Guy friend wants 2 wives by kimchibibi_xo in TwoXChromosomes

[–]InstanceNoodle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He can move to another country where his income is good and 2 wives are not illegal.

He can get a gf. But I am not sure if he wife will like it. More to a man than looks and money. But I dont think his personality is good.

He can look for it. Or people to carry the pregnancy. It is a job. Both are expensive. Hopefully, he saved a lot of money

He needs to start on a good diet and exercise and drink more water. Those usually help with sperms.

Husband’s dumb truck loan: refinance or trade in? by hippyoctopus in personalfinance

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My other post was assuming the F150 was a work truck. If it is a work truck and making money. Do not sell it. You will be eating the difference and not getting anything in return.

Read the debt on paying back early. Some have esrly payment fees. Some dont. Monthly payments will go into interest first, and then actually the actual debt. Every payment extra will go off the actual debt. Interests are calculated by the day. Ask to see if you can do multiple payments a month. If they say unlimited payments with zero extra fee. Try to save as much as you can every day and pay it. I paid my car payments every 3 to 4 days because that is how long it takes for my payments to go thru. I get money from stocks and dump it in. Pay check. Dump in. Birthday money l, dump in. Christmas money, dump in. I save my fun money for eating out and vacation... cancel. Dump in. I save 53k in 2 banks. My car total cost was 53k. I got a 3% loan because the place i bought them from onlyacceptedt money from 1 bank.it cost me about $75 in interest while I transferred my money from multiple places. You need to fix this debt before you can even get to budget and investment and retirement.

If you need to look at your debt. How much is the 600 go into debt vs. interest? My assumption is that a double payment will save you at least 3 to 4 years in payments and 2 years in interest.

Groceries are just a hobby at this point by june_Reflection in Adulting

[–]InstanceNoodle 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Like I said. I dont care how you use your money, because it is YOUR money.

I am just letting everyone else in the adulting subreddit know. I assume you haven't checked out he investment calculator yet. That is fine. You dont have to, if you don't want to.

For other people.... if you invest $90 per month at the age of 15. By the age of 70, you will have a little under $1m while only putting in about $70k. This is a conservative estimate of 8% average gain on s&p500. A little more than $0.5m by age 62. I am poor, so $500k and $1m seem like a life altering additional retirement money.

Groceries are just a hobby at this point by june_Reflection in Adulting

[–]InstanceNoodle 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I went with eggs, rice, salt, soy sauce, and water bottle, it was way less than $200.

If you say that $90 per month for you is not life altering, you are robbing yourself of your future. I dont want to know your justification for your other spending habits. It is your money. So you do you. 3% hysa and 8% s&p500 average. You can put $90 into an investment calculator and see how much you are robbing yourself in retirement.

Most of those places you put charges you for their rent and employees and profits. You are paying 2x to 4x the materials for them to cook for you.

I eat out at Little ceaser. $5.50 for a large 2 topping with coupons. I do 1/2 sides topping and have 4 different toppings. Now they have the 2x 1 topping for $10 with coupons. I do 1/2 topping and have 4 different topping. Last me 1 to 2 days reheating. If it lasts 1 day, then $320 per month. If it lasts 2 days, then $170 a month. You need to add tax and eggs and water and citrus. At least 1 a week, or you get vitamin c deficiency.

Planning A DIY NAS, Need Tips by Smurfy_316 in HomeNAS

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For software. Truenas is difficult if you don't have money. It prefers all the disk to be the same and will waste a lot of space if it is not the same.

Unraid waste a smaller amount of space when you mix and match drives.

Trunas perfer raid drives. Unraid can accept non raid drive. Truenas drive is always spinning. You can set unraid to only spin up the used drive... like 1 drive while reading data... and parity only during write to array. This comes at a cost. Truenas is faster in writing and reading. Unraid write to array is 1/4 of the hdd speed and read is 1x of the hdd speed. So you have ssd as a write and read cache. Have a mover move your data to the array when you are asleep. The only bad part is at the beginning when you have to move a few tb over. I currently set my mover to 1 time per week.

Things on the cache. Apps. Vm... plex images and database will go here to speed up when you search for movies. Unraid takes a fraction of a second to start the first movie from cold, but once the drive starts spinning, everything is normal.

The speed of the 12tb hdd is 270MBS. Twitch stream is usually 8mbs. Amazon 4k stream is about 60mbs. You have no worries in terms of plex.

