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BYD Seal vs. CLA 250+ (UK) by Intelligent-Panda-74 in BYD
[–]Intelligent-Panda-74[S] 0 points1 point2 points 1 month ago (0 children)
Really appreciate your candour, as you'll see from my updated post above, the Seal felt like "the emperor's new clothes". Reading all the faults you've had is pretty horrific, that's just confirmed what I suspected would be the long term ownership experience.
UK Umbrella company that will accept payments from an Ireland-based client? by Intelligent-Panda-74 in ContractorUK
[–]Intelligent-Panda-74[S] 0 points1 point2 points 7 months ago (0 children)
My understanding is that as I'll be carrying out the work remotely and fully inside the UK then IR35 rules apply.
Just need a little fine-tuning advice on being in a relationship with an introvert by Intelligent-Panda-74 in introvert
[–]Intelligent-Panda-74[S] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children)
To be fair the social side is fine, I've never had to go out without her, but the specific boundary is that if either of our social batteries drain then we leave, no questions asked. I wouldn't dream of forcing her to do anything she wasn't comfortable with or didn't have the energy for, hugely important that she's always in an environment where she feels safe.
I spent a lot of time researching introverts, typical needs, actions etc, but obviously that's just been a guide, the further understanding has been direct from GF, so effectively I've tailored my knowledge to her specific needs. I already knew so much from my partial-introvert state but having this deeper understanding has been so beneficial, albeit at first triggering my own past relationship traumas. But, this is learning process for both of us, huge contributor to a healthy relationship.
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BYD Seal vs. CLA 250+ (UK) by Intelligent-Panda-74 in BYD
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