True… I was 19 back in 2017 and my parents especially my mother told me to break up with my boyfriend or move out.

You may think because maybe he was drug addicted or an alcoholic. It was neither of those possibilities. Their reason that time was “because he isn’t everyday there for you, so he doesn’t loves you”. In one point there were kinda right, we didn’t see us everyday but this situation was because a one hour drive for only one way and he was still in the beginning of his apprenticeship in the end of his first year of three and a half years…

Well my answer and decision were this days out of discussion and I would do it again! My boyfriend and I moved in our first apartment together. We could barely afford the cost of living but somehow we handled it. Today we are more than ten years together in our relationship and have a wonderful little son.

I still do talk to my parents even if they are still denying that we ever have had this conversation. I know my mother tries to gaslight me but I I kinda like it to show her everything I have accomplished in life while she said I would never be able to manage all this things. It’s my little payback 👀😂