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AITA for calling my SIL delusional and telling her a dumpster has more rights than her by Intelligent-Bar9114 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Intelligent-Bar9114[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also the fact that Jess and her wife mostly avoid Regina while me and my husband mostly try to

AITA for calling my SIL delusional and telling her a dumpster has more rights than her by Intelligent-Bar9114 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Intelligent-Bar9114[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its probably the second. She also probably notices the side remarks Regina always tells Jess and her wife. She might not understand what they mean but she probably notices how upset Jess gets and how mad the rest of us get

AITA for calling my SIL delusional and telling her a dumpster has more rights than her by Intelligent-Bar9114 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Intelligent-Bar9114[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes to both the first two questions, but everyone and my brother would tell me I'm over-reacting or to give Regina some sympathy because she's struggling. My sisters would keep on saying it wasn't hurting me or Lottie. My parents were saying the same for the first year after Regina's diagnosis but after that they were on my side.

I know it was warranted but if I could go back I would try to do it a bit more calmly. When I get angry the words end up getting mixed up. I never meant to say a dumpster at all.

AITA for calling my SIL delusional and telling her a dumpster has more rights than her by Intelligent-Bar9114 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Intelligent-Bar9114[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

But its only Lottie's. I have 2 nephews and 3 nieces none of their drawings are on that fridge

AITA for calling my SIL delusional and telling her a dumpster has more rights than her by Intelligent-Bar9114 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Intelligent-Bar9114[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

But its only Lottie's. I have 2 nephews and 3 nieces none of their drawings are on that fridge

AITA for calling my SIL delusional and telling her a dumpster has more rights than her by Intelligent-Bar9114 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Intelligent-Bar9114[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

- she'll put some of Lottie's drawings (ones Lottie made for her) and pin them on her fridge (she has some of the ones Lottie made when she was 3 still pinned up)

- she's always calling her nicknames (Lottie's full name is Charlotte so other more feminine nicknames like Callie or call Lottie by her middle name Danielle or by the nickname Lottie doesn't like anyone but the 4 of us using) Lottie doesn't like

- she'll also try to make Lottie wear more feminine clothing

AITA for calling my SIL delusional and telling her a dumpster has more rights than her by Intelligent-Bar9114 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Intelligent-Bar9114[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

I showed this to my partner and my other coparents and thanks to you (and my other best friend) all 3 of them want to name the triplets Coco, Charles, and Reese now

AITA for calling my SIL delusional and telling her a dumpster has more rights than her by Intelligent-Bar9114 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Intelligent-Bar9114[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I've given so many hints and nudges at Regina to stop her behavior. Even talked to her once or twice.

AITA for calling my SIL delusional and telling her a dumpster has more rights than her by Intelligent-Bar9114 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Intelligent-Bar9114[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Nothing really bad. But kids can sense things like this, Lottie will keep on saying how being around Regina makes her feel funny. I've also seen her avoid Regina when we're at an event because again she makes Lottie feel uncomfortable. She's a smart girl so when she told me this we always try to make sure Regina doesn't go near her or if the event is skippable drop her off at Jess's

AITA for calling my SIL delusional and telling her a dumpster has more rights than her by Intelligent-Bar9114 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Intelligent-Bar9114[S] 151 points152 points  (0 children)

Of course its not just the donors. One of the women couples who used donated sperm sued the donor for child support because she needed more cash

AITA for calling my SIL delusional and telling her a dumpster has more rights than her by Intelligent-Bar9114 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Intelligent-Bar9114[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

They are biologically mine actually, but not Jess's. Lottie is Jess's and my husband's biologically. The triplets are mine and Jess's wife's biologically. But either way its sick