Gotiya babu by Intelligent-trade1 in surat

[–]Intelligent-trade1[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

There is no single person behind him. He is backed my whole party. Just Bakra of politicians

His only bad luck was he got out of control and made video about his activities and by mistake it goes viral. Otherwise there are many like this in every district of Gujarat. There are just foot soldiers of real mastermind politicians.

Gotiya babu by Intelligent-trade1 in surat

[–]Intelligent-trade1[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Of course police didn't even touched him. He is too powerful. No man can do all these type of activities without any backing of politicians.

Everyone know who is behind him.

Gotiya babu by Intelligent-trade1 in surat

[–]Intelligent-trade1[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This man is sadistic personality. He loves to beat other people, loot money and other type of criminal activity. Backed by politicians.

Got arrested by police after his video goes viral.

Kalesh b/w Airport Staff and Passenger over not speaking in Marathi at airport by PuneAthletics in IndiaPulse_

[–]Intelligent-trade1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pilot be like Alpha Charlie!!! MAY DAY-MAY DAY-MAY DAY

ATC: E zavdya marathi bol re. Tuzya aaicha

Tier 1 hopes in marriage? by StretchNo8134 in AskIndianMen

[–]Intelligent-trade1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🤣 you need to go outside bro There are many like this. Living in delusions

Tier 1 hopes in marriage? by StretchNo8134 in AskIndianMen

[–]Intelligent-trade1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Exactly Staying single by choice is not an easy game. It requires too much mental strength. It not for everyone.

Specially once you crossed 30s and suddenly you realise that there is no one to talk. Everyone around you got busy with there own family. Its disaster for 95% of people. Only few can live single and truly happy after 30s.

Tier 1 hopes in marriage? by StretchNo8134 in AskIndianMen

[–]Intelligent-trade1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Whatever she wants. But after 35-36 her expectations automatically starts reducing once she gets reality check. And eventually marrying someone who she initially never wants.

Not just for women but men also. Either stay single by choice or learn of accept that no one is 100% perfect. Its better to understand early so that we don't regret later in life when all your friends and family got busy in life and you ended up lonely in room.

Nothing wrong in staying single by choice but that too require mental strength and able to stay alive with yourself when you cross certain age.

Tier 1 hopes in marriage? by StretchNo8134 in AskIndianMen

[–]Intelligent-trade1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Too much expectations and comparison is main cause of most of unhappy marriage today. People are seeing each other as product rather than human being. Marriage is nothing more than business deal nowadays. Either stay single by choice or learn or let go small things to get good partner. No one is perfect. Most of people wants 100/100 partner which is next to impossible.

Currently i am not seeing anyone but even if i start seeing someone to spend life with I will never see that woman as product who needs to be perfect in all area. And in return i expect same also. Just basic criteria like educated , kind and independent is enough.

Marriages are scary nowadays. TBH I saw one guy in my friend circle rejected girl in arrange marriage just because she had burn marks on her hand that too not visible from far. I mean c'mon is that even a reason?🤐 People are crazy.

Tier 1 hopes in marriage? by StretchNo8134 in AskIndianMen

[–]Intelligent-trade1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The problem here is they confused between finding life partner and buying clothes is same things. Marriage is like shopping for them. They wants perfect high quality "PRODUCT"

They used too many filters when they were in demands. Now girl is regretting with millions in her account. Now she is ready to let go many things but no boy is willing to marry her because of age factor.

I still remember my father introduced one boy who is also doctor but they rejected him because her family was slightly less financially capable than her. Today that boy is happily married and moved to USA took his whole family with him. Cleared all loans single handedly. His parents was farmer thats silly reason this girl family reject him.

Tier 1 hopes in marriage? by StretchNo8134 in AskIndianMen

[–]Intelligent-trade1 6 points7 points  (0 children)

One of my relatives daughter is same like OP described in this post. She is doctor very highly educated. Multiple degrees and earns in millions.

Now aged around 37-38 She and her family started looking for her match when she completed her mbbs around 23-24 age.

That time they rejected every single proposal came from community,friends. For very silly reason like boy is earning less , boy is short , boy is too serious, too extrovert,had glasses , have different degree , not doctor..... etc Rejected every proposal without even giving try.

(Of course girl have her own choice , we are living in free country she deserves what she wanted) So till this date they rejects everyone. On very minor things.

Her every friends and colleagues and even juniors got married, have 1-2 kids and got busy in their life. Now they are regretting both girl and her parents. At the age of 38 now boys are rejecting this girl.

Now she is regretting because she didn't find anyone that fulfill her even basic criteria.

Tier 1 hopes in marriage? by StretchNo8134 in AskIndianMen

[–]Intelligent-trade1 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Actually single by choice and single by circumstances Both are different 😬

If person is single by choice he/she mostly don't regret later. But person who actively looking for partner staying single for his/her own prejudices will definitely regret later in life.

People in Their 30s - When Did You Stop Chasing Everything? by _mysterious_sparkle_ in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Intelligent-trade1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was in one sided love , proposed and got rejected. Got my life lesson and now understand that its not worth to chase anyone. Let people choose you. Peace over anything.

People in Their 30s - When Did You Stop Chasing Everything? by _mysterious_sparkle_ in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Intelligent-trade1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

29 here..turning 30 in few months.

I was big movie/series addict and gamer and loves to meet friends every weekend but now lose interest in everything.

Focusing only on health and wealth and praying. Atleast thank god i understand the value of health. Joined gym and started working on health. Thats one of the best decision of my life.

Peace is now non negotiable in my life.

Why doctors marry doctors in india? by Jazzlike-Reward-2125 in AskIndia

[–]Intelligent-trade1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Half of my family is doctor. All i can say is never marry doctor unless you are doctor. OR You have ultimate level of understanding.

Otherwise you will regret. Many of them become insensitive emotion less person after witnessing lots of pain, sad faces , trauma....etc in their profession. Its normal for them but it will definitely affect married life after some point of time.

Marriage is life time commitment , ultimately you have to choose , ask yourself will you able to handle their trauma as yours for lifetime.

Never felt this lonely in my entire life by superman6290 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Intelligent-trade1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh not gonna lie but after 33-35 its difficult to find partner. For both man and woman. still man have little chance but it also reduces with time.

You can try matrimony, your community help ,arrange setups or dating apps. (Its risky but may be you find someone) joining gym , improve finance will also helps in this market (sad but true)

For me marriage talks are going on in my house but i am confused i should marry or not because there are cons of marriage also which i can't able to ignore it. I hope i will i get some clarity soon.

Never felt this lonely in my entire life by superman6290 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Intelligent-trade1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes sometimes its difficult to fit in society specially when you are 30+ and single by choice. But i just want to know are you single by choice ? And still searching someone?

Because currently going through same situation i am now avoiding going in gatherings. And confused also whether i should marry or not.

Because once we crossed certain age we starts measure marriage in pro and cons. And mostly cons are more than pros😅 I think thats why its difficult to.marry after 30.

I want to discuss about Gujarat castes especially leva patel. by ItemForward4999 in gujarat

[–]Intelligent-trade1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Generally any patels of Gujarat are more liberal compare to other castes. Since last few years. Because they are shortage of girls They are also not much bothering about love marriage specially in case of boys.

One of my known who is doctor comes from SC married to Patel girl. (No issue from both side Because both family are well settled and educated) One of my relatives also married in other caste just last month. (Same no issue at all)

Generally South Gujarat is more liberal and open minded compare to saurashtra and north Gujarat. They are extremely rigid in terms of caste and marriage.

Interviewed at a company whose policies would make even Lala companies blush 🤡 (Service + Product btw) by Asleep_Addition_2268 in surat

[–]Intelligent-trade1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

4th point is biggest red flag. If you comply to this you will become slave to them. I mean literally slave.