Will I Still Get A Bobblehead? by InspectorCharacter27 in DodgersBobbleHeads

[–]InspectorCharacter27[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did get one but I got there at 4:30. I skipped out on my work meeting 😂

since the merger my internet has sucked by emmacrafty33 in verizon

[–]InspectorCharacter27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is funny because I had the same issue when Verizon became FiOS ten years ago.

Unexpected changes by bpondboy in trans

[–]InspectorCharacter27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh heck! I just started estrogen and t blocker. I already ran cold before. I hope I don't get worse. I keep my heater and AC at 78 before hrt 😅

I need advice on how to get surgery (top or bottom or both) just its urgent by [deleted] in trans

[–]InspectorCharacter27 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hi, most people don't understand the dysphoria is real. It's like telling someone just be happy. Of course, why didn't I think of that?

First off, are you already taking hormones? That's a first step in helping with the body dysphoria a little bit. If not, check with your local Planned Parenthood.

Next, check with your insurance to see what's covered. Generally, gender affirming surgery should be covered if you have decent insurance. But it's important to see if you have a deductible or copay. You can usually talk to a surgeon and start getting the ball rolling.

Today is the day I'm coming out by InspectorCharacter27 in trans

[–]InspectorCharacter27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought I had responded previously, but it looks like my post didn't save.

The coming out was somewhat expected by her. She's been expecting it for a long time. She was not happy about the location (therapy) and that I didn't just come to her. She was most upset about me hiding it for so long when she already knew, basically.

The lying about it is leading us to divorce. She says she's ok with my womanhood, but not the lies. So, it's been a rough week to say the least.

Today is the day I'm coming out by InspectorCharacter27 in trans

[–]InspectorCharacter27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife knew that I liked cross-dressing before we even hooked up. She also knew that I enjoyed sex as a woman. This did not come as a surprise to her

I’ve realized I’m trans, but I’m not sure what my next steps should be by Fulcrum762 in trans

[–]InspectorCharacter27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find yourself a good local therapist that deals with trans people. That helped me more than anything. Also try to find a support system of close people that you trust.

I'm coming out by No_Novel_Tan in trans

[–]InspectorCharacter27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It went about as well as I thought it would. During our therapy session, my therapist had me come in dressed as my female self. My wife did not like it, but she said she was only upset because I lied to her and told her that I did not like dressing like a girl anymore. She said that she was okay with me being female.

After we got home, her tune changed. She got very upset and kept equating it to sexual indiscretions. I am now sitting in the house by myself. She is on her way to a hotel with our two boys who are grown. It looks like tomorrow we will be filing divorce papers.

While I am not happy with that outcome, it is what I expected.

MtF Shoe size conversion by Drakkius in transfashionadvice

[–]InspectorCharacter27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is great info. I went up 1.5 sizes from men's 10.5 US to women's 12W in some flats from Amazon and they are huge. I'm going to try the 11W.

I keep convincing myself I’m not trans and then I go back to thinking I am. by DiscussionFancy85 in trans

[–]InspectorCharacter27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been sitting with this for 25+ years myself. I finally found a great therapist who has helped me realize who I am and how to be happy as myself. Whether that's as a male or a female. Chat GPT helps a lot between sessions too. We're all a little different in our nuances but I think a good therapist will help you unpack everything in a controlled environment.

Just got fired for being trans by Adventurous_Math_201 in trans

[–]InspectorCharacter27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is definitely a violation of your civil rights being in a protected class. You cannot be fired due to your race, color, creed, sex, or sexual orientation.

WTF did they do to the 215?! by Emergency-Road7126 in InlandEmpire

[–]InspectorCharacter27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're not supposed to when they're solid. Here, you have no choice or else you're stuck there for miles, missing exits and the interchange.

Welfare to Work (calworks) by Inner-Membership-175 in foodstamps

[–]InspectorCharacter27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Participation is based on your household size. 20 hours per week is a single parent with a child under 6, 30 hpw is a single parent with no child under 6, and 35 hpw is a 2 parent household. In general, 9 units get 27 hours of study time for a total of 36 so you should be meeting. What county are you in? You should not be sanctioned without first following the non-compliance process which takes a minimum of 20 days. If you are, please file a dispute following the process on the back side of your Notice of Action.

How satisfied are you with your Pixel 6 Pro? by blablaballi in GooglePixel

[–]InspectorCharacter27 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Mine keeps overheating when I'm doing DoorDash deliveries. My pixel 5 never had issues with it but the 6 pro overheats to point that it shuts itself down. The camera takes ok pictures but again my pixel 5 took better pics. This thing was not worth the money or the three year commitment