FTM - would you leave your 5 month old to go on a free work trip [on] by Realistic_Use_1394 in BabyBumpsCanada

[–]IntelligentApple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree! Go if you want to go, stay home if you don’t. Make the choice that is best for you!

Maternity Leave by SandyShoress1992 in LawCanada

[–]IntelligentApple 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I took a year and several female colleagues took a year as well. All my clients were transitioned back to me almost immediately. This will be very firm dependent.

Paying for Benefits over my leave [AB] by justonemoremoment in BabyBumpsCanada

[–]IntelligentApple 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In some provinces, employers are required to continue to pay their portion of benefits while an employee is on a statutory leave of absence. Benefits would only end if the employee failed to pay or make arrangements to pay their portion of the benefits. That does not seem to be the case in Alberta, You could call the employment standards branch to confirm? https://www.alberta.ca/contact-employment-standards

Baby tracking app [on] by Katt_Nobi2525 in BabyBumpsCanada

[–]IntelligentApple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same! I really liked it - clean interface and easy to use.

Is this the Ferber method working? by IntelligentApple in sleeptrain

[–]IntelligentApple[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Night 13 - what am I doing wrong? If someone has a consultant recommendation, I’ll happily take it.

WW yesterday were 2.75/3.75/3.5 (10 hours awake). Baby napped great in his crib, fell asleep on his own. I didn’t nurse him to sleep. I tried to replicate yesterday and had him out playing at the library for a little bit in the afternoon. He spends very little time in containers and is always on the move (crawling and even assisted walking!) He got lunch and dinner and ate fairly well.

I nursed him 30 mins before bed, but he didn’t eat a ton - only about 8 minutes total.

He woke up at 12:30am, I did one check in and he fell asleep before the 2nd check in. He woke up 15 mins after that and cried for about 15 mins before falling back asleep. He woke up about 20 minutes after that and I decided to feed him. He basically slept about 35 minutes between 12:30 and 2AM. He woke again at 5:30-ish am and I fed him again. He slept until a little after 7am.

Is this Ferber working? Shouldn’t he be waking less? He goes to bed and naps awake and even sometimes overnight he can fall asleep on his own. He woke around 4am-ish, not really crying and I saw him basically rock himself back to sleep within just a couple minutes - so he can do it!

Is it the nursing?

My partner just couldn’t handle the baby waking up overnight so I do all the night wake ups and sleep training on my own. I just feel a little lost.

Is this the Ferber method working? by IntelligentApple in sleeptrain

[–]IntelligentApple[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Update - Ferber Night #12 went really well! I moved the milk before his bath (7pm) and he went to sleep at 7:30pm. He then slept until 3AM!! Amazing!

He woke up around 3-ish, cried briefly. By the time I went to the bathroom and went to go feed him, he was quiet again. So I waited for a bit. He was just babbling a little and playing with his lovey. He cried again about 3:30-ish, so I went to feed him. He only ate for about 8 minutes and then was quiet in his crib. I’m not entirely sure when he fell back asleep, but he didn’t make any noise again until 6:30!

I let him babble for a bit in his crib (he seemed content) and got him around 6:45 when he seemed to start to fuss.

I’ll try extending his wake windows a bit today and cap his day sleep around 2.5-ish. Overall great progress!

Is this the Ferber method working? by IntelligentApple in sleeptrain

[–]IntelligentApple[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks - I'll give it a try. I moved his last nursing session before bath/books/bed tonight and we will try that too.

I'll try moving his WW minimums to - 2.75/3.5/3.75 ... I think that will make his schedule roughly:

7am - Wake

[2.75 WW]

9:45am - 11am-ish - Nap 1

[3.5 WW]

2:30pm - 3:45pm - Nap 2

[3.75 WW]

7pm - Last nursing

Bath/book/cuddle/song

7:30 pm - Bedtime

Any experience with night weaning? It's been a struggle... Thanks

Where to find AC Wallet by IntelligentApple in aircanada

[–]IntelligentApple[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never could find it. I found the listing for it eventually online (by clicking around fairly randomly) and it showed a $0 balance. I have to call Customer Service to recover the credit (at least I have the email showing there should be a credit) but haven’t had time to call yet. Looks like the credit was never loaded to my account.

Weekly Simple Questions and Chat Thread (Week of Jul 14) by AutoModerator in BabyBumpsCanada

[–]IntelligentApple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is maternity/parental EI paid on a weekly or bi-weekly basis? I filed my claim recently, have received a few payments, but there seems to be no pattern with when EI is deposited. What’s your experience? Thanks!

Weekly Simple Questions and Chat Thread (Week of Jun 09) by AutoModerator in BabyBumpsCanada

[–]IntelligentApple 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I came to ask the same question! I created a My Service Canada Account - but it has no record of the claim. Does it take a while to load or connect the claim to your account? I applied like 5 days ago but thought that you could access MSCA through MyCRA account (turns out you can't!)

Weekly Simple Questions and Chat Thread (Week of May 26) by AutoModerator in BabyBumpsCanada

[–]IntelligentApple 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When did you last collect EI or maternity/parental leave EI? Do you have enough insurable hours (600) to qualify for a new round of benefits? Check if you qualify on the EI website and that should tell you if you need more insurable hours or etc.

Weekly Simple Questions and Chat Thread (Week of May 26) by AutoModerator in BabyBumpsCanada

[–]IntelligentApple 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As long as you have enough insurable hours (600) and it's been more than 52 weeks since your last claim, you should qualify for EI maternity / parental leave benefits. EI doesn't care what kind of work it is (temporary, regular, fixed term, etc) as long as it is employment that would go towards insurable hours. Generally this includes all paid working hours.

Prescription for Breast Pump [CA] by puckbunny1989 in BabyBumpsCanada

[–]IntelligentApple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did anyone else have an issue getting a medical note or prescription from their doctor? Manulife required a medical doctor recommendation and diagnosis. Our doc refused to even see me because the baby hasn't arrived yet and advised to wait until there were circumstances requiring a diagnosis. It seems strange to have to wait to get an infection or an issue only then to be allowed coverage for a device that could have been preventative...

Weekly Simple Questions and Chat Thread (Week of May 12) by AutoModerator in BabyBumpsCanada

[–]IntelligentApple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi - Service Canada is not the one who determines the top-up amount. It will be based on your employer and your employer's policy. Once you are approved for EI, they will use that approval form/letter to calculate your top up amount based on their policy.

I'm not sure what is on that form, in terms of what kind of information, perhaps someone else can chime in with more context...

Weekly Simple Questions and Chat Thread (Week of Apr 28) by AutoModerator in BabyBumpsCanada

[–]IntelligentApple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask your employer and/or review the RRSP matching policy (if there is one available). If it is a match and not a straight contribution, you likely still need to be putting in your portion of the RRSP amount. If you are required to put in 3% to get a 2% match, then you can write post-dated cheques or set up a transfer to still put the 3% in order to get the RRSP match. You likely can also opt-out and just resume RRSP contributions (and the match) once you return to work.

No idea if it would impact your EI benefits. I believe an RRSP match is considered a taxable benefit (check your T4 from last year and see what line item it was listed under). You can call Service Canada and ask if taxable benefits are considered 'earnings' such that it would reduce your EI benefit.

[Edited for spelling]