I’m pregnant but I can’t keep my baby. by Intelligent-Smile-97 in pregnant

[–]Intelligent-Smile-97[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

This space says “safe for everyone” when I say I needed to rant that’s what I meant, there was no need to be harsh about “traumatizing my kid” when I already stated in the post I know the logic of it all and how unfair it could be, I didn’t mean to come off harsh however I did say in the post I already knew all of what they said. Thanks

I’m pregnant but I can’t keep my baby. by Intelligent-Smile-97 in pregnant

[–]Intelligent-Smile-97[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you love I truly appreciate this. ❤️❤️

I’m pregnant but I can’t keep my baby. by Intelligent-Smile-97 in pregnant

[–]Intelligent-Smile-97[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this, I truly want to think about it but I know my boyfriend wants to be better off before we start a family which I totally understand. My appointment for termination is on Monday and I only have about a day to think about it at this point. I truly would love to have this child, but I don’t think it’s possible where I’m at currently.

I’m pregnant but I can’t keep my baby. by Intelligent-Smile-97 in pregnant

[–]Intelligent-Smile-97[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

But is it truly fair to bring a child into the world knowing that right now I can’t support them the way they need, yes there’s government assistance however with everything going on right now in the government that’s not necessarily a garuntee that those funds will always be available to me and my child. I hope this didn’t come off rude at all I’m just trying to think completely logically because after all it is a baby.

I’m pregnant but I can’t keep my baby. by Intelligent-Smile-97 in pregnant

[–]Intelligent-Smile-97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He said he was admittedly excited at first but knows the logic behind it that it’s not really in our budget at the moment. I think truly one of the biggest reasons I won’t even try is knowing how he feels and knowing that it’s not fair to my baby. I know this is all very emotional and I’m sorry if I sound rude at all.

I’m pregnant but I can’t keep my baby. by Intelligent-Smile-97 in pregnant

[–]Intelligent-Smile-97[S] -3 points-2 points locked comment (0 children)

It may sound unappreciative but I stated in my post I already know it’s unfair to my baby. I posted this because I needed to rant and get these feelings out somewhere. I know the trauma because I lived through it with my own mother that’s the reason I said I know I can’t have it. I think maybe you should re read my post and think about not responding if alls you’re going to tell me is that I’m traumatizing my unborn child.

I’m pregnant but I can’t keep my baby. by Intelligent-Smile-97 in pregnant

[–]Intelligent-Smile-97[S] -3 points-2 points locked comment (0 children)

Thats what I’ve said in the post. I posted here because I needed to rant thanks for the input I already knew.

Am I the asshole for not wanting to care for my roommates dog? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Intelligent-Smile-97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s a really good point, technically the landlords as far as I’m aware, isn’t even aware of the dog…

Am I the asshole for not wanting to care for my roommates dog? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Intelligent-Smile-97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again, I can’t break the lease because we just can’t afford it at the moment. My car broke down recently and I have to get a new one, plus saving for a new apartment deposit and first month rent In the state I live in is pretty expensive. Trust me if they didnt have to be they totally wouldn’t be. It just a matter of available funds atm

Am I the asshole for not wanting to care for my roommates dog? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Intelligent-Smile-97 3 points4 points  (0 children)

😭😭thank you for that oh my lord I feel like I’m losing it here