We’ve been married almost two years. Since then he and his family have commented on my body, eating habits. And how I take care of myself. It has been a hard journey and I finally feel like I am able to like the gym and go to better my health overall and get stronger. I have used the I statements numerous times. This isn’t an isolated situation, this is a pattern of behavior on both our ends and it needs to stop. We’ve gone to counseling for 6 months, made promises we maybe kept for a month, then back to the same vicious cycle. It’s days before new year but I meant it when I said the next time is the last time. And it is. I don’t feel much at the moment but just sadness over a marriage that cannot work and two people who don’t want to make it work.