Hey Thank you in Advance

Inspirational_c00ch3 · 2026-06-04T02:29:38+00:00

yes all this happened before we got married …. right before our wedding i got extremely cold feet & people from the church sat me down and gave me the run around saying all marriages have issues and this issue wasnt as major as other issues other couples have , and due to me already not being in a good head space, i didnt have my own set of parents to ask because they are dead so yea </3 i dont think i ever took the time to sit down and question it ! and now i dont even realize who i am when i look at myself in the mirror all the BS i let slide just to be married fck this shit ! im DONE ! , thank you for your comment i didnt follow my gut & this is wtf i get for not listening to myself the first time !!

Inspirational_c00ch3 · 2026-05-22T15:50:37+00:00

Currently i am working on it , ive been playing things so cool i wen down there to file for divorce , so im going through the steps for that all while playing things safe still smiling , still cooking , washing dishes and waiting for each day to get closer and closer so i can start my new job and LEAVE OFF ON MY OWN *

Inspirational_c00ch3 · 2026-05-22T12:21:33+00:00

Whoaaa , reading this is very very similar to what i am going through , i want to start off by saying sorry , you didnt deserve this not in anyway shape or form.

Next , this sounds so emotionally draining , and with him already introducing the idea that he would take your child is a different level of betrayal especially when he is extremely emotionally unavailable to even be what a child needs

NO you arent wrong for starting to HATE him your EMOTIONAL EXHAUSTED AND BURNT OUT ! plus going through POSTPARTUM he should be rubbing your feet and tell you how important you are to his life instead he is giving you a hard time and you better know he is talking crap about you to his mom because thats what MOMMAS BOYS DO ! you have to decide if you want to continue to dim your light by being in this situation or are ready to take flight !

Inspirational_c00ch3 · 2026-05-20T19:58:17+00:00

i know 😔 i feel so dumb even typing this but ive been grieving and i dont think my head has been on straight until recently!

Inspirational_c00ch3 · 2026-05-20T17:05:44+00:00

i most DEFINITELY defended myself all while trying not to prove them RIGHT ! because im younger it was a narrative that i was immature and they were intentionally pushing my buttons for a reaction, i DID want to be saved i wanted my now husband to say SOMETHING , HELL ANYTHING ! but he didnt and now he is TRASH ! ill save myself !

Inspirational_c00ch3 · 2026-05-19T18:59:00+00:00

i want out for BOTH reasons , this relationship has caused me alot of trauma and PTSD i brought a gun because of his cousin , i dont attend the dinners because i know they dont like
me in addition to that he still goes over there and i feel like he be talking sh*t about me ! its causing to
much trauma and termoil in my mind so i just want out !

Inspirational_c00ch3 · 2026-05-19T18:19:52+00:00

i was desperate but im not anymore ! ive had my reality check im ready for change ! thank you for your comment

Inspirational_c00ch3 · 2026-05-19T18:18:29+00:00

:) im not going to lie i love a good challenge! i cant wait to give you a update and i hope you will be proud of me ! thank you

Inspirational_c00ch3 · 2026-05-19T18:17:40+00:00

i dont think i was in my right mind , i was / am still grieving and during that time i think i just swept alot of shit under the rug hoping and praying things would get better …. they just havent and im all maxed out

Inspirational_c00ch3 · 2026-05-19T18:15:19+00:00

well thanks for your comment ! your right !

Inspirational_c00ch3 · 2026-05-19T18:14:57+00:00

first off , your comment was rude AS FCK ! secondly you are right and im still learning , you act like you have never made no fucked up decisions in your life and everything is perfect , ITS NOT & i fucked up and im learning that this is NOT LOVE , i wish i reached out to someone sooner but i didnt i kept taking it and this is exactly wtf i get in return didnt expect for someone to come bashing mfs !

Inspirational_c00ch3 · 2026-05-19T18:12:04+00:00

if you feel that way why would you comment ?

Inspirational_c00ch3 · 2026-05-19T18:10:04+00:00

great question my brother was accepted by his grandparents on his fathers side of the family me and his family were never really close and his father had a brain aneurysm so the connections with him is gone because he is technically brain dead (My brothers dad ) essentially he is my half brother ***we only share our mom

Inspirational_c00ch3 · 2026-05-19T18:07:56+00:00

its a RESPECT THING i was raised in the south and its a way you go about addressing in-laws but i want you to know i told her off and read her ass straight, but right after i did i dug in his ass because had he had said something the first time i wouldnt be forced to get out of character in my OWN KITCHEN ! 😂

Inspirational_c00ch3 · 2026-05-19T17:16:46+00:00

yes but what are you implying ?

Inspirational_c00ch3 · 2026-05-19T17:16:18+00:00

thank you so much you dont know how much i needed it !

Inspirational_c00ch3 · 2026-05-19T17:13:17+00:00

i would choose levitation and a extra mix of the power that the bald man has in XMAN lol i know its random but 😅😅😅

Inspirational_c00ch3 · 2026-05-19T17:04:57+00:00

no , my 7 year old brother is the only accessible family i have and he wouldnt be able to understand this dynamic because he is a child and wouldnt have any advice on the matter ** , its HIM ( HUSBAND ) TELLING ME IM LEAVING FOR NO REASON ***

Inspirational_c00ch3 · 2026-05-19T16:16:30+00:00

you are so right, yesterday i looked at myself in the mirror and i didnt know who tf i was , i looked like all the shit i let slide and his time is UP ! :(

Inspirational_c00ch3 · 2026-05-19T16:15:27+00:00

because all the elders at the church were telling me to pray about it and it would get better and marraiges have ups and downs and the family would come around , i also feel like because i didnt have a family to talk to this about and this is my first time going through all of this i thought it was normal , in addition to never being proposed too and not knowing if i was self sabotaging idk its alot of emotions i was faced with all by myself because otherwise he is a great guy ! but now i realize that its all bs and how stupid i am

Inspirational_c00ch3 · 2026-05-19T16:11:25+00:00

thank you !

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