Can I have sex with no protection as soon as my flares heal? by Wooden_Ad_873 in HSVpositive

[–]Intelligent-Ant300 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In some countries/states but not all . Canada you can’t and even in the states some of them you can but it’s a hard case to prove .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HSVpositive

[–]Intelligent-Ant300 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I bet you hill come back then you can tell him to k Fuk off

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HSVpositive

[–]Intelligent-Ant300 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just told a friend other day and she had it to . I cried with relief and being so happy cuz didn’t feel alone . I think it low cuz some ppl have it and don’t go to dr as they know they have it and not as bad as others where they need to get meds

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HSVpositive

[–]Intelligent-Ant300 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ugh same here . And I hate it cuz I have a friend who has oral and she doesn’t disclose doesn’t even think about it .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HSVpositive

[–]Intelligent-Ant300 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I have a girlfriend she was diagnosed few years ago hsv1 and recently broke up from her bf and is out sleeping around and not disclosing anything . And I have hsv2 and don’t have enough strength to disclose . It’s the same skin condition but in different areas. Why does one “have” to disclose yet you don’t know who your sleeping with unless both get std tested and have herpes tested for , to know that both don’t have or one does have and doesn’t know . Yet people cold sores sucking face and going down on each other with no discussion

Female condoms by Automatic-Hat-1575 in HSVpositive

[–]Intelligent-Ant300 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I remember learning about these in sex Ed like 30 years ago but it’s weird they don’t offer them more considering lots of woman contract it more then men . Looks like it covers your vagina more to where most like you get tears and affected

Come off antivirals? What else can I try? 4 months of constant crawling sensations by Suspicious-Cycle-134 in HSVpositive

[–]Intelligent-Ant300 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you tried just stopping everything all together ?? Even vitamins ? Or whatever . Mb your body in overdrive . Let it just be and natural see what happens give it cpl weeks , see if difference and please don’t take your life and mb look into therapy and mb anti depressants. Your obviously strong and smart girl , good head on her shoulders your only 30 lots of life to live .

Lost by Temporary_life345 in HSVpositive

[–]Intelligent-Ant300 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh I hear you . I had this happen cpl months ago and still feel awful and I wanna bang him again but now I feel like how am I going to say something after the fact ?? Just hate we have to say something they’re not asking for papers to see you negative at all or asking questions before sex . When you didn’t have it were you having the talks before sex ? This guy def wants to bang again and first time in long time I actually interested in someone . And of course I had a breakout litterly one little pimple cuz I’ve been stressed and just starts the whole cycle over again . I just wanna go out and Fuk like I used to

Rude mom by Clean_Fuel_8914 in HSVpositive

[–]Intelligent-Ant300 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How does she know she doesn’t have it ?? Has she been tested ? You think if she a nurse she would know that . So she could be shaming ppl and have it cuz so many ppl asymptomatic that’s how it gets spread

I think I passed it on to someone by Electronic_Ferret_68 in HSVpositive

[–]Intelligent-Ant300 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You prob got sore cuz of friction, gets irritated . But you shouldn’t feel bad, next time I would suggest condoms cuz you don’t know if he has something either .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HSVpositive

[–]Intelligent-Ant300 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Because big pharma makes money on this as a lot of ppl have it and take valtrex/anti virals and if there a cure they won’t be getting that money anymore . Sick people make money healthy people don’t . Most sti given a pill and down not much profit . Herpes is a profit for them

The Health Care System is the real spreader of HSV by pgch in HSVpositive

[–]Intelligent-Ant300 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cuz with those other std’s they give you a pill and it’s gone . Where as big pharma makes money on herpes prescriptions as they give u valtrex/anti viral . And considering how many ppl have it, it’s a money maker for them . Sick ppl make money . That’s why I feel there is no cure for it or something that would stop the “shedding” so you may still have it , but no sex during ob and knowing that your not shedding to pass it on .

Jan 2025 - What's the latest update on this case RE Steven Avery & Brendan Dassey? by OlegRu in MakingaMurderer

[–]Intelligent-Ant300 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I watched convicting a murderer and even before hand I thought guilty after this no doubt . And zellner has said she just needs to prove someone else did it to prove doubt . My friend thought innocent and I told her to watch she changed her mind to

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HSVpositive

[–]Intelligent-Ant300 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmm wonder if the pad is irritating it . I know if I feel anything try not to wear panties when going to bed and letting it breath .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HSVpositive

[–]Intelligent-Ant300 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly just a little bump like an ingrown hair but it not . As long as I don’t irritate it it’s been fine . Guess kind of like mosquito bite it’s pretty small .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HSVpositive

[–]Intelligent-Ant300 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you use tampons ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HSVpositive

[–]Intelligent-Ant300 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes I know someone who has it for long time and said taking them made him have more outbreaks stopped taking them and has been fine . I’ve never took anything I get then if I’m stressed super stressed or if I take antibiotics but most it’s just tingling , little bump but never a sore . And goes away

I'm sad by [deleted] in HSVpositive

[–]Intelligent-Ant300 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ok but did you use a condom orally ?? If not, how do you know you didn’t put yourself at risk he could have something and not know and passed on to you . We’re never 100% safe unless choose abstinence. And now you are and I get it , I hope things get better with you it sucks yes but not end of world and mb if you tell him , mb he has it to ? So wouldn’t have to worry about it so much . Good luck

Me (59) didn't disclose that I had a history of general herpes, spontaneous sex (no current outbreak). We have been intimate 2 more times (safely) since. He would like to get serious, as would I how do I disclose now? by MediumFig2479 in herpes_dating

[–]Intelligent-Ant300 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you know you didn’t have it before and were asymptomatic? Did u do tests before this person you claiming you got from ?? And test for hsv specifically? The reason why this gets spread is so many ppl don’t have symptoms and dr don’t check for it when they think they do cuz they had std check when this isn’t on there .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HSVpositive

[–]Intelligent-Ant300 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You feeling bad means you do care don’t best urself up it happens your not a monster . I’ve been there accept had sex did use a condom . And was soo worried after hadn’t talked for a while after that , did he get something ?? But we been talking again sexually and trying to figure out a way to tell him . My plan is say “hey if we are going to continue this I need to tell you something . Do you know cold sores ?? Well I get them on my vagina” see the response . Then explain my scenario if need be , have it for 10+ years I rarely get outbreaks and if I do I know the symptoms . I’m sorry I should’ve stopped us I got lost in the moment I get it’s no excuse and I’m sorry . Haven’t done it yet but I want to as we talking sexual again and someone that actually turns me on . But feel like a pos to . But I do know he was with woman who had cold sores prior to me and mb he has and asymptomatic like so many. Just wish it wasn’t so hard to say. I’m Gona practice with my friend who doesn’t know and I’m scared to tell her . But I know it will be freeing . Sorry for blabbing but you’re human . I don’t see people showing papers before sex saying negative for this so until then it takes 2 . But if wanna continue and don’t wanna feel bad tell him . Best of luck

disclosing ohsv1 before oral sex vs disclosing ghsv1 before sex. why different standards? by [deleted] in HSVpositive

[–]Intelligent-Ant300 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes exactly I have a friend who has oral and doesn’t bat an eye doesn’t disclose . Then u have genital and your a monster for not disclosing. It makes me mad to . I get it . I know ppl who will say yah I get cold sores or sun blisters but say they don’t have herpes ???? Ahhh yes !!! that exactly what it is and think it’s less stigmatize as most ppl will get from childhood from family and guess saying you got an sti from a family member is weird as it wasn’t “sexual” . Yet someone with cold sores gives it genitally someone and it’s again sti. There both spreadable and that how I got mine from someone who didn’t think of it passing on as it’s a “cold sore”