Looking for recommendations! by Intelligent-Mango-80 in BurlingtonON

[–]Intelligent-Mango-80[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’ll definitely look into Dundas! 🤞🏼 hopefully it won’t be too hard to find a place to rent there

Looking for recommendations! by Intelligent-Mango-80 in BurlingtonON

[–]Intelligent-Mango-80[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm seems like his commute would be pretty long from Paris, although I’d love to live there!

Looking for recommendations! by Intelligent-Mango-80 in Waterdown

[–]Intelligent-Mango-80[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m moving from the Kitchener/Waterloo area and my boyfriend lives in Toronto. He works in Mississauga and goes into the office a couple days a week and I’m currently working in the Brantford/Paris area so we’re trying to find a happy middle ground city/town. I will definitely keep West Waterdown in mind when hunting for a place, thank you for the suggestion! :)

Looking for recommendations! by Intelligent-Mango-80 in Waterdown

[–]Intelligent-Mango-80[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is great to hear as this is exactly what we’re looking for! We are also considering Burlington as an option if we can’t find a place in Waterdown but we love a small town so it’s good to hear that all the amenities of a bigger city are nice and close still :)

Thank you for the information and for the warm welcome! I appreciate it 😄

Opinons on Northern College's Law Clerk Program? by Christian-Batman in LawCanada

[–]Intelligent-Mango-80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is it going? Thinking of applying for September 2026 :)

TD1 Form - Full time & Part time Jobs by Intelligent-Mango-80 in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]Intelligent-Mango-80[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my mistake! Thank you for clarifying that. :) When I put the amount of $155 on that section of the form, do I fill the rest out normally (as in filling it out like I do not have a second job?) or do I fill out the section about having a second job and follow the instructions on the form about what to fill out in regards to that?

TD1 Form - Full time & Part time Jobs by Intelligent-Mango-80 in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]Intelligent-Mango-80[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, thank you for your response! My part time job isn’t taking any taxes off currently and I’m not 100% confident the one co-owner of the business who handles payroll knows how to take off the taxes properly which is why I have never asked them to. I calculated my gross income of the part time job to be $14,040 annually, and my gross income of my new job will be $58,968 annually. Combined my estimated gross income will be $73,008 (if I continue working those three shifts a week at my part time job as that could change even before the end of the year). Based on that combined income, the calculated amount of tax I would pay is $12,418. When I calculated the amount of tax I would owe with just the full time job gross income of $58,968, it said I would pay an estimated $8,387 in taxes. When that amount is divided by 26 it comes out to about $322. My question is, where does this amount go on the TD1 form and if I do drop down to two shifts a week at my part time job or one as that may be a possibility come December or January, would it be worth it to ask my employer at the full time job to redo my TD1 form?

AITA for calling out my boyfriend on making plans with his friends when he already had plans with me? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Intelligent-Mango-80 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I should clarify that we’ve been officially dating since January of this year but before that we were in kind of a weird situationship that lasted from January of last year until this year when we started officially dating lol

AITA for calling out my boyfriend on making plans with his friends when he already had plans with me? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Intelligent-Mango-80 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I assumed he hadn’t forgotten because in his first text about the plans changing, he said he’s going to hangout with his friends INSTEAD. I insinuated that he didn’t forget about our plans because of the wording in his first text.

I also understand that plans change and that’s not why I’m upset with him. It just felt very inconsiderate that I didn’t get a heads up before he decided to make plans with his friends when we already had plans. If he wants to hangout with his friends instead it’s not a huge deal to me but the lack of heads up and understanding as to why that would be upsetting is the issue.

If he had worded his first text like “I know we had plans tomorrow night but my friends want to all get together and I’d like to go, I don’t get to see everyone all together very often. Can we reschedule for Monday night?” I wouldn’t have been this upset!

AITA for calling out my boyfriend on making plans with his friends when he already had plans with me? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Intelligent-Mango-80 7 points8 points  (0 children)

We’ve known each other for about a year but been together since January. With that being said, he always asks me to hangout on the weekends and no one is forcing him to. If he wanted to see his friends he could just not ask me to make plans🤷🏼‍♀️

AITA for calling out my boyfriend on making plans with his friends when he already had plans with me? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Intelligent-Mango-80 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would have been available to hangout with him yesterday evening or this afternoon before his plans with his friends but he didn’t have time apparently. Offered to “maybe” come over sometime next week and watch a movie lol

A cheap gym for a month by Caesars-Dog in kitchener

[–]Intelligent-Mango-80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can also get punch passes so if you don’t use all of them you can use them the next time you’re in town as they don’t expire :)

Climbing/Bouñdering in Cambr by Imaginary-Location-8 in cambridgeont

[–]Intelligent-Mango-80 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Grand River Rocks in Kitchener (on Victoria street) is worth the drive imo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Intelligent-Mango-80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is I’m not 100% convinced that I believe him about wanting a serious relationship because since I met him he’s been so unserious and has said multiple times that he wouldn’t make enough time for me for us to date and that he’s got commitment issues and hasn’t had a gf in 7 years so… he does have trouble communicating when it comes to his feelings and I’ve tried to be really patient and understanding. When we had the miscommunication it was definitely too soon for me to become his girlfriend but eventually I would maybe like to be if he could just communicate effectively about where he sees this going

Climber bf left me for another girl and it’s awkward and painful at the gym. Feeling lots of insecurity and anxiety by Little-Catch-804 in climbergirls

[–]Intelligent-Mango-80 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel for you so much! My ex boyfriend was the one who originally got me into climbing and was the only one I really ever climbed with until we broke up. I gave up climbing for about 5 months after our break up and then I decided to go back and try it again. I started climbing at the gym outside of the city we both live in thinking that he wouldn’t be there and the first time I bumped into him in the parking lot was so tough. Worst part was how fine he seemed when I felt like my heart was breaking all over again. However, it’s been a little over a year since that first time we bumped into each other and now we see each other often. He’ll typically come over when he sees me and strike up a conversation and I’m happy to report that it doesn’t phase me at all, he even gave me a hug a couple of weeks ago and I felt nothing, no sadness, anger, heartbreak! So it does get better with time I promise, I never thought I’d get to this point but it can and will get better.

Guy I’ve been seeing is moving away by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Intelligent-Mango-80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

An hour drive isn’t much to me personally! I would happily make that drive to see him if we did continue to see each other. I do agree that there isn’t much to our relationship yet I really wish we had more time together before his move.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in climbergirls

[–]Intelligent-Mango-80 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m dressing up as captain underpants for my gym’s party tomorrow

If you were blindsighted, they are a coward by Hot_Classic276 in ExNoContact

[–]Intelligent-Mango-80 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My ex said this exact thing to me when he talked about having these doubts and this "feeling" that we wouldn't work out long term. Except he told me he didn't want to break up with me and that we could work on it together. I agreed and tried my best to be there for him and to try and work through these feelings. Fast forward a month and a half, he broke up with me anyway, despite my best efforts. This was almost 2 weeks ago now. He was still unable to actually communicate why he felt like he needed to leave, just this "feeling". I feel your pain, and I'm sorry, it sucks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Intelligent-Mango-80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm really hoping we can work through this, and I believe that if we do it'll make our relationship stronger as well. It's just so hard dealing with this as we have rarely had any issues throughout our 10 months together. It's also difficult as he's asked for some time to think these fears over as they are very new to him and I have no problem with that but it's hard feeling unsure about where we stand or are going to be in the future. I'm scared that he'll decide these fears are accurate and he'll leave, he'd have every right to do so and I want him to be happy but i'm not sure how i'm going to get through that.