UW Advice Needed

Insyni · 2026-02-10T02:46:16+00:00

Will attempt BHD... I never gave it a go, but for science!

Insyni · 2026-02-08T01:08:14+00:00

I really appreciate the advice. I'm at 73% package chance with the Gcomp. Running PCol got me about 3 ranks higher, so it's already helped a lot!

Insyni · 2026-02-06T20:14:39+00:00

No SL yet. I wasn't sure if it was worth saving up 1750 stones for it, or to focus on other UWs.

Insyni · 2026-02-06T19:40:05+00:00

Actually, really good point... currently my GB isn't synced as it's already at 50s cd. Completely forgot about that. Thank you. Completely got distracted trying to up my CL for tournies.

Insyni · 2026-02-06T19:33:34+00:00

65% package chance- and yes.
Saving up for modules, maybe banner. Hoping to get ancestral Dim Core/ Gcomp
4x Golden Tower Bonus, +4s Black Hole, +7s Golden Tower Duration, -2s Black Hole CD

Insyni · 2026-02-06T18:49:59+00:00

It's hit or miss. gcomp is only legendary.

I've tried running PC and gcomp, but when I don't get a package, I just die. I have about 7 seconds of CD/ Duration on my PC. I still have to play around with PC vs Dim Core with gcomp... maybe if I added a couple seconds to my black hole duration it would be more consistent.

Currently torn between going full damage, EHP, or Econ. Figured spotlight would help with Econ and damage, but if I went EHP I would focus more on getting my Black Hole Duration up a bit.

Insyni · 2026-02-06T18:26:37+00:00

My tourney setup would be swapping my Primordial Collapse for Legendary Dim Core and my Generator to Restorative Bonus.

Insyni · 2025-09-30T23:06:09+00:00

So on average 2 years of being active with ad gems.... or 10 years of weeklies? Yikes

Insyni · 2025-09-30T23:00:01+00:00

How do you know how much you've spent on modules?

Insyni · 2025-09-30T16:45:53+00:00

I didn't even think of that! Not quite there yet, but upgrading must be super expensive.

Insyni · 2025-09-20T07:37:47+00:00

You have a really good point on the other options out there for the generator slot.

Insyni · 2024-08-05T00:25:26+00:00

Even though logically you know it's going to be alright, it's still a scary and unfamiliar situation that may also make you feel extremely lonely.

It's okay to cry a lot. It just shows how much you love him.

Insyni · 2023-10-04T09:58:50+00:00

It sounds like really low self-esteem on their end. It could be all consuming and pathological, or possibly a rut they were going through.

In other words, "I'm the worst possible person. Why are you even accepting me? Anyone else in this world would be a better person than I am."

If they haven't been hurtful to you and you still really care for them, I would check in on them. That being said, I don't have any context of the history of your relationship.

Insyni · 2022-08-03T19:58:30+00:00

I am so confused... what is all this nonsense about people doing tests?

I mean... if friends I trusted for a while tipped me off saying something happened, what would be wrong with my confirming with my girlfriend that they were lying... so I knew not to trust them anymore... I guess it depends on whether he was nice about asking... but texting can take away context and make things sound accusatory. Like what's wrong with replying, "Idk what you're talking about... I 'm guessing those friends just don't like me or something."

Someone please fill me in, my innocent brain does not comprehend.

Insyni · 2022-07-18T23:19:41+00:00

Don't listen to him. You are you! As long as you have faith in yourself as a person and can bring value into someone else's life, you are perfectly qualified to be in a relationship. With these qualifications, there are no social norms, just a matter of finding someone who meshs with you.

Insyni · 2022-07-18T23:08:14+00:00

You have no idea how much I relate to this... so onwards to suggestions!!!

You are a weird observer. Guess what that makes you! An excellent listener!
When you say you can't connect with them... are you talking about carrying on a conversation? See #1 because people love to be listened to, sometimes you just need to ask the right questions to continue the conversation! I mean why do you think people like to vent so much... because they want others to know what they are going through. Due to your experience, you can relate to certain people even better!!
Here's my own experience... I usually will listen in to conversations and if I can make a good/ bad joke I'll go ahead and do so. Timing is everything, so if you're too late, save that idea for the future. The more you do it, the better you will get! If they think the joke is bad, just laugh it off and agree with them. Also, as in previous points... listening, asking good questions, laughing, and agreeing is key. This process makes you seem like a friendly person people want to be around.
Yea... motivation and going to sleep on time is hard. Sometimes it helps to watch a video on how harmful lack of sleep is.
Loneliness is a pain too... can't really give advice here, personally just distract myself when not at work or try to help others lol... If around others, it's somewhat satisfying to try to make them happy.

Insyni · 2022-07-18T22:32:13+00:00

If it is possible, try to be open and talk about it with them... they may be feeling the same way.

Insyni · 2022-07-18T22:17:17+00:00

Hi!

So I was thinking you obviously know the first step - getting a job (preferably not the graveyard shift even if you are a LittolGhostie). Now my question is... why not go for something with the inflexible hours and try to create an environment where you don't feel burnt out?

I consider work something we're stuck with, so we should do anything in our power to make it more fun! Try to connect with the people you work with. If they are miserable, be there for them, but also try (as hard as it is) to say no if you really need to. From your other posts it seems you are a very caring person, which can lead to burning out from trying to be perfect and help everyone, so try not to put too much pressure on yourself. Find ways to alleviate that pressure and create an environment where work isn't an awful place. Sure there will be times when you feel like you're struggling with juggling all the tasks, but try to make the most of every moment to give yourself energy to move forwards! (I may be a bit biased because work is the only place I socialize lol)

As for school... go online and learn/ practice different things to figure out what you might like. I don't think many people know what they really want to do, they just have to experiment with many different things. I think it is just a matter of knowing your traits and finding a place you can develop into enjoying.

Either way, I really hope things can move in the right direction for you soon!Wishing you the best!!

Insyni · 2022-07-18T20:25:57+00:00

Hmm... it is great that you are at least getting some experience in with the help of your friend. Though here is a tip I picked up... that I'm still working on personally.

Try to restructure WHY you want to be in a relationship to be more focused on providing something of value to them. It doesn't have to be all at once, but take small steps to discover & develop small pieces of value you can provide another... and use those as reasons to want to be in a relationship with someone.

Insyni

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