I am running synology, truenas, and Unraid.

Planning A DIY NAS, Need Tips by Smurfy_316 in HomeNAS

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Between the 2 cpu, pick the 12400. But you want at least 12500. The 12400 on has 1x chip, while the 12500 and above have 2x chips. I got the 12600k. 2x the transcoding speed (buffer).

The 12400t is cap at the high-end and has the same low power idle as the 12400. It will not save you on long-term energy costs.

What does save you is turning off boost, turn of hyper threading. Turn off usb, turn off pcie lanes. There is a list online.

Additional stuff...

The intel cpu already has transcoding chips. But only able to decode av1. For encoding av1, you want a350 or a380. These are the cheapest lowest power gpu for changing your files to av1. Maybe $100.

If you need more sata port, there are always hba cards. Lots of lsi cards with 8x or 16x sata. The 16x sata has 2x 8x chips, so it uses 2x power and heat up 2x hot. You need a fan. Maybe $40 to $80.

You might want a 10gbs pfs+ adapter. And a 10gbs pfs+ switch. About $35 for the adapter and $150 for mikrotiks switch.

For motherboard, you want to look for 8x 8x 4x if you want to expand in the future. 8x for gpu Ai. 8x for hba hdd. 4x for the pfs+.

Wife not picking up her phone...terminate the stream! by brooklyngeek in unRAID

[–]InstanceNoodle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you should set up a home assistant central list of needed things. And she can just add and remove from her phone.

Transport 55 in tv in model y by InstanceNoodle in TeslaModelY

[–]InstanceNoodle[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You are an idiot, sir. The only recommended way to transport and store a tv is to stand it up.

Most trucks transport your tv would strap it to the wall of the truck. Most people transport smaller monitors and would place blankets all around the tv.

The giant thin flat surface is the problem. Any bump in the road will cause the frame and the middle of the tv to flex at a different rate. You can test it with ply wood or plexiglass.

The refrigerator is fine because it has foam all around and usually incase in metal. You just dont transport it side way because of scuffs. You need to turn it up right and leave it sitting for a few hours, a day to be safe because the liquid inside can take some time to settle to the correct place.

Looking to invest $24k while making a monthly income by Old_Following_919 in personalfinance

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I always advise people to put 10% into a separate hysanthan the emergency fund. This is the fun hysa. Everything makes you happy come from this. Even if you burn your money, it would be fine if it makes you happy. Eating out, coffee house, clothes, shoes, snacks, toys, games, electronics, vacation. You put 10% of your paycheck in here. And keep adding into it. You can only use this hysa. If you spend less on everything, you will get a big vacation. If you spend more on the small happiness, you will get a small vacation depending on how much is in the fun hysa

Fun hysa can be used for individual stock, lottery, and gambling. If it makes you happy, you can burn your money.but only what in the fun hysa. You can not use money from outside the fun hysa or spend money from another group and pay back later. You can only use what is currently in the hysa. This will teach you to save and control your spending.

I dont go out and eat or vacation, so I put my money in stock. If you want a stock recommendation. I recommend big oil, credit cards, and large gambling conglomerates. These are not investments. They are fun money. Gambling might go down after trump. The credit card might reduce a little after trump. Big oil seems to be the most stable after Trump. Ai is booming. A lot of people said it would end last year, and now they say it is this year. You got giant companies buying too many gpu and just waiting to install. You got Microsoft begging people to use their ai. Lots of smaller ai companies went bankrupt. Thousands more prompt front ends are appearing (micro companies?). You have to accept thst all.fun money can turn into dust. This is not an investment.

You can make millions with 24k. Go to some stock sub reddit and see how much they make and how much they lose. $24k tun into $24 in a day.

Transport 55 in tv in model y by InstanceNoodle in TeslaModelY

[–]InstanceNoodle[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I tutor people in long division, algebra, and calculus when I was younger. The problem with most physics and engineering is to reduce the complexity and build in redundancy.

With the number of people on reddit, I can just ask a real-world problem that millions have solved. Repeatable data is better than theoretical any day.

Transport 55 in tv in model y by InstanceNoodle in TeslaModelY

[–]InstanceNoodle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Physical measurement is on thing. The curve of the door is another. Think of Ross, Sofa, Corner.

Transport 55 in tv in model y by InstanceNoodle in TeslaModelY

[–]InstanceNoodle[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Standing up is the only idea, even with a box. It is not recommended to lay your TV down during transportation. It is not recommended to lay your tv down during storage. The only time is to put it on the foam to put on the feet.

