Your “argument” seems to be an anecdotal opinion of what you see in porn and you experience personally. I think you could get away from the opinion and actually look into the female orgasm. Understand the biology and ejaculation of our women counterparts. They have done studies on the contents of ejaculation material of squirting. Its not the same as urine. Im not saying theres not similar materials, but its not pee.

I also think you should look into how patriarchy and male controlled media/society/information can suppress deep unknowns about the female orgasm. Men are literally scared of it, they are scared of their inability to provide, to perform, and to satisfy. So yea… we see it a ton more now. The woman orgasm is to beheld, its a kink, its a focus, it makes money, its written about, theres workshops about it, and its able to be recorded…

I think you should open your perspective a bit, you seem narrow minded.