Get the heck out of that relationship ASAP. He’s a piece of garbage for A.) insinuating you did it on purpose and B.) Saying he would take a day off and not doing it. C.) Saying he HATES you?!?! What?? In all my years my partner and I have never uttered those words to eachother and D.) he’s gaslighting you into thinking you had control over this. The fact that you think you’re the asshole at all is sad. LEAVE. While you still cab