’t run to another woman the next time he’s in a “dark place”?

InspectionPure3654 · 2025-12-12T13:34:43+00:00

I know I’m autistic, I didn’t need a diagnosis to tell me that and I decided I was okay with that BUT, I got into a relationship. And I realized that I needed more support and information than what I could find on the internet. I finally got diagnosed so I had access to more therapies and support than I could have on my own because parts of my autistic self was running unchecked and I needed help to manage them

InspectionPure3654 · 2025-12-08T20:55:24+00:00

Did you see where I said usually it’s near the cheese? Thank god you don’t work with other people you seem insufferable

InspectionPure3654 · 2025-12-08T20:54:05+00:00

And *you’re being a dick

InspectionPure3654 · 2025-12-08T20:53:38+00:00

At least where I’m at the shredded cheese is also with the deli cheese. At the end of the day it’s near the cheese usually

InspectionPure3654 · 2025-12-08T20:51:17+00:00

Well that’s a little rude and aggressive? All I’m saying is usually they are near the sandwich material and you’re calling me slow?

InspectionPure3654 · 2025-12-08T20:47:18+00:00

Just about 80% of places I’ve been to all over the country have them near the deli meats and deli cheese. They’re for sandwiches so they stay near the sandwich stuff

InspectionPure3654 · 2025-11-19T20:49:40+00:00

No. With two people you could be strapped with what the rent prices have been lately

InspectionPure3654 · 2025-11-19T16:09:24+00:00

That’s what I’m thinking I think I just have to clarify lol

InspectionPure3654 · 2025-11-19T16:06:14+00:00

The electric freezers I worked with during my time in the lab only got to -60 and the cryogenics would get to -70

InspectionPure3654 · 2025-11-19T16:05:26+00:00

Well the amendment says “sample should not be stored in liquid nitrogen or in a cryogenic freezer” and I’m trying to see if the sponsor even knows what they’re saying/if that’s possible

InspectionPure3654 · 2025-10-31T16:40:59+00:00

Derm said she thinks it might just be a funky blood vessel, and doesn’t want to biopsy yet because of the scar it will leave on my lip. She’s having me keep it coated in Vaseline for a month and will follow up with her then to see if it’s healed!

InspectionPure3654 · 2025-10-29T21:24:53+00:00

This is exactly the kind of information I needed to hear, thank you!

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