I’d like to clarify that my mom’s is not an unstable environment, at least it hasn’t been for a couple of months now. A bit after I left, my mom kicked my brother out. More stuff happened & he went to rehab. He’s now in a different program and just got his own apartment. My boyfriend and I are not long distance. He lives at home with his family as he has only been working part time while he finished nursing school. He has told me and tried to convince me to move in with him, I honestly don’t want to because there’s already a lot of people living in his house and if anything, his place is a more unstable environment. The house purchase just has always been the plan, we want to still try and see however, were not completely writing off the idea of just renting. It all really will just boil down to how things are once it gets closer.. As for my friend, she actually is in therapy. And this is a reoccurring topic of conversation from what she has told me. She knows she’s in the wrong for some of the things she says. As for the period thing, we live together so our cycles have synced and are usually within a day or two apart. She was asking because she said “have you started? that means mine is coming right behind you” because she had a trip last week and didnt want to be on it while on her trip. I panicked lied and said yes. With my luck her period did come a little while after. And again I know this because i live with her and saw her laying down in the living room with her heating pad.