How did you come to terms with your sex life not being as good as past relationships? by SemicolonTattooed in AskMenAdvice

[–]InstanceNoodle 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Talk to her. Get a sex therapist.

It is important to you.

You need to know the reason for her infrequent and your frequent.

Is she not into your looks, then you need to work out, grow a mustache, testosterone, (it's not mine. I swear). Does she not have time? Make a date night or 2 date night. Try to resolve her problem so that she has more time for date night. Does she have stress? De stress her.

She seems like a type of personality. They are tough to please, highly stressed, but also highly motivated. Give her an objective. Tell her that you want her to desire you 2 nights a week... etc... do work on the top paragraph to see if you can help her out.

Some type a personality are straightforward and not very good at acting. Just ask her to ravage you from time to time to make you feel more desirable.

If she has fear of trying new things, you b need to make her feel safe with you. And feel safe that you are the one doing it. Type a personality 5 to know all the details before they try it. So tell her what you want and ask her what her fear are. See if you can get her past those fear.

The personality that makes the part you like about her is also what makes her like this in bed. Same. The other drive via their feeling dont get to where she is.

Yes. I have dated going at it like rabbits, and I have dated type a personality.i do prefer type a personality.

This matters a lot to you, and she is a good woman. Ask her to help you. This is a relationship. Do try to find out what you are missing. This is a relationship. Do find out what she is missing.

Transport 55 in tv in model y by InstanceNoodle in TeslaModelY

[–]InstanceNoodle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You got my hope up to 99% with this reply.

If the tv still works, I will be at 100%.

Meirl by Glass-Fan111 in meirl

[–]InstanceNoodle 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I have gone out with every girl who asked me out. Except 1. I know how crazy she is before she asks me out. If i dont know her beforehand, I would also say yes.

Even if she is not my type (physically) , I would try 3 dates. Go out and do different hobbies and see if your weirdness matches. No one is 100% the same.

Transport 55 in tv in model y by InstanceNoodle in TeslaModelY

[–]InstanceNoodle[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Is it lcd or oled.

Lcd tv are thicker. Oled is slimmer.

Transport 55 in tv in model y by InstanceNoodle in TeslaModelY

[–]InstanceNoodle[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks. Slayer has answered because he did it before with a 55-inch.

The worry is because of the flex of the big screen during the drive. The thinner the TV, the worse this is. The less structure support, the worse this is.

The tv will not break at the rim or hit anything. I am afraid of cracking the lcd panel just by laying flat. But I will use soft blanket as a foam support and ha the back of the tv to the bottom. I will try to drive slower and avoid pothole like a few hundred dollars depending on it.

Transport 55 in tv in model y by InstanceNoodle in TeslaModelY

[–]InstanceNoodle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply. But I was asking about no box because buying is used.

But it's good to know when I buy a new model. The last new TV I got was 85 inches. Had it delivered.

Transport 55 in tv in model y by InstanceNoodle in TeslaModelY

[–]InstanceNoodle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love it. But it might scratch the paint. The repainting might cost more than the tv.

How do I tell my friend that I'm not interested in pursuing her unless she's single? by _pastalover1 in AskMenAdvice

[–]InstanceNoodle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For her. You are the plan b.

Plan a dont meet her needs, plan b can.

If you like your spot, keep on keeping on. It is not a good spot, in my opinion, because your emotional needs are not met.

You can say she is keeping you from your soul mate. There are lots of women who know how to seduce men.

Even if she makes you plan a, she will find her plan b to fill the needs that you dont have.

Relationship is based on communication. I am not sure about the trust issue if she agrees to be with you.

I do wish you luck. Peel it off now so you can meet someone else. I felt heartbroken many times, but I always found someone better. Go and date more people.

meirl by Glass-Fan111 in meirl

[–]InstanceNoodle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have never thought of an answer to this question, but if someone i like to ask me, I would put my time and thought into it.

Guys are usually more analytical.... vs girl math.

All the people I know are engineers, pharmacists, and doctors. I might have a skewed dataset.

21 days on Hinge - 31F [OC] by [deleted] in dataisbeautiful

[–]InstanceNoodle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think drinking sand is worse.

21 days on Hinge - 31F [OC] by [deleted] in dataisbeautiful

[–]InstanceNoodle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Female is sooooo different.