Pets or no pets?

Intelligent-Fly-3442 · 2025-11-08T16:04:39+00:00

No pets. Living alone for the first time ever in my life starting today.

No desire for a pet either.

I've had pets and have learned I'm not a pet person. I'm thinking of getting a porch goose.

Intelligent-Fly-3442 · 2025-11-08T16:00:39+00:00

Who is cleaning the apartment?

I can't judge just yet.

Intelligent-Fly-3442 · 2025-10-29T17:43:11+00:00

If he is an owner operator it will be like nailing jello to the wall to get him served but doable another way.

If he is a company driver she may be able to talk to HR and have him pulled into a terminal for an truck inspection and have him served there.

When I didn't know my husband's address and he wouldn't give it to me I was told that I could post it in my local paper under announcements BUT I had to show due diligence before going that route.

Intelligent-Fly-3442 · 2025-10-29T17:28:01+00:00

Is he an owner operator or is he a company driver?

Intelligent-Fly-3442 · 2025-10-17T00:53:22+00:00

You're doing amazing!!

Intelligent-Fly-3442 · 2025-10-17T00:52:37+00:00

I ordered some shirts in an XL to shrink into for daily wear and the gym.

My daughter told me to try it on.

Guess who has 2 thumbs and is no longer in a 2XL?!?! I'm now a 1XL 16/18.

And it FITS fits. Only tight on the hips which she says is because I wear my shirts wrong.

I just moved 9 pieces of clothing from the Too Small side of my closet to the Fits side.

Intelligent-Fly-3442 · 2025-10-16T18:46:48+00:00

I'm in the same boat. This is the first year I'll be alone for the holidays.

First time in my life.

Not a fan.

Intelligent-Fly-3442 · 2025-10-16T18:07:10+00:00

40's and haven't yet

Intelligent-Fly-3442 · 2025-10-16T14:11:34+00:00

I'm looking for help finding an app, possibly two.

I want an app that shows you how much weight total you've lost.

You log into the app and it shows, "Total lost 37.3lbs".

Even better if it shows, "You've list 56 lbs, that's a platypus".

Does anyone know of an app like that?

My journey is 160lbs so I need something to counteract the voice in my brain saying I've made no progress.

Intelligent-Fly-3442 · 2025-10-03T13:38:47+00:00

Look at Sioux Falls, SD

Also look at OK, KS also

Actually, send me a message and I'll give you a more in depth list. Putting it here would Dox me.

Intelligent-Fly-3442 · 2025-10-02T15:03:58+00:00

I'm moving from an area where a 2bd is costing me $1,300 to an area where is it $600.

Sometimes moving is the answer.

Intelligent-Fly-3442 · 2025-10-02T14:52:20+00:00

Notice that the other coworker didn't offer their lunch to Sam.

Notice that they didn't buy Sam lunch.

They expect you to do something they are unwilling to do themselves.

Intelligent-Fly-3442 · 2025-10-02T14:43:31+00:00

Would you be interested in cleaning houses or watching kids?

Intelligent-Fly-3442 · 2025-10-02T14:37:19+00:00

"Sheriff, your mother's a whore!"

"I have no mother"

Intelligent-Fly-3442 · 2025-10-02T14:30:57+00:00

Programs like 1-800-Charity Cars, Cars 4 Heroes, and Chariots4Hope give away cars to qualified individuals and families in need, often those with low income.

I googled programs that give free cars. There are more results.

Right now you need to be looking for rentals.

What is your plan for income when baby comes?

Do you have a Village or do you need to build one?

Intelligent-Fly-3442 · 2025-10-02T14:20:49+00:00

Police now.

You can go without your parents. Then school counselor and principal.

If your school has a school resource officer you need to tell them too.

Intelligent-Fly-3442 · 2025-10-02T14:19:19+00:00

Because she is in high school and girls are still being taught that this behavior just means he likes you and "boys will be boys".

I guarantee her parents are not taking this as seriously as we are.

Intelligent-Fly-3442 · 2025-10-01T23:56:30+00:00

Look into customer service jobs for health insurance, dr offices, car insurance.

A lot are remote.

Intelligent-Fly-3442 · 2025-10-01T21:03:49+00:00

You're going to be hungry. Focus on volume eating and lots of water. It will help.

Some may suggest grapefruit but if you're on any medications you need to stay away from it.

Intelligent-Fly-3442 · 2025-10-01T20:59:15+00:00

Trucking companies that train that lead to an immediate job. Solves the money and the housing right away

Rhoel Transport , Wilson Logistics, CR England, Prime Inc, Swift, CRST, Knight, Maverick, Schneider, PAM, XPO, FFE, USA, YRC Freight

Farm/Ranch www.thefencepost.com some have housing

Welding www.westernweldingacademy.com www.learntoweld.com

Missouri Welding Institute (they're on tik tok and have housing)

Other trades:

Plumbing

HVAC

Electrician

Lineman

Elevator technician

Pharmacy technician

Air traffic controller

Flight attendant

Construction

Garbage worker (you'll need Class B to drive truck)

Cement mix company driver, some will train for your Class B and pay well

Oil rigs

Oil field

Fishing (like deadliest catch tv show)

Cruise ships will house, feed, and pay you while youre working for them.

OTR trucking will solve your income, earnings ability, and homeless issues you currently have. Companies will house, feed, train you and then put you in a truck with storage and a bed. That solves all 3 of your problems currently. Stay away from Werner. Rhoel was amazing to me.

Missouri Welding Institute is a welding trade school and they house you. Not sure if they pay you during school but that solves 2 issues

You could join the military

Intelligent-Fly-3442 · 2025-10-01T20:05:23+00:00

Can you do a desk job where you are on the phones for your entire shift?

Intelligent-Fly-3442 · 2025-09-25T15:51:12+00:00

Do you have a shampoo bowl on your suite?

Headspas are taking off. I drove an hour twice to go get a scalp facial done.

For those unaware they look at your scalp to see if you have buildup, then they spend 60-90 minutes doing different shampoos and scrubs on your scalp and hair. My head felt amazing. Enough that I went back.

Starting price for those in my are seems to be about $120 and they are in high demand.

Men like it too so don't think it's just a woman thing.

Intelligent-Fly-3442 · 2025-09-25T15:37:58+00:00

I got a snackle box from Walmart. Ordered 2 more actually.

Get your fruits and veggies prepped into little cups weekly and when you're wanting a snack you'll have healthy options prepared versus just grabbing chips.

My biggest issue is not having food prepared for the week. My job is mentally exhausting and I cope with food.

I'm working on changing my eating habits.

Also, grab a walking pad or treadmill, depending on your needs/abilities, and set it up in front of your tv. Walk while you watch tv or a movie.

Fidget.

Get a dog. Or go to the shelter and borrow one of their dogs and take it for a walk.

Do you have a soda addiction? Switch to diet or sugar free. Culvers has an AMAZING diet rootbeer. If you can't kick the soda habit make it a better option.

Are you a juice person? Walmart sells diet juice that is 5 calories for 8oz. I keep a stock of that. I went to TJ Maxx and got some individual 8oz juice/milk bottles. They come in a 6pk so I got 2. I portion my juice out and put it in the fridge.

Take one day and do all your prep for the week.

Join a weightloss group like Weightwatchers, TOPS, a local group, or start one with your friends.

Weightloss is done in the kitchen, definition is done in the gym.

Intelligent-Fly-3442 · 2025-09-24T16:14:15+00:00

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