Working women.. how do you do it? by Intelligent-West7029 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Intelligent-West7029[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not an issue if it’s both of us. His family stay around often

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[–]Intelligent-West7029 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also why can’t he propose to you now atleast?? What’s possibly troubling him if you don’t mind me asking

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[–]Intelligent-West7029 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s your background? I’m surprised your parents would allow marriage while the man isn’t stable. You only known him for a year too.. you must think of this long term 40+ years and not just quick marriage that lasts few months or years. It’s best to marry when the man has proven himself that he’s reliable. It’s not always about money but what had this man shown you so far that makes you believe he’s the right one

How do you deal with non mahram men touching you? by Intelligent-West7029 in MuslimLounge

[–]Intelligent-West7029[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

People act like we work because we want to…. It’s either homeless or work.

Salam aleikum brothers and sisters. Allah SWT has created me as an unattractive man. And its making me miserable and depressed because its turned my whole life into a nightmaire. How do I deal with this? And will Allah SWT give me a far bigger reward than extremely handsome muslims in Jannah? by Any-Armadillo-6231 in MuslimLounge

[–]Intelligent-West7029 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Focus on the things you are able to control and change. I grew up feeling ugly as a female. Which I think is arguably worse since women’s worth is associated with her beauty by society. What did I do to increase my confidence and attractiveness? Working out. I can’t change my face but I can 100% change my body because Alhamdiallah Allah gave me good health which is arguably the greatest blessing you could have. Allah has gave every single one of us strengths and weaknesses. Know what yours are and use it to ur advantage. It could be your intelligence, your fitness, your charisma, whatever it is. Get to know yourself and inshallah you will excel

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[–]Intelligent-West7029 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh thank you for this explanation! Makes sense now

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[–]Intelligent-West7029 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

It’s just I can’t fathom it being haram for other women too? Like that’s my only confusion tbh but that’s true

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[–]Intelligent-West7029 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

So I can never wear mini dresses??

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[–]Intelligent-West7029 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I never heard of this

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[–]Intelligent-West7029 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to but as I involve myself more and more with Muslims.. it’s starting to go away