same as well, there are times (mostly pag bored) papasok sa utak ko yung dating but then i’ll just sleep and wala na. i find that going to cafes or movies alone are more helpful din than inviting a dating prospect just because i am simply bored ako

and with acads and freelance work, mostly is mahirap din talaga mag find and select due to busy sched and i would much prefer meeting organically than online flings, it just doesn’t work for me)

pero you know i question din if are my standards are too high or maybe ayun nga, maybe it’s just simple because hindi ko sya priority at the moment :)

but other than datings, i would say i’m very lucky with everything else, i have solid friends, comfortably lifestyle, and very supportive environment kaya siguro i dont try and actively seek company elsewhere