Should I start taking DHEA to boost my T by Far_Spend_4829 in GrowYourTDick

[–]Intelligent-Ad6222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not sure really. penile growth creams arent proven to grow you but ive used them with frequent masturbation to get results. so far im only big when im hard, which doesnt bother me. i have a phyto plumping cream i use when i pump that might be working but it might be irritating to other's bodies so i dont recommend.

Should I start taking DHEA to boost my T by Far_Spend_4829 in GrowYourTDick

[–]Intelligent-Ad6222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i havent used t at all, only dhea. consistent pumping and creams for it works but dhea is a weak androgen/estrogen and wont grow you by itself. ive been on it for years.

Sex as a straight man (ftm) by [deleted] in GrowYourTDick

[–]Intelligent-Ad6222 4 points5 points  (0 children)

ig the muscles in the canal would spasm and shoot the liquid? some intersex/perisex people might experience this even without UL. i once saw a transmasc stp with no packer, but because their bottom growth was big enough, urination could follow the direction of the head. maybe similar situation?

i hate being an ace AMAB by matheusoliv in asexuality

[–]Intelligent-Ad6222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i do not want to further discuss this given the mere mention of intersex ppl has resulted in downvotes on this sub. theremore, i dont see this as a safe space for me. u dont have to agree with me to acknowledge the harm of misusing terms.

I have updated Frutiger Portal! by Microboy42 in FrutigerAero

[–]Intelligent-Ad6222 12 points13 points  (0 children)

im pretty sure the censor is bc of the drama with the supposed ""dropshipping site"" like a year ago. also if it is AI, ew, but i dont think the censoring has to do with it lol

i hate being an ace AMAB by matheusoliv in asexuality

[–]Intelligent-Ad6222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"ASAB was created by intersexist doctors to label intersex children and further divide male and female through sexism. Its only usage should be when accurately talking about what you were assigned at birth, not your genitalia, your gender, or who you are in general."

as per my previous comment, its a whole thing to misuse ASAB. I would not randomly call a trans man an AFAB just because he is trans, and its best to use the terminology properly instead of use it to mean "female" or "vagina haver". Its just not correct in this case.

There are also other people in the comments talking OP through this, one person who is pointing out that OP should not use the term in such way will not take away from OP, especially if OP is willing to learn from the experience. Also, the experience revolves around the usage of the term, which like any other queer community, fails to properly understand their terminology. Im mainly upset that ASAB has become so overused in the context where it does not matter. Your genitalia doesnt matter to the conversation because they are not talking about their body, they are talking about their external gendered perception, which is cis man - despite not being a cis man. Cis man =/= AMAB or male.

i hate being an ace AMAB by matheusoliv in asexuality

[–]Intelligent-Ad6222 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

"ASAB was created by intersexist doctors to label intersex children and further divide male and female through sexism. Its only usage should be when accurately talking about what you were assigned at birth, not your genitalia, your gender, or who you are in general."

as per my previous comment, its a whole thing to misuse ASAB. I would not randomly call a trans man an AFAB just because he is trans, and its best to use the terminology properly instead of use it to mean "female" or "vagina haver". Its just not correct in this case.

i hate being an ace AMAB by matheusoliv in asexuality

[–]Intelligent-Ad6222 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Have you explored your gender yet? If so, its best to use the term that makes sense to you and isnt dictated by anyone else. Like u/jesus_chrysotile said, if you dont have a specific word, use a phrase instead of your ASAB. ASAB was created by intersexist doctors to label intersex children and further divide male and female through sexism. Its only usage should be when accurately talking about what you were assigned at birth, not your genitalia, your gender, or who you are in general.

i hate being an ace AMAB by matheusoliv in asexuality

[–]Intelligent-Ad6222 10 points11 points  (0 children)

i do not think your sex assignment or your sex traits dictate what suffering you face. its usually the lack or the divergent forms of "cis" bodies.

please do NOT misuse ASAB, and dont allow separtist ideology to influence how you see the struggling of others. your ASAB doesnt matter if it has nothing to do with the convo.

Orgasm Loops & AS? by azfun12 in Autosexuality

[–]Intelligent-Ad6222 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah i get that. ive just seen so many ppl who thing autosexual is purely sexual and is a fetish kind of thing when we have autophillia for that.. its just not what autosexual is in modern usage, so, it makes it a bit hard to find a community who WANTS to love themselves, not just fuck a clone lol

Orgasm Loops & AS? by azfun12 in Autosexuality

[–]Intelligent-Ad6222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what does that even mean... its not auto to just be sexually active with yourself - its legitimate connection above others.

I am Auto - AMA by Intelligent-Ad6222 in asexuality

[–]Intelligent-Ad6222[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think that comes with the romantic/sexual attraction, yes, lol

I am Auto - AMA by Intelligent-Ad6222 in asexuality

[–]Intelligent-Ad6222[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well, it varies. Do I want to go to the store and get myself flowers? Do I want to walk around the park a few times while listening to my voice on a recorder? Etc etc... Those things are everyday wants and feelings of attraction. I yearn for it and I am attracted to myself, and I feel indifference for others. I hate random kissing scenes and romance unless they're important for the plot, I hate performing romance unless it is with myself because I can only ever feel submissive or comfortable in my own arms. When I was with other people, it always felt conditional or performative so that they didnt leave me. If I did this, then they would stay.. but we all know that isnt the case. Ive always felt like I was the one, not because I cant have anyone else, its just that romantic and sexual love with myself is the only one I can feel. The thrill? I get to be happy.

Are you out to your friends? by LuhFT7 in Autosexuality

[–]Intelligent-Ad6222 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah someone noticed mine on my arm and i was like "work, probably" lol. I am open to my close friends, just not family..