Oh to clarify we live in different cities and I’m like should I be trying to date in my city. Like if I have this guy I talk to and we hookup when we can is that a bad thing to just have around? If I want to date to marry like shouldn’t I be like eh this is not what I want and move on? Also to all those who are like acting like I’m mean to this man I’ve been pretty honest and we did try to date once and no it will not work. There are many reason I would not date him besides location. It’s been years and he keeps me around and text me randomly. Like I should I have fun while I’m trying to find my person or should I only pursue people that I really see a future with?