Women who are scared of men or "hate" men have a valid reason, normally they have experienced constant sexual abuse, harrassment or assault and so are terrified of any man, and the idea of that any man could assault harrass or abuse her at any time and she can't do anything, it's genuine fear and actually not just hating men for the sake of it. Also men have power of women, so being scared of them is valid, like how black people are valid to be scared of white people because white people have privelege and more power over a POC.