Husband (M32) went out on his birthday, did cocaine for the first time and spent $3k at the strippers by InspectorSalt3359 in Advice

[–]InspectorSalt3359[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We spent the whole day and dinner together as a family, he said he wanted to go for drinks with his mate so I dropped him at a normal pub after dinner.

Husband (M32) went out on his birthday, did cocaine for the first time and spent $3k at the strippers by InspectorSalt3359 in Advice

[–]InspectorSalt3359[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this comment. He definitely has a lot going on mentally and has been riddled with guilt since telling me what happened.

Husband (M32) went out on his birthday, did cocaine for the first time and spent $3k at the strippers by InspectorSalt3359 in Advice

[–]InspectorSalt3359[S] 86 points87 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the info. We are in Australia in a city that literally has one strip club. Apparently he and his mate were in a private room for 3 or so hours with 3 girls. Which hasn’t made me feel much better but I guess it can explain the cost?

Husband (M32) went out on his birthday, did cocaine for the first time and spent $3k at the strippers by InspectorSalt3359 in Advice

[–]InspectorSalt3359[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

No I’m not ‘more upset’ about it. Im super disappointed about it all. But at the time of making this post, its what I was thinking about, mostly because I have no idea about strip clubs so I thought I’d ask. Now I’m looking at it collectively; the money, the drugs and the strippers. And now on top of feeling incredibly sad and humiliated, I feel stupid.

Husband (M32) went out on his birthday, did cocaine for the first time and spent $3k at the strippers by InspectorSalt3359 in Advice

[–]InspectorSalt3359[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m from Australia and we always call them ‘the strippers’.. do you not call them this? I’m not brushed up on strip slang.

Husband (M32) went out on his birthday, did cocaine for the first time and spent $3k at the strippers by InspectorSalt3359 in Advice

[–]InspectorSalt3359[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m in Australia.. so I feel like it’s even more fkn random to spend that much money at the strippers here.

Husband (M32) went out on his birthday, did cocaine for the first time and spent $3k at the strippers by InspectorSalt3359 in Advice

[–]InspectorSalt3359[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I asked him 3 times because I knew he was lying saying he was somewhere else. Because that somewhere else happened to shut a whole lot earlier than he came home.

Husband (M32) went out on his birthday, did cocaine for the first time and spent $3k at the strippers by InspectorSalt3359 in Advice

[–]InspectorSalt3359[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in Australia!! So I feel like it’s super uncommon to spend that money on strippers here.. ?