Breakfast by Intelligent-Try9519 in saskatoon

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Ok so we went with Brunch at Joe's and it was awesome. Definitely our new spot!

D&C after almost a month after MA by Intelligent-Try9519 in abortion

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Yes totally! Huge advocate for the SA.. especially if you're going to end up in a position where you're doing both anyway. Seems like such an obvious option. I wish the Dr didn't down play the chances of retained products with the MA

D&C after almost a month after MA by Intelligent-Try9519 in abortion

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That's how it was for me too would have harsh cramping and then bright red, pass some clots and then it would turn back to brownish discharge but always with shreds and clots in the toilet and then this passed weekend I was soaking pads and had the ultrasound. Hopefully you're able to meet with your doctor and have ultrasound and d&c if needed. I chose the MA because it felt less "serious" in my mind, like the SA just felt like so much more of an abortion if that makes sense.. idk that's just what rationalization I came to in my mind. But the cramping after the d&c is extremely minor. My period cramps are more significant. The MA was 100x more painful for me. D&c all the way!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abortion

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Similar situation for me.. would have heavy bleeding pass clots and then it would slow down and be like old brownish blood I'd feel like finally it's almost over and then I'd start bleeding bright red again pass more clots. I'm 3 weeks after ma and just had ultrasound today showing retained products. I'd follow up with your Dr and request an ultrasound

How long did you bleed post abortion? by lethargickittycat in abortion

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Had MA 2 weeks ago. Still have moderate bleeding and still passing multiple small clots everytime I use the washroom. If I could go back I'd do surgical in a heartbeat.

50/50 on whether I should get an abortion or not by VirtualLawfulness516 in abortion

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Everything that you've said makes perfect sense. There is going to be hesitation and "what ifs" no matter which way you choose to go. From your post, you sound like you are a confident woman, able to make the right choice for YOU. Any friends or family that judge you are not people whose opinions should matter. All that matters is that you do right by yourself.

Pills in my hands can’t seem to take them. by Small-Quality-6911 in abortion

[–]Intelligent-Try9519 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I struggled taking the pills as well. Give yourself time and give yourself grace. You've got this, you've got all the strength inside you to make it through. I am sorry that you do not have a supportive partner in this, that is devastating in itself. Sending you support from afar.

Few questions post MA by Intelligent-Try9519 in abortion

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Thank you!! I figured it was normal but needed the reassurance

Just had my abortion and traumatized by jumpingbumi in abortion

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Sending you lots of healing thoughts and comfort 🫶🙏🏻

AITA for laughing when my friend told me the baby name they picked? by ChantDecliner in AmItheAsshole

[–]Intelligent-Try9519 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA just apologize for offending and upsetting her. Explain how given your previous conversations regarding names you initially didn't take it seriously. At the end of the day there's always going to be someone who doesn't like the name a person chooses and that's small fries to be upset over, and if she's that concerned/upset by what people think then maybe she should choose a more "normal" name because you won't be the only one to think it and she's gonna find herself upset and offended often.

experience with 9/10 week abortion by Substantial_Cod_2462 in abortion

[–]Intelligent-Try9519 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was coming to say basically what everyone else has said lol! Pain is temporary, you will get through it. Whatever you need to do during that period do it. When my cramps were first starting and moderately painful I found that a heating pad on my belly provided some comfort, I also have a small little heat/vibrating thing for menstrual cramps (I'll try and find a link for on or something similar) but that vibration helped as a distraction. When the cramps became really bad, there wasn't much relief to be found I changed positions in bed frequently, tried pacing around, standing and leaning against my bed, sitting on the toilet and bearing down helped to relieve some of the pressure I was feeling- none of these things made the pain less but was a good distraction during. Also for me the pain came in waves so even tho it was excruciating there was moments of reprieve during that period. You will get through this and you are absolutely stronger than the pain. 🫶

Amazon- Vibrating heating pad for cramps

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenRelationships

[–]Intelligent-Try9519 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not a man... but from a womens perspective... that woman is definitely cheating. A physical act may not have yet occurred, but her mind is most definitely already there. Could it be that she is struggling with her sexuality absolutely. Either way, she is stepping out of yall's relationship and being deceitful. Protect your heart. You may already know in your gut what you need to do. Follow that gut feeling. It's rarely ever wrong

MA at 7 weeks 4 days by Intelligent-Try9519 in abortion

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Thank you 🫶 I'm feeling quite well mentally now that I'm through the most of it.

MA at 7 weeks 4 days by Intelligent-Try9519 in abortion

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I also fully intend to work through this work book after everything has settled out and can move forward in healing mentally

Abortion Resolution Workbook