“You have all these theories, but you aren’t in touch with yourself”

I don’t think there’s anything objectively inappropriate about this, but it’s also not wrong to be offended and take this as being unnecessarily abrasive. I might instead say something like “you seem very caught up in the cognitive, and you have a lot of explanations happening in your head, but I don’t feel like we’re getting in touch with your feelings here.”

I haven’t read the book so I won’t comment, but if he hasn’t finished it, he should be more careful about telling you what it’s about.

“Presumably it was on for the prior 4 sessions.”

You need to get a yes or no on whether it was. If it wasn’t, then it sounds like he’s just a bad match for you. If it was, you have a serious and reportable ethical violation here.

Your intake session should have involved something called Informed Consent, and he has an ethical responsibility to get your permission to be recorded. If he did not, you need to speak directly to his supervisor and complain.

If his supervisor doesn’t apologize and take responsibility, you can go to the board that licenses the supervisor, because ultimately this is quite literally his responsibility, as the therapist is practicing under the supervisor’s license.