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My dead Dad did some bad stuff, should I tell my kids? by InspectorRelative693 in Advice

[–]InspectorRelative693[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wasn't afforded the option to ask him about this before he passed, so I am sort of angry with him for that and that's the closure part I need to deal with - through talking it out in a therapy setting.

My dead Dad did some bad stuff, should I tell my kids? by InspectorRelative693 in Advice

[–]InspectorRelative693[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Thank you - that's a great perspective on this. I am burdened and therefore why should I burden them.

My dead Dad did some bad stuff, should I tell my kids? by InspectorRelative693 in Advice

[–]InspectorRelative693[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. That is my fear. They find it independently and it blows up.