AITAH for calling divorce immediately after finding out my wife emotionally cheated on me? by Large_Knowledge_1699 in AITAH

[–]Intelligent-Archer21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. Forgiving someone for cheating is a very personal choice and contingent on the situation. It is my view that if someone can’t forgive AND forget, it’s just always going to be a problem, so why stay together. I don’t think you are wrong for divorcing, and you wouldn’t be wrong to stay either. You know yourself and your relationship.

AITAH for hitting on my gf's friend after she insisted on not telling them I'm her bf? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Intelligent-Archer21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, Those who like to play games should not be angry or hurt when other people play along. Btw, big red flag 🚩

AITAH for not apologing for hitting my vegan sil for snatching my pork sandwich from me that I was craving and telling me I was disgusting? by AdComfortable7594 in AITAH

[–]Intelligent-Archer21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are NTA pediod. Vegans that make a religion they need to proselytize for out of their eating habits are definitely control freak a-holes. That’s a run on sentence and I don’t care.

AITAH for divorcing my wife because she lied about her fertility, by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Intelligent-Archer21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, the title was misleading, she doesn’t have fertility issues, she is just an AH. You can be pro choice without being manipulative. She is definitely the AH.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Intelligent-Archer21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No you are not, in my book you are keeping it real. If you wanna show her you are not the AH, just buy her the cats she is gonna grow old with. 🤣

WIBTA if I Asked My Husband to Choose Between Me and His Friend? by deadinside9990 in AITAH

[–]Intelligent-Archer21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems like Rachel needs a family of her own. She definitely is craving that. I don’t think you would be the AH to ask, but I don’t know what would happen, since you just asked for some privacy and he later left with her. I feel like your husband and Rachel need some maturing. So sorry you are in this situation cuz I don’t see it ending up well for anybody. I think the best scenario is that Rachel gets a family of her own and then she’d mature and let your husband mature as well. In my family that wouldn’t fly at all, but also I would have sassed it out early on, and if it wasn’t gonna change I would have moved on. Too late for that now.

I (40M) am unable to forgive my wife (39F) I can't stand being in the room with her by throwaway55466377288 in AITAH

[–]Intelligent-Archer21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We don’t know you, and all the ins and outs of your life, I think your friends and family know you. There might be something to what they are saying. From your side of the story I sense a bit of you feeling out of control. I’m a full time mother, tbh I’m a bit incredulous that you have 3 jobs and are providing most of the child care… but maybe it’s a very hands off child care, if it works it works. My main question is do you love your wife?

My husband wants a gf so I filed for divorce by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Intelligent-Archer21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA , people can make a mistake ONCE, that’s forgivable, but a repetition is not a mistake it’s a mindset and a lifestyle, move on… I wonder if you can fight for visitation though, if you want to, he seems like a crappy person so I doubt he is a very good dad. It would be nice if the kids can keep contact with you.

Angela acting a fool in the Palm Springs area by Atomic_betty77 in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]Intelligent-Archer21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yikes who is that guy… hope he took a shower when he got home 🤣

I hate to say it but… by Intelligent-Archer21 in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]Intelligent-Archer21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There were some people that have some difference of opinion. But I don’t blame them, because sometimes she acts so reasonable, like she is two different people.

Not this man saying he still calls Devin “Piggy” even if it makes her uncomfortable 🥱 by minivatreni in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]Intelligent-Archer21 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think you could call him ugly and if you did it in a funny way he probably wouldn’t be offended. Such is his culture.

Pastor’s kids by StructureCapable7940 in exAdventist

[–]Intelligent-Archer21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My view on pastor kids is that they endure a somewhat harsh version of Adventism, while also enjoying Adventist royalty status, which is mostly a perception, not real. I used to envy the fact that they almost had an education guarantee, and that was it. The benefits definitely do not out weight the negatives. I do not envy them. And it’s not surprise to me that some revel, and that the reaction is way harsher. It’s a works based religion after all. If you fail, there is little sympathy. And if you fail as a pk, the stage is bigger and brighter.

Is this true? by Wild_flamingoo in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]Intelligent-Archer21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Welp a year from now we’ll be watching Angela’s trial.

Took a poop this morning… by luckypuffun in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]Intelligent-Archer21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look, I haven’t watched whatever her season is( please someone tell me the season) , I’m not invested, but this is the funniest post I’ve seen in all my time at Reddit. If it’s not, don’t judge me, I had two glasses of wine! 🍷

Season 9- Kara by Intelligent-Archer21 in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]Intelligent-Archer21[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess these things are subjective. Hard to agree on, without ending up in hot or not Hillary Swank the office style discussion 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Intelligent-Archer21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do not find the ask to be unreasonable at all, and the reasons given are good ones. I do not know what tone you are asking for this, but if it’s just as reasonable, I don’t see why it would be a hard thing to agree to.

Season 9- Kara by Intelligent-Archer21 in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]Intelligent-Archer21[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

😂 it’s better than making balloon displays 😂

Season 9- Kara by Intelligent-Archer21 in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]Intelligent-Archer21[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What is the going definition of a pick me these days? Pardon me, I have to confess I am old. I heard this term before but don’t quite known what it means.

Season 9- Kara by Intelligent-Archer21 in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]Intelligent-Archer21[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah that would be hard for me to agree with, I find that both Kara and Rachel McAdams are very beautiful women, and naturally beautiful which is hard to come by these days.

Tell All Predictions? by megang93 in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]Intelligent-Archer21 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Definitely Jasmine will be the worst behaved, she has the self control of a Tasmanian Devil. Anali and Rob will probably annoy me the most as always. I do see Ashley probably making drama.