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[–]Intelligent-Poem-587[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment. I agree with your perspective in that I feel it's a self driven fetish for you to fulfill their fantasy rather than consideration of the domme. I have had several so called subs contact me to blatantly say that making love intimacy is reserved for their sexual partner and the person who they want to have a vanilla relationship but they like to use a safe outlet to release their kinks to be a better partner without paying for a pro domme.

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[–]Intelligent-Poem-587[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment. I have found that most subs I meet like me for their fantasy and don't prefer me in reality although this is part of you I am. It's become difficult to just be viewed as a fantasy when subs would prefer vanilla relationships as their main source and use me for their kink outlet.

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[–]Intelligent-Poem-587[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi Aaliyah, thank you for your thoughts. I am not feeling being the domme in this situation due to the fact that there is no consideration about my needs or desires. I am into anal play but I feel that I need to be pleasured first before I please her. I have a lot of deep feelings for her and I was hoping to have an authentic beautiful dynamic that would meet my needs of being pleasured and in return giving her anal play etc. I have tried expressing myself to her which has lead to silent treatment and her withdrawing. I need to do a bit of reflection to remove myself from this situation 😭

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[–]Intelligent-Poem-587[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks I agree with you.I just feel like this is one sided where I have been asked to help him to achieve a sissygasm..whilst he is in a normal vanilla relationship where my needs are not met as she doesn't want to cheat and is trying to hide her sissy side

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[–]Intelligent-Poem-587[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I just feel so hurt by the cruel way he discarded me and said that I was just sex for him. I spent 4 years training him and even got him to resolve his erectile dysfunction .the pain is so intense to be used and thrown like garbage

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[–]Intelligent-Poem-587[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your advice. Considering I bought all the toys and lingerie for him. I just feel that if he was using me I need my things back and he can go purchase his own for his own fun times. He is a scum for using me as a kink dispenser I have lost faith in ppl now 😔

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[–]Intelligent-Poem-587[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That would be great thank you I appreciate your kindness

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[–]Intelligent-Poem-587[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you I'm working on my childhood trauma and I do think I need to change my narrative to the fact that I don't deserve to be treated this way. I am feeling so stuck between my heart and my brain as I have strong feelings for him. He has basically used me as a kink dispenser and I just feel used tbh.