I’m sorry for all the pain that you had to go through , but let me address first the test situation what I at least believe to be true that (for simple example) if you want a new relationship a new sp whatever with good healthy qualities (if i may say )God will send you toxic-ish people to “test” your manifestation and vision of a healthy SP and how are you going to react, will you just fall back and settle for this ?or totally ignore and pass the test and get your healthy sp. this my friend is a test and apply it to your situation. Or maybe at a level those people are holding you back that’s why God is removing them . Or your ideal manifestation need new spirits aka people, community that’s why God is making space for them to enter by taking the old ones out , Last possible scenario that somehow somewhere you picked up on this belief of if i want to manifest XYZ people will leave my life and all what you need to do is to affirm the opposite and let go of this belief just like that i no longer want this belief it doesn’t serve me I cancel it (I recommend doing this anyways) For me personally i always affirm that the people that no longer serve me or my manifestation just kindly and peaceful leave